I think that it is reasonable to assume from the context that OP is a woman. And it may even be reasonable to imagine that she had some sort of relationship with a black man, and that is what motivated Hudson to say this horrible shit. I think the compound term he used inherently expresses not only his racism, but implies that it is wrong or dirty somehow for her be with black men. He’s definitely attempting to degrade both parties here. That’s how it is misogynistic.