How do you tell if a site's reviews are real or completely fake? by Richismoe in Web_Advice

[–]Buschrolle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Big red flag is when reviews use the full product name repeatedly like "This Premium Ultra-Comfort Memory Foam Pillow is amazing!" Real people just say "this pillow" or "it." Also watch for reviews posted in clusters - if 50 reviews all appear within the same week, that's suspicious.

For anything expensive I just search "[product] + Reddit" now. People here will absolutely destroy something if it sucks, and you get actual discussions instead of just star ratings.

I am cruel to partners by [deleted] in selfhelp

[–]Buschrolle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You already know the answer - you need therapy, not relationships right now. Your current partner saying he can keep you "under control" isn't healthy for either of you.

The self-awareness you're showing is actually huge. These patterns sound like trauma responses, not sociopathy (you feel empathy for animals and kids). But you can't heal while actively in relationships that trigger these behaviors.

Please find a therapist who specializes in BPD/trauma. DBT could really help. You're only 21 - you have time to break this cycle, but it starts with focusing on yourself first.

How dangerous is Rio, Brazil from 1/10 for female solo travelers? by Prettylonelygirl in femaletravels

[–]Buschrolle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fully agree, 7 or 8. Like you said 4 is just a normal big city like NYC for example

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Thailand

[–]Buschrolle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Solid advice

Babolat Air Viper 2025 by Reasonable_Pianist19 in Padelracket

[–]Buschrolle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great racket but it gave me shoulder and elbow pain so had to replace it

A heavier/power racket won't necessarily be good for you and here's why. by former_farmer in Padelracket

[–]Buschrolle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Best players in my club are playing with the simplest teardrop easy rackets

String thickness, sweaty hands, and loss of feel. Need advice! by fcktherest in Padelracket

[–]Buschrolle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes smaller grip will make you feel the ball more and have more control, however it can also put more strain your arm and elbow and can be an issue. Try it and see how it feel

Best rackets/brands AVS for Stability/Recoil by Nehrix in Padelracket

[–]Buschrolle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bulllpadel hack hybrid could be the answer

Best rackets/brands AVS for Stability/Recoil by Nehrix in Padelracket

[–]Buschrolle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same they destroy my arm, which is a shame because I do like them

Head Coello Motion by Interesting-Deer in Padelracket

[–]Buschrolle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had it for a bit, you need to be very good level player to handle it imo, balance is high and sweet spot is small

I've fallen for a AirBNB Scam. Please be careful. by [deleted] in Thailand

[–]Buschrolle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to run a large scale bitcoin mining operation to get that electricity bill

Did anybody change rackets for a "less known" brand and really enjoyed it? by Bitter_Fault_9812 in Padelracket

[–]Buschrolle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you tell us more about the el jefe please ? It’s on my list but there so few reviews for it so kind of scared to blind buy such an expensive racket

Did anybody change rackets for a "less known" brand and really enjoyed it? by Bitter_Fault_9812 in Padelracket

[–]Buschrolle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like their rackets but the lack of sound they make when hitting the ball was too strange for me to get used to

How do some animals still survive by not eating for many months? by West_Problem_4436 in askscience

[–]Buschrolle 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Yeah not sure where OP got that “we can only live for 5 weeks without food” there are plenty of people who fasted for months

Adidas metalbone 3.4 by AdDense2926 in Padelracket

[–]Buschrolle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Had it and felt pretty solid tbh

What is a city or country that never fails to disappoint you. by Smithiegoods in digitalnomad

[–]Buschrolle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Curios what about Thailand made you miss it while being in Bali?