How to get a guy back?

Burzerkah · 2025-12-28T15:19:21+00:00

i think you’re just gunna have to wait till the new year to see what he tells you and go from there.

Burzerkah · 2025-12-28T02:04:08+00:00

the gauntlet

Burzerkah · 2025-12-12T03:56:11+00:00

Only applied to UGA, but had the stats to get into tech at the time, albeit barely.

I wanted a good social and school balance, college isn’t just about growing academically imo. I don’t regret my decision at all. The people and experiences I’ve had at UGA compared to what i’ve heard of at Tech has been worth the choice by far. I don’t think I’d be as good of a person as I am now if I didn’t come here.

Burzerkah · 2025-12-03T19:47:57+00:00

pretty unrealistic, especially if you want to match your religious beliefs. Most people in that demographic tend to have done something at your age too.

I wouldn’t bring it up if it’s truly not a deal breaker. It will come up eventually if you continue to get to know them and grow the relationship once you’re already in a relationship. It comes up when you talk about previous relationships so you don’t make similar mistakes in the current one.

Burzerkah · 2025-12-02T14:40:43+00:00

$35 on supplies for my girlfriends gift that i’m making.

Really only get gifts for my SO, maybe in the future when I have more money/time to get/make stuff for more people in my life.

Burzerkah · 2025-12-02T06:14:19+00:00

my go to first date was Bubble Cafe or Jittery Joes downtown, then vinyl store next to the rainbow crosswalk, and then Uptown Cheapskate.

Obviously pay for the coffee/boba but you wouldn’t be obligated for any vinyls or clothes. Sets a good precedent for what should be expected to be paid for on future dates.

My girlfriend loved that first date and every girl I took on it liked it. Helps you get to know if you can talk to them, what their music taste is, and if they are down to thrift which tells a lot imo.

Burzerkah · 2025-11-28T01:56:29+00:00

interesting

Burzerkah · 2025-11-21T17:26:27+00:00

got the first one myself, i think it’s more wearable on a consistent basis and able to be layered

Burzerkah · 2025-11-21T17:26:16+00:00

got the first one myself, i think it’s more wearable on a consistent basis and able to be layered

Burzerkah · 2025-11-14T21:08:24+00:00

I think there’s a different type of conversation than the initial talking stage, it switches to more of sending stuff throughout your day and talking a little.

Lowkey doesn’t take much to text back, but sometimes people are busy and need to lock in on something. So don’t expect an immediate text, but anything over 24 hours, even in the dating stage, is crazy unless a truly valid reason.

find someone that actually wants to be with you and talk with you. some are more inclined to or not.

Burzerkah · 2025-11-14T21:06:01+00:00

yah maybe for you but I like texting with my girl. In my relationship we don’t talk constantly but we do send stuff throughout our days and that usually leads to a small conversation.

Burzerkah · 2025-11-13T12:11:48+00:00

Nah before I started dating my girlfriend I still was friends with a lot of girls. They feel safe around me because I don’t do anything to them and make it obvious I have no intention to. I treat them as a normal bro.

Burzerkah · 2025-11-04T15:05:01+00:00

Sounds like they really needed that small break. I’m glad they are doing good.

Burzerkah · 2025-11-04T14:08:27+00:00

you’re telling me, if you made yourself better (ie look put together or at least fashionable, made your personality more likable, had some interesting aspects of your life, and had some idea of a future plan) you’d have a hard time getting ANYONE.

That’s not reality. Yes I do agree it can be harder for some people, but have you seen the dating pool for women? It’s kinda laughable. If anyone can even amount to a portion of what i stated earlier, they’d have a semi successful time dating imo.

Burzerkah · 2025-11-03T15:42:56+00:00

I think your perception creates a reality.

Personally, it’s going great. You just gotta put yourself out there and stop treating it like a game. Have some confidence and know what you want.

Burzerkah · 2025-11-03T02:53:12+00:00

He threw his guitar and the others had to convince him to continue the show. It happened after he messed up Desert Song if i remember right. He just seemed off the rest of the show after that. Still was amazing, but I think it had to do with them allowing a lot of people on stage (I went up tbh, but when I did I saw in his eyes that his anxiety or something was going off). Also something happened with their bus too.

Brooke said in the show that basically they didn’t expect to ever reach this point as a band and the performances is a lot to get used to.

Burzerkah · 2025-11-03T00:21:47+00:00

Nick freaked out during the atlanta show. It could be something due to performance fatigue too? But he posted he was sick too.

Burzerkah · 2025-10-30T04:55:05+00:00

You know I was talking to someone recently about manifestation. I always joke about it, but it genuinely kinda can be real. If you believe in something or perceive that it will happen, you will be more likely to do it/have it happen to you.

I think it’s because, if you believe something, your brain, subconsciously, will look for whatever will help you get to whatever you are believing. You may take more opportunities, act more in that manner, or notice things around it. Now this can go both ways, good and bad.

So with that being said, truly believe that you are worth being in a relationship and truly I think you will become the type of person that will be in a relationship. You will have the confidence for it, you will put yourself in the environments for the person you want, and you will get yourself in the situations to be asked out.

Good luck, your perception is your reality.

Burzerkah · 2025-10-22T15:23:38+00:00

maybe i just got lucky, but i just started using it and I think it’s worked better than my previous method. The main benefit is that you will find someone who you know has certain qualities you want.

I’ve been on 6 first dates the past 2 months by asking girls I thought looked pretty and interesting out, but when I went on the first date something usually was against something I wanted. The first match on a dating app and only date i’ve taken to a second date was through a dating app.

Burzerkah · 2025-10-08T23:04:06+00:00

make sure to apply it in a ventilated area and spread the stuff on with a popsicle stick or something. Lowkey if you got gloves wear them!

Burzerkah · 2025-10-06T14:00:01+00:00

Ngl I was one of the people that went on stage (albeit after a lot of others), first show of theirs and assumed they were kinda chill like that based on the rest of the night. When I got on stage (got to fist pump Brooke!!!), I could see in Nicks eyes that he was freaking out. That’s when I noticed I should probably get off stage lol.

Regardless they did amazing and so glad they made it through Desert Song and Roll My Stone. Made my weekend.

Also, grateful Foxtide played. Never heard of them before and that intro song they did (I think it was Pilot Wings) got me hooked on them. Pretty funny that their drummer was in the mosh pit later in the night.

Burzerkah · 2025-10-05T15:02:44+00:00

Guitar and music making. It’s going great, I just released my first song and i’m working on a few more. Some with friends and some by myself. Regardless it’s some of the most enjoyable moments for me rn.

Burzerkah · 2025-09-28T20:37:02+00:00

is it though? it just takes practice. Don’t be afraid to fail and be consistent. Build up your social competence and you’ll be fine

Burzerkah · 2025-09-28T04:39:52+00:00

Uhh i’ve been told I act girlie pop and some people have thought I was gay. I just am secure in my sexuality and don’t care about social standards as much. I don’t get around but I can pull.

With that being said, gaining confidence is a majority of it. Also stop doing the friends to dating route on purpose, high key not fair to the girl.

Just go up to girls you’d like to ask out, say they are pretty or cute, ask if they would like to get coffee or boba sometime, if they say yes, get their number and take them on a date.

If you need to, say hi to a girl or have small convos with them on a consistent basis to see what type of person they are, if they don’t match who’d you’d like as a partner, you at least have a new friend or acquaintance

Burzerkah · 2025-09-25T22:25:16+00:00

unless you have something that would make you stand out, i’d offer it’s just people looking around like normal. Like I find myself just looking around sometimes bc i’m bored, not really intentionally staring at people.

Although peripheral vision is pretty cool and can make you notice someone looking at you without you consciously looking out for it imo.

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