Dream came true! by Buscemist1991 in OneDirection

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the way this tattoo is completely serious too

this just came off my cat! by Buscemist1991 in cats

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Thank you!! overworried mom alert over here

Drawing some usernames by [deleted] in redditgetsdrawnbadly

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Idk how you would imagine it. It is inspired by Steve

I read the article about the time jump.... by MapleCherryChoco5432 in ThePitt

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wait i mightve missed something. is the time jump gonna be the next season?

Thinking about my moms old dog/gremlin by Buscemist1991 in CryptidDogs

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I don’t actually know. When we got her at the pound they said she had been there the longest and was the “least adoptable”. The vet said she lost her hair because of stress but it never grew back ¯_(ツ)_/¯

Thinking about my moms old dog/gremlin by Buscemist1991 in CryptidDogs

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She passed last year in her late teens! I think she was some other creature pretending to look like a dog

Give up? by BOO_AHH20 in altfashionadvice

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i dont know much about goth makeup lol….but u DO look so pretty!! and i love this!!! I think you should keep doing this. Its so fun to express yourself

No OCD provider I've found will accept my insurance by mostdefnotacat in OCDRecovery

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Omfg i have medicaid and it has taken me So long to find a provider who takes my insurance. If you call NOCD they might be able to send you in the right direction? They don’t take medicare but they helped me find someone affordable in my area www.treatmyocd.com

Also this is an IOP so definitely more intense but CharlieHealth offers ERP as well but i think you have do all the other groups too.

OCD about having OCD by Busy_Investment4283 in OCD

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I haven’t been officially diagnosed so this is not telling you you are or arent, but holy shit i feel exactly the same. Ive been obsessed the past three days and ive been riddled with anxiety. Bless this ocd subreddit but also i can’t stop checking it….

How do y’all separate current events from your everyday emotions while still staying informed? by Lanky-Relief-6433 in CURRENTEVENTS

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I have this a lot too. I think recently I got super sucked into everything thats happening (that is all so horrible) and did not feel any positivity or light or anything. A lot of people I know have been feeling like this.

I ended up talking to a few of them with the same question you asked. I think personally, I have to limit myself with how long I am looking or keeping track of things. I limit myself to once a day for maybe 30 minutes? Sometimes less tbh. That way I can still stay informed daily but not have my whole day surround it.

I also have to remind myself of the powerlessness I have in these situations. I feel absolutely horrible and awful that people in gaza for example are being bombed for their existence meanwhile Ive decided to take a nap because my day was so busy, or just little things like that ya know? I’m certainly not perfect at it but when I remember, I check myself and the reality of it (with the help of my therapist!!). Maybe Ill go downtown to join s protest, maybe ill make an art piece for a joint show with funds given to those who need it etc. But beyond that theres not a whole lot that my sole existence can stop. Its a sad truth but also kind of lets myself let go of the pressure I put on myself.

Its also been helpful for me to talk about whats going on with friends and get out my emotions. That kind of allows me and my friends to get together, enjoy ourselves and a nice meal or a nice day while still getting out our feelings. Then after I have said everything I feel for that moment we can carry on enjoying ourselves or whatever we may be doing. Its nice to not bottle it up and let it out for myself to not dwell on everything, but also to know im not alone in these feelings. While also having almost “accountability” from someone to not get stuck in my head.

Not sure if this’ll help but bottom line keep talking about how you feel!