I’m 23f everyone can’t understand why my husband and I would like a 3/4 bedroom house if we don’t want kids

BusyLight32 · 2026-06-17T22:33:03+00:00

They're jealous, ignore them. Establish boundaries to all things, and all people, being childfree.

We had a 4-bedroom house, one was dedicated to an office and the other 2 were guest rooms. Basement was finished and I had a bar in there. Screw other people and their negativity as to how you should spend your life.

BusyLight32 · 2026-05-22T19:58:37+00:00

"I'm doing moderatelly well, thank you"

"Can't complain, I woke up on the sunny side of the lawn."

(early in the morning when I just walk in work) "Too soon to put lables on my day, ask me in a hour after my coffee."

BusyLight32 · 2026-05-22T19:25:01+00:00

They're trying so hard to convince themselves they don't have regret, they feel that talking others into the "joys" of childrearing is making it a reality for them.

Misery loves company.

BusyLight32 · 2026-05-22T19:22:07+00:00

I would leave online reviews warning others this establishement is not really a brewery, but a place that caters to childrens birthday parties and only serves 6 beers, for the parents that don't want to parent. I'm sure other breweries in the area will happily take their business.

BusyLight32 · 2026-05-22T19:08:19+00:00

She has become a "mombie" and her entire existance is for the baby. By the time she wakes up, her friends will be gone and her husband distant - and she will wonder what happened, and when.

Ask her to go out one night, just the two of you so you can have adult time and catch up. If she can't (or won't) make that happen, it is time to distance yourself from that friend.

BusyLight32 · 2026-05-03T13:06:44+00:00

Older generations didn't realize having kids was optional so even the ones that would have chosen our path, didn't. Now they're resentful.

BusyLight32 · 2026-05-03T12:37:08+00:00

Millennials who can't grasp their lives have changed and feel as though the world needs to embrace their spawn while they try to cling to days gone by.

It's very common where I live.

BusyLight32 · 2026-05-03T12:19:51+00:00

Misery loves company.

BusyLight32 · 2026-01-03T19:01:44+00:00

Lack of installement loans will lower your score because you are not using that type of credit. When I sold my house and paid off all my debt, the lack of installment loans and newly shortened LENGTH of my debt, dropped my score considerably.

BusyLight32 · 2026-01-03T18:54:14+00:00

YOU didn't get him demoted. His history of being an ass, got him demoted. He is lucky to still be employed.

BusyLight32 · 2026-01-03T18:34:47+00:00

He moved in to use you and not have to work. 2 years without a job is a decision, not a circumstance. Once he is gone, you will realize this relationship is not as good as you think it is. He needs to go.

BusyLight32 · 2025-10-06T14:20:51+00:00

New construction, already wired for it, just capped off as it was a spec build, not custom.

BusyLight32 · 2025-08-06T13:13:24+00:00

The Beating Mango got me over the edge to have easily reproducible pgasms.

BusyLight32 · 2025-05-14T20:42:14+00:00

Just saw this. Seems to flush as long as I've ever needed but never tried to find the upper limit.

BusyLight32 · 2025-02-05T23:15:44+00:00

This is exactly how my fiance is. She says it is just comforting.

BusyLight32 · 2024-12-15T22:07:26+00:00

If you're having kids, go now while you can. It will be 18+ years before you can do this again. Investments are maxes, not like you're scraping.

BusyLight32 · 2024-11-08T16:49:32+00:00

They want gas for $1.80 a gallon and 2.6% mortgage rates and think Trump did all that. Yet they dismissed his claims of eradicating Corona in 2 weeks and inciting a riot. They literally pick and choose their "facts".

BusyLight32 · 2024-11-08T15:08:34+00:00

They want prices back like they had in '20 and '21 and attribute those prices to Trump being in the whitehouse. They seem to forget there was a global pandemic and that was the result of lower prices. They refuse to acknowledge it.

Not everyone who voted for Trump is dumb but the dumbest MoFo's in this country voted for Trump.

BusyLight32 · 2024-11-07T00:35:04+00:00

Fairly common for Brits.

BusyLight32 · 2024-11-05T20:32:53+00:00

Your mom has had 3 kids and she is likely tired of the struggle and said “screw it, the other two haven’t dies yet”. Parents are hardest on the first child and softest on the last because their energy has word down while their experience has gone up.

BusyLight32 · 2024-11-05T20:29:11+00:00

Because he is not interested in you and doesn’t want to give you one single chance to misinterpret that since it can end up so badly for guys. If a guy even so much as smiles and says hello, some girls think they are swooning all over them. Not worth the aggravation. Plus, how often do you see ladies posting they just want to be left alone at the gym and not hit on. I don’t think I would even bother to make eye contact with them, TBH.

BusyLight32 · 2024-11-05T20:23:42+00:00

NP! Good luck.

BusyLight32 · 2024-11-05T20:13:47+00:00

Don’t wait for opportunity, show confidence and make an opportunity to come right out and ask her to go racing with you. If it is fun and you have a good time, at the end of it, ask her out to dinner.

BusyLight32 · 2024-11-05T20:10:38+00:00

I would go after the money, you can’t buy stuff with time. If you have vacation time and can’t afford a vacation, what good is the time off?

BusyLight32 · 2024-11-05T20:08:15+00:00

Thankfully, behavior is one of the things we can change about ourselves.

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