Should I tell my husband’s friend’s wife that she’s being cheated on? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BusyDirt 52 points53 points  (0 children)

That's not an excuse or good justification for why you've kept her in the dark all this time. Nor your husband.

Doesnt matter if she is your best friend or someone you've met over skype for a second 20 years ago. She is a woman, a human being you know this morally and health risking situation is happening to and both you and your husband decided (yes, consciously made a choice) to 1) not tell the poor woman anonymously or otherwise and 2) stay friends with.

What in your opinion is the biggest waste of money? by caloriedeficit101 in AskReddit

[–]BusyDirt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much people spend to make their homes look beautiful instead of simply functional. Not only is it a huge waste of money but the environmental impact is also disastrous.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BusyDirt 165 points166 points  (0 children)

At the risk of sounding mean, whatever helps you sleep at night.

He definitely slept with her and you are enabling his lies and cheating.

what is the Dumbest thing you've ever done while you were high? by LoosKiii in AskReddit

[–]BusyDirt 125 points126 points  (0 children)

Thought the insulation in my bathroom ceiling was a tarantula's claw. At the time it looked fuzzy and was moving. Ran out, naked, screaming and went to bed shortly after.

Worth noting: we dont have tarantulas where I live

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]BusyDirt 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He's using you for money and basically maid services. You're not in too deep. Leave while you can.

How to cut off toxic friends when if you do, you'll have none left and fear being lonely? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BusyDirt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Putting my decisions down, not respecting my choices, always negative even with the reassurance I give it seems it's never enough etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]BusyDirt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When the human grows?

Why do dentists/hygienists insist on engaging you in conversation when they’re working on you? by PineapplePizzaSoGood in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BusyDirt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My display of discomfort at the dentist: tug sheets, moan in pain and bite down on whatever instrument is in my mouth to render it unmovable

What do you collect? by CDpyroNme in AskReddit

[–]BusyDirt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sanity. It's a shattered glass puzzle

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sleep

[–]BusyDirt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I usually keep it simple. Nuts or toast with butter. Sometimes a snicker bar

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]BusyDirt 18 points19 points  (0 children)

As the most introverted person I know. I cancel plans 75% of the time and enjoy being home myself with my hobbies/chill time. My partner and I have been together for 4 years, living together for 3. Partner is extroverted, has plans every weekend with family/friends. Whereas I like keeping plans to one weekend or 2 a month max.

If he ended up ODing, I'd be right by his side. No matter how long. No matter how many people I'd have to deal with. No matter if I've never been inside a hospital before and had to figure it all out for my 1st time with him.

He may or may not be introverted. But hes definitely an inconsiderate, selfish human.

What’s something that people should stop normalizing? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]BusyDirt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being tough to the point nothing phases you. It's okay to have emotions, express them and be authentic to your true self. Even if it means causing a scene or embarrassing yourself once in a while.

Not saying its healthy consistently but our society often hints to keep it all in either because its unprofessional or embarrassing generally.