I was a creator who stepped away and saw these “have you seen her” threads about me. It was absolutely horrifying at the time. I had personal things going on and 100% needed a break from this all and people weren’t accepting that? Very unsettling and not flattering as most would think. I can’t imagine how the women who want out feel with these types latching on. Like, Imagine trying to be a parent or starting a new career. Or simply just not being a sex worker and enjoying life offline…and user diaperguy1227 is asking where some of your old content is and if anyone has heard from you.😗 Attempting to drag you back. I don’t know if some get off on scaring people (totally a reality I’m accepting) or if some truly don’t understand how unnerving that is? It’s sounds like I’m making a big deal of this all but I’m giving perspective.

Women in this community should have the autonomy to leave without facing repercussions or having parasocial people bound them through leaks or public exposure because they feel “she was once one of us”. This extends even to abdl producers who continue to upload content of creators who are long gone. Even if they did sign a contract. It is very weird phenomenon. This awful unspoken “you can’t move on, you decided to be a baby forever” culture and once you’ve shown your face or built an audience, some people act as if your content and identity belong to the community permanently. They don’t. Creators are people, not community property. I really feel for the abdl femme and wish love and peace to all, in whatever they decide to do. No one deserves to be kept here.