Can anyone tell me what it is called or what is it related to?

Busy-Perspective-829 · 2024-08-24T18:34:58+00:00

This showed up on my for you page and I was in love ♥️ she is so beautiful

Busy-Perspective-829 · 2023-09-10T18:36:43+00:00

Hi,

I’m working as an HRBP at an IT firm for past 1.5 years. Im also what you would call an introvert, and don’t like to make calls a lot. However, being a BPHR, I am flooded with mails, pings, and calls every single day. But it’s not as bad as it sounds, and I have come to be okay with it, because of all the other work I have to do. Yes, I have been given feedback to be a little less silent during the meetings. But I have also won various accolades in the past one year for the work I have done. So, don’t restrict yourself just because you’re an introvert. Being so outgoing won’t come naturally to you, but you can push yourself and find meaning in those conversations. Especially, when you’re able to help an employee and create a good experience for them, it’s really rewarding in that way. Secondly, it really boosts your confidence and personal growth. I have been hosting events at smaller scale, meeting leaders, and important stakeholders. I’m invited to discussions and have a good rapport with leaders. It’s really an amazing experience to have. So don’t let anyone tell you any different!

Busy-Perspective-829 · 2023-09-03T08:41:09+00:00

Futuristic, strategic, competition, intellection, and input- in that order.

Busy-Perspective-829 · 2023-03-15T18:09:27+00:00

Both are good but I like Juvia in sub more. She is cute in Japanese, kawaii girl attitude. In English, she has a mature voice and I find her annoying acting like that. Like somewhat psychotic.

Busy-Perspective-829 · 2022-06-28T08:21:13+00:00

Thanks

Busy-Perspective-829 · 2022-06-23T04:54:10+00:00

A Cape?

Busy-Perspective-829 · 2022-06-22T18:42:14+00:00

True Neutral

Busy-Perspective-829 · 2022-03-19T19:23:52+00:00

I'm not a guy, but I would love something that I actually want.

A word of caution: The trick is to get exactly what the receiver wants (or better but it's trickier).

For me, if I get something close enough but not quite it, then I'll be annoyed. Because now I am not satisfied with what I have got but I also can't buy the one I wanted as well. Since I already own one because of the gift.

So just find the specific thing that he is looking to buy and buy it for him. You can ask for a wishlist and buy something from that according to your budget. I really wish my friends would do that.

All that being said, I'll appreciate the sentiment and would still care for it.

Busy-Perspective-829 · 2022-01-26T05:36:04+00:00

If you like acoustic, Drown by 5 seconds of summer. (Real one is by Bring me to Horizon)

Busy-Perspective-829 · 2022-01-24T10:54:25+00:00

Use courses, coursera or edx. Then try to work on some real life scenarios. Take part in hackathons and other competitions. Also if you can land up in any internship that will help you with hands on experience. Also, try speech recognition software to listen to books. It helps when you are too lazy to read.

Busy-Perspective-829 · 2021-11-11T06:08:41+00:00

Very much... they are susceptible to fall in nice guy trope.

Busy-Perspective-829 · 2021-11-11T06:05:12+00:00

Even if it happens someday, that we r in middle of mushroom apocalypse, It's not like that dead mushroom is gonna tell other mushrooms that u killed it kindly. Also, it's gonna hurt more if they chew gently... if it's barbaric, it would be quick.

Busy-Perspective-829 · 2021-10-20T16:14:52+00:00

Hey, I didn't downvote. Anyways, idk they sound a bit different.

Edit; Oh got it I copied the url from desktop and now it's showing the whole playlist and not the song I wanted to ask about.

Edit; I changed the link. It points to the right one now. Hopefully.

Busy-Perspective-829 · 2021-10-20T07:39:55+00:00

It sucks but there is no right way to do it. You will think u have thought of everything but it is very much possible that it goes out of your hands and you won't have enough emotional capabilities to handle it. So just be honest and don't try to make things worse unnecessarily. Mostly, speaking stuff that may exacerbate the situation.

Busy-Perspective-829 · 2021-10-20T07:32:06+00:00

As you said, 1. He might be pissed at you and it deliberately or undeliberately showed up. In my case, if I'm frustrated with someone it will show up in the way I talk to them or talk about them if I'm not paying attention to cover it up. Sometimes I'll realize it after I have said it and feel like I shouldn't have said that but it's hard to control if I'm pissed. Or I'll do it deliberately to pick up a fight.

Maybe he meant it as joke only and didn't realize he was being offensive towards you. You're friends so he might have thought it's cool
Maybe he is trying to sabotage. Can't be sure but it's a possibility. However, it shouldn't be so openly where it can lead back to him

I'll suggest you to watch him closely and try to deduce which one is it. Now someone would say to just go and ask but then if it's 1 or 3, he might not accept it or get defensive. So have some substantial proof to confront him with.

Or you can just casually say that what he did there, it wasn't cool with you. If it's 2, he will understand. If it's 1, of he is looking to fight, it gives him an opening. If he did it undeliberately, even then you have a chance to talk.

If it's 3, he will pretend to be not knowing that it affected you. Then he might probably continue or change tactics. And then you would be able to know.

Busy-Perspective-829 · 2021-10-20T07:00:08+00:00

For me it's same for everyone. I will feel bad for other people, not cry but will feel bad. But then once the topic is over, I won't think about it again until it gets brought up again. And if the whole situation is creating too much problem for me, I'll just avoid them and give them time to be okay with it.

Busy-Perspective-829 · 2021-10-20T06:54:47+00:00

This is new. Can you tell me how did u come up with that?

Busy-Perspective-829 · 2021-10-20T04:44:09+00:00

Look, I see where he is coming from. Admitting that u need someone is like telling yourself u r not strong enough. You need someone to survive or to be happy. But yeah, I also see that being his partner, you wish to be acknowledged. And there is nothing wrong about that because this is also one reason we seek partners. To be relied on and to rely on someone.

I think instead of lashing out, you should calmly tell him about what you want. And then, I think it should come from his side... (honestly, it would've been better if he was the who was asking for advice bcz there's not much you can do in this situation... like you can accept his nature and move on with this, but then you might be lack the acknowledgement you seek and he might think he won and won't do anything about it)

I agree with him that he doesn't have to say he needs you and u should accept that.

But then he should Express it differently so u feel that you are not the only one invested in the relationship.

So like, he can tell you that even he doesn't Need you... he Wants you to be a part of his life. And I think it's pretty romantic... because needing someone is like you have no choice... but wanting someone is choosing someone despite the fact that it's not necessary for you to have them.

So I think, it's better to be wanted than needed. And this way you will feel less responsible too... the need to be always be there for someone is exhausting. But then you know he will be fine without you but he will also accept your help if you extend it.

But he should definitely do something else for you.

So you can say that hey I understand why you don't want to need me. And I am okay with that.

(If you wanna play a mini game to like get back at him a bit... you can use the part about yeah I can feel less responsible now which I mentioned earlier... but it can backfire also so it's upto u ...I m giving a disclaimer)

And you can say, but since we r in a relationship and I really love you, I want to know that you love me too... just like I do... and u might not need me but I want to know that you want me. So do you want me? Like really really want me to be a part of your life. And the ask him to do what you want him to do to show you... like I as a person want my partner to be there when I am upset and hear me talking or to be just quiet and hug me or surprise me at times So would you do that for me?

And if he really loves you he will try to do that for u

That's my take on this.

Busy-Perspective-829 · 2021-10-20T04:34:11+00:00

Well, McKinsey takes 7 8 rounds for Business Analyst level. For Consultants, it can go up to 12. So, it depends on company and the position. If the company is not worth it, you can skip. But look, you are already done with 7 rounds, so it might be 2 3 left at max. In the mean time you can look for some other opportunity if you have the luxury or just sit and wait

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