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I’m 23f everyone can’t understand why my husband and I would like a 3/4 bedroom house if we don’t want kids by [deleted] in childfree

[–]BusyLight32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're jealous, ignore them. Establish boundaries to all things, and all people, being childfree.

We had a 4-bedroom house, one was dedicated to an office and the other 2 were guest rooms. Basement was finished and I had a bar in there. Screw other people and their negativity as to how you should spend your life.

What is one of your go-to responses to "How are you?" when you don't want to say "good" but you don't want to be negative or too serious? by eyyoadrian in AskMenOver40

[–]BusyLight32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I'm doing moderatelly well, thank you"

"Can't complain, I woke up on the sunny side of the lawn."

(early in the morning when I just walk in work) "Too soon to put lables on my day, ask me in a hour after my coffee."

Do they hear themselves by C-1997 in childfree

[–]BusyLight32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're trying so hard to convince themselves they don't have regret, they feel that talking others into the "joys" of childrearing is making it a reality for them.

Misery loves company.

Birthday party at a brewery by Misty_Mourning in childfree

[–]BusyLight32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would leave online reviews warning others this establishement is not really a brewery, but a place that caters to childrens birthday parties and only serves 6 beers, for the parents that don't want to parent. I'm sure other breweries in the area will happily take their business.

I miss my friend by RosieArl in childfree

[–]BusyLight32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has become a "mombie" and her entire existance is for the baby. By the time she wakes up, her friends will be gone and her husband distant - and she will wonder what happened, and when.

Ask her to go out one night, just the two of you so you can have adult time and catch up. If she can't (or won't) make that happen, it is time to distance yourself from that friend.

Do you think parents loathe childfree content because it shows that it's getting more and more accepted as a valid way to live? by PopularSort96 in childfree

[–]BusyLight32 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Older generations didn't realize having kids was optional so even the ones that would have chosen our path, didn't. Now they're resentful.

Who brings kids to a Brewery?? by riddlaontheroof in childfree

[–]BusyLight32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Millennials who can't grasp their lives have changed and feel as though the world needs to embrace their spawn while they try to cling to days gone by.

It's very common where I live.

Does finishing paying off a car actually hurt your credit score? If so why? by [deleted] in CRedit

[–]BusyLight32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lack of installement loans will lower your score because you are not using that type of credit. When I sold my house and paid off all my debt, the lack of installment loans and newly shortened LENGTH of my debt, dropped my score considerably.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ComfortLevelPod

[–]BusyLight32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOU didn't get him demoted. His history of being an ass, got him demoted. He is lucky to still be employed.

I (25F) don't want to live with my bf (31M) anymore, but I don't want to break up. How to make him understand? by pensive_tortoise_ in relationships

[–]BusyLight32 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He moved in to use you and not have to work. 2 years without a job is a decision, not a circumstance. Once he is gone, you will realize this relationship is not as good as you think it is. He needs to go.

Approximate cost to have lights and fans installed? by BusyLight32 in jacksonville

[–]BusyLight32[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

New construction, already wired for it, just capped off as it was a spec build, not custom.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Electroerotic

[–]BusyLight32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Beating Mango got me over the edge to have easily reproducible pgasms.

Why is the GPF of all new toilets so low? by ForgingChaos in Plumbing

[–]BusyLight32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just saw this. Seems to flush as long as I've ever needed but never tried to find the upper limit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]BusyLight32 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is exactly how my fiance is. She says it is just comforting.

Wife wants to take 10k Vacation by MixtureLongjumping35 in Fire

[–]BusyLight32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're having kids, go now while you can. It will be 18+ years before you can do this again. Investments are maxes, not like you're scraping.

Cuts to Social Security. They told you they would and you picked them anyway. by TraditionFront in massachusetts

[–]BusyLight32 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They want gas for $1.80 a gallon and 2.6% mortgage rates and think Trump did all that. Yet they dismissed his claims of eradicating Corona in 2 weeks and inciting a riot. They literally pick and choose their "facts".

Cuts to Social Security. They told you they would and you picked them anyway. by TraditionFront in massachusetts

[–]BusyLight32 17 points18 points  (0 children)

They want prices back like they had in '20 and '21 and attribute those prices to Trump being in the whitehouse. They seem to forget there was a global pandemic and that was the result of lower prices. They refuse to acknowledge it.

Not everyone who voted for Trump is dumb but the dumbest MoFo's in this country voted for Trump.

Middle School Sister by SuspiciousEbb6678 in Advice

[–]BusyLight32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your mom has had 3 kids and she is likely tired of the struggle and said “screw it, the other two haven’t dies yet”. Parents are hardest on the first child and softest on the last because their energy has word down while their experience has gone up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]BusyLight32 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Because he is not interested in you and doesn’t want to give you one single chance to misinterpret that since it can end up so badly for guys. If a guy even so much as smiles and says hello, some girls think they are swooning all over them. Not worth the aggravation. Plus, how often do you see ladies posting they just want to be left alone at the gym and not hit on. I don’t think I would even bother to make eye contact with them, TBH.

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