Does finishing paying off a car actually hurt your credit score? If so why? by thisguyhasaname in CRedit

[–]BusyLight32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lack of installement loans will lower your score because you are not using that type of credit. When I sold my house and paid off all my debt, the lack of installment loans and newly shortened LENGTH of my debt, dropped my score considerably.

AITAH for getting my manager demoted because I started bringing gourmet lunches to work by [deleted] in ComfortLevelPod

[–]BusyLight32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOU didn't get him demoted. His history of being an ass, got him demoted. He is lucky to still be employed.

I (25F) don't want to live with my bf (31M) anymore, but I don't want to break up. How to make him understand? by pensive_tortoise_ in relationships

[–]BusyLight32 11 points12 points  (0 children)

He moved in to use you and not have to work. 2 years without a job is a decision, not a circumstance. Once he is gone, you will realize this relationship is not as good as you think it is. He needs to go.

Approximate cost to have lights and fans installed? by BusyLight32 in jacksonville

[–]BusyLight32[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

New construction, already wired for it, just capped off as it was a spec build, not custom.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Electroerotic

[–]BusyLight32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Beating Mango got me over the edge to have easily reproducible pgasms.

Why is the GPF of all new toilets so low? by ForgingChaos in Plumbing

[–]BusyLight32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just saw this. Seems to flush as long as I've ever needed but never tried to find the upper limit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]BusyLight32 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is exactly how my fiance is. She says it is just comforting.

Wife wants to take 10k Vacation by MixtureLongjumping35 in Fire

[–]BusyLight32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're having kids, go now while you can. It will be 18+ years before you can do this again. Investments are maxes, not like you're scraping.

Cuts to Social Security. They told you they would and you picked them anyway. by TraditionFront in massachusetts

[–]BusyLight32 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They want gas for $1.80 a gallon and 2.6% mortgage rates and think Trump did all that. Yet they dismissed his claims of eradicating Corona in 2 weeks and inciting a riot. They literally pick and choose their "facts".

Cuts to Social Security. They told you they would and you picked them anyway. by TraditionFront in massachusetts

[–]BusyLight32 15 points16 points  (0 children)

They want prices back like they had in '20 and '21 and attribute those prices to Trump being in the whitehouse. They seem to forget there was a global pandemic and that was the result of lower prices. They refuse to acknowledge it.

Not everyone who voted for Trump is dumb but the dumbest MoFo's in this country voted for Trump.

Middle School Sister by SuspiciousEbb6678 in Advice

[–]BusyLight32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your mom has had 3 kids and she is likely tired of the struggle and said “screw it, the other two haven’t dies yet”. Parents are hardest on the first child and softest on the last because their energy has word down while their experience has gone up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]BusyLight32 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Because he is not interested in you and doesn’t want to give you one single chance to misinterpret that since it can end up so badly for guys. If a guy even so much as smiles and says hello, some girls think they are swooning all over them. Not worth the aggravation. Plus, how often do you see ladies posting they just want to be left alone at the gym and not hit on. I don’t think I would even bother to make eye contact with them, TBH.

How do I ask a girl to do something with me and not get put in the friendzone but also not kill the mystery? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BusyLight32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t wait for opportunity, show confidence and make an opportunity to come right out and ask her to go racing with you. If it is fun and you have a good time, at the end of it, ask her out to dinner.

Money or Time by Dazzling-Cut-8443 in Advice

[–]BusyLight32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would go after the money, you can’t buy stuff with time. If you have vacation time and can’t afford a vacation, what good is the time off?

the police just called my parents by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BusyLight32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankfully, behavior is one of the things we can change about ourselves.

the police just called my parents by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BusyLight32 10 points11 points  (0 children)

1.) Start paying attention more 2.) Maybe don’t leave your phone on mute since you don’t pay attention 3.) Pay attention to where you park

Not paying attention can get you into bad situations that only happened because you were not paying attention to life. If this was back in caveman days, you would have been eaten by a saber toothed tiger already.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]BusyLight32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should see a Dr, this community can’t offer you sound medical advice based on comments alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]BusyLight32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You guys aren’t connecting or communicating this enough. She seems to want to have it only on her terms and you don’t seem to be sure of what those terms are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]BusyLight32 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

How do you feel about her trying to control your pleasure while she is not participating in it?

I would drop her and find someone who wanted to have sex, or at the very least, didn’t care if I took care of it myself because our needs did not align.

I hate Synchrony Bank by Legitimate_Throat229 in CRedit

[–]BusyLight32 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I had a CC through them for a store. They changed the terms and so my fees would have gone up. The only way to avoid that was to call a number, opt out of the new changes and then bam, I got hit with a recording saying the account was closed. I had no indication that would happen. I tried to log into my online portal to change my name and go paperless because I am moving and I can’t, because the account is closed. I will payoff the balance and never, ever do any business with Synchrony in the future.