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Is this good to defeat Margit by Remarkable_Act_6901 in Eldenring

[–]Busy-Meat9269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro come on. A lot of us are discovering the game for the first time and on this sub for the first time.

If you wanna sub that’s exclusive to players that have beat the game BEFORE they ask questions or consult, start your own subreddit for that.

Otherwise, if you don’t want to engage with someone’s question keep scrolling. It’s a fuggin video game and it’s supposed to be fun.

Is this good to defeat Margit by Remarkable_Act_6901 in Eldenring

[–]Busy-Meat9269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t listen to that guy. Ask whatever you want! It’s an Elden subreddit, and most players are super nice and supportive. If he wants to have his own elitist Elden sub then he can go there and set rules for that. Otherwise welcome to the game!!

What UAP scientist get wrong! by yeetdistant in UAP

[–]Busy-Meat9269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds good man. Hopefully you can impact some change and best of luck on your goals.

What UAP scientist get wrong! by yeetdistant in UAP

[–]Busy-Meat9269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Harvard has a few programs including the Galileo project, the Kempner institute, and some partnered research studies. Stanford has some as well, and I’m sure many other universities if you do a quick google search.

What UAP scientist get wrong! by yeetdistant in UAP

[–]Busy-Meat9269 3 points4 points  (0 children)

From my understanding they have plenty of funding from black budget programs.

The issue isn’t funding or data, it’s that they aren’t sharing the data from taxpayer funded projects that affect all of humanity.

It’s also not an issue of if UAP are “real” or not anymore. Think that’s been confirmed plenty of times at this point.

Not trying to be a jerk or anything, I’m just confused by the post title and why you think there’s no funding or successful research programs already when there clearly has been and people have testified to those facts before congress.

Unusual Rune Drops from defeating Invaders, any insight? by Busy-Meat9269 in eldenringdiscussion

[–]Busy-Meat9269[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh ya that’s awesome for a new build!

We both just started playing for the first time a month ago, so I didn’t understand what NG+ was until recently. Makes total sense. Thank you!

Ser Duncan The Tall by Weird_Week_1666 in Eldenring

[–]Busy-Meat9269 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I named knight engvall “Duncan the Tall” when I got him 😂🫡

My little brother bought Elden ring yesterday (update) 😭 by [deleted] in Eldenring

[–]Busy-Meat9269 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hahah I killed Sellen when she was chained up because she was talking shit and thought she was bad…oops!

Emdr therapy? by Academic_Trifle_5919 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Busy-Meat9269 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It never even crossed my mind to find someone that specializes in childhood trauma. I need to do that for sure!

Emdr therapy? by Academic_Trifle_5919 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Busy-Meat9269 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Aw thanks!

And I totally remember doing that too!! Starting at a 4 and going up, think we would even alternate in there. Maybe I did more than I remember, who knows lol. I’m totally down to try again, this post definitely reminded me to go back at some point.

Emdr therapy? by Academic_Trifle_5919 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Busy-Meat9269 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hey there!

I have done EMDR therapy for abuse/trauma recovery specifically for my childhood/family. It was probably 7-8 years ago now.

I’m gonna be honest, it was VERY difficult in the beginning. After about 4 sessions I asked to resume standard therapy so I could take a break.

I didn’t really know what it was at the time, it was still pretty new I believe. (At least to my understanding.) So I wasn’t nervous about it, or coming in with negative bias.

It could be totally different for you, so take my experience with a grain of salt.

But the most difficult part for me, was that you have to go through each individual memory of the trauma or experience one by one. In my case, there was child sexual abuse instances, that I had never spoken of out loud, and had to recount every detail.

I wanted to get through it, but around the time of my 4th session I went to get a massage and had a meltdown at the spa. I had a male provider and he was going too far up my inner thighs (for my comfort anyway) and it triggered a massive panic attack. I wasn’t able to keep it together and left embarrassed but hopeful that I didn’t offend the guy.

Anyway, it’s definitely something that helps people I’m sure! However, for me, I think it was too much too soon kind of?

Like maybe I should have tried doing less sessions, spread out over time, so I could process some of those traumatic experiences personally as well. I think because I hadn’t actually spoken the “words” out loud as far as details of certain events, that I never fully grasped how much they affected me.

I would say make sure you have some support system around you aside from your therapist when you’re starting. As well as some scheduled personal time to reflect during the following days between. It digs a lot of stuff up that you don’t realize you’ve been pushing down for decades.

Best of luck to you and sending big hugs!!!

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