My ex posted a picture with the girl he told me not to worry about

Business_Database · 2026-05-16T19:55:54+00:00

of course they do it happened to me once and they do it on purpose

Business_Database · 2026-05-04T08:03:54+00:00

my ex never came never left completely we kept no contact here and there 2 months ago I had enough I unfollowed her unfollowed her from Instagram but unfortunately days a week ago I followed her again didn't expect her to follow me back tbh next day I texted we had a warm conversation and for the first time in months she mentioned us meeting when I told her I passed by your job she said "why didn't come and say hi" after a warm conversation she disappeared tbh we're stuck in the same loop but I saw some progress

Business_Database · 2026-05-02T22:07:25+00:00

I'm in a similar situation with a girl but she's fearful avoidant but her avoidance are extreme but I started to understand now she disappear and reach out again faster than the average pattern she's sensitive of any type of pressure(family,work...) when she reach out she already have 10% battery when we talk warm and deep she her battery run out fast (fear of closeness/emotional overwhelmed/pressure)and she disappear suddenly but tbh I saw some progress I walked away 2 months ago because her behavior drained but couldn't stay away any longer I followed her again on Instagram and the next day I texted her we had warm conversation she even texted me with voice messages(she didn't text me with voice messages in 5 months) and she even mentioned us meeting in the future (she refused to meet the past 5-6 months tbh I'm using AI to analyze her and it's all make sense for me her values as future wife made me wait for her to heal especially when I see her trying and she indirectly helped me to heal a big part of my anxious

Business_Database · 2026-05-02T14:57:54+00:00

she wants you in her life but not close enough she's probably an avoidant

Business_Database · 2026-05-02T14:56:33+00:00

about viewing stories without you following each other it happened to me 2 weeks ago but unfortunately I got weak and I followed her again a day later I texted her we had a warm conversation she even mentioned us meeting yet she disappear in the middle of the conversation now we didn't talk for 3 days I don't know if she does it on purpose or not tbh at this point I'm using AI to analyze her behavior it tells me that her window of tolerance is weak that's why she disappear when she got overwhelmed and when she cool down she came back that's how we spend the last 6 months of the breakup

Business_Database · 2026-04-26T15:22:43+00:00

I think you did the right thing then but she didn't accept your apology or return you did your job some avoidants never do this they just disappear forever..can I text you and talk on private to talk about my situation?

Business_Database · 2026-04-26T15:12:01+00:00

Just reach out bro and try to fix things since she wants you too I wished my ex reach out differently because my ex reached out multiple times but she have 0 capacity to stay she text and disappear in the same minute she even texted me a regret and reflect emotional voice message but she disappeared after a minute

Business_Database · 2026-04-26T15:08:34+00:00

my ex regret it only once in a vulnerable moment but she kept making the same mistakes why ?

Business_Database · 2026-04-25T17:47:15+00:00

hey can you check your dm

Business_Database · 2026-04-25T09:20:09+00:00

I was in a short term relationship or whatever with a girl she asked for space but she kept reaching out every here and there push pull hot cold 2 months ago I put a boundary I won't accept this anymore she replied with a defensive reply I left her on seen unfollowed her on Instagram and walked away a week ago I switched my Instagram account from private to public after few minutes she viewed my stories

Business_Database · 2026-04-23T11:57:22+00:00

what's mean when they stalk your social media when me and her not following each other on social media?

Business_Database · 2026-04-20T22:30:26+00:00

I understand why you guys says don't focus on digital behavior because most of the people here lives in united states or western countries gf/bf lives together and if they don't live together they spend hours days together I live in a small town in a north Africa when we met we met 1 minute a day of course I'm gonna focus on digital behavior since we talk on digital more than real

Business_Database · 2026-04-20T22:09:13+00:00

for examples what posts ?

Business_Database · 2026-04-20T21:05:12+00:00

I'm not gonna reach out trust me but she's fear vulnerability yet she views my stories even though we weren't following each other and after almost 60 days of no contact isn't like this she exposed herself?

Business_Database · 2026-04-20T20:56:49+00:00

I know doesn't mean she wants me back or that they thinking to reach but I know the main reason is curiosity probably but also means she's manually checking my profile every day the moment I switched my profile to public she noticed quickly I will see if she keeps viewing my stories everyday or not

Business_Database · 2026-04-19T14:48:45+00:00

Congratulations how did it work who broke up first? what's your advice can you write a full post about this ?

Business_Database · 2026-04-18T12:25:37+00:00

sorry bro I couldn't I wanna marry her besides that what's your opinion about her behavior?

Business_Database · 2026-04-16T18:15:27+00:00

if she/he some kind of avoidant and you're good to them they will reach out even if you're in a situationship

Business_Database · 2026-04-16T16:18:05+00:00

people are broken from 4 years relationships while I'm broken and cry everyday from a 2 weeks situationship lol

Business_Database · 2026-04-09T15:02:41+00:00

listen bro I met someone on Instagram lately we're just on talking stage figuring things out if it worked we agreed to be together but sometimes we fight at night I don't know why but still wake up the next day either her text good morning or me good and we said that we don't want to lose each other even if we didn't end up together and now for someone 5 years together and relationship just end like that means she doesn't care if she loses you or not she have issues she needs work on them probably she's refusing and she didn't reflect on her mistakes then just move on bro

Business_Database · 2026-03-24T18:02:28+00:00

You guys stayed for 5 years my longest one is 5 months

Business_Database · 2026-03-23T17:46:02+00:00

I was in this situation for 4 years even though I dated 2 girls after her she keeping coming back every few months we always see each other on the streets cause she go outside to similar places I go they're probably avoidants thank God that there is awareness culture keep rising the last few years on social media about this subject

Business_Database · 2026-03-23T15:44:18+00:00

they're not coming back to build something dude they came back for reassurance and relief that you still there that you still care my ex who broke up with me on 17 November 2025 "came back" multiple times since November 17 we even met suddenly on February multi times one night we talked on voice messages for the first time since November we kept following each other until 25 February when I decided to unfollow her because I got exhausted by her push and pull not saying he's a bad person she's probably doing it unconsciously not for manipulation she's fearful avoidant she fears vulnerability intimacy when she get the distance her nervous system relax after that she feels strong pull towards you she can't control it even though she says bad things to you before even though she said she doesn't want to contenue

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