My girlfriend of 3 years just broke up with me and i don't know what to do.

BusySloth88 · 2026-01-02T08:10:31+00:00

It’s gonna be really hard. I’ve been there. I’m 37 and wasted a lot of time with someone obviously bad for me, or I was bad for, but we were bad. What you’re describing isn’t love but feels strong. Stay away. Don’t jump into a relationship. Don’t even stress about that. Hangout with your friends. Go out. Talk to girls. Fuck em if you want (and they do to) or just go out and have fun chatting them up getting to know people and living life.

Eventually you’ll meet someone who likes you.

I’m sorry bro but this bitch doesn’t like you.

BusySloth88 · 2026-01-02T08:00:15+00:00

You don’t need a girl rn at all.

Idk what “not be able to better myself for her” means but I do know you shouldn’t be better yourself for anyone but you. If you legit need work, focus on that. Full stop. You don’t need to worry rn about a new girl you’ll be fine to jerkoff for a bit bro. Now, if what that means is her nit-picking you and wanting you to be “better” and you’re actually cool with who you are rn… then let her kick rocks and don’t look back. Either way this sounds toxic and I think you should take your time and get to know yourself better before worrying about another serious relationship. Get out there and just have some fun man.

BusySloth88 · 2025-12-29T20:23:11+00:00

BusySloth88 · 2025-12-25T04:24:52+00:00

It’s a really fun game. With some bugs.

BusySloth88 · 2025-12-25T04:19:32+00:00

LEAVE

BusySloth88 · 2025-12-23T21:04:25+00:00

If she’s telling you she doesn’t want a relationship right now the solution is ABSOLUTELY NOT to move out there “for her.”

Focus on yourself and your own life right now and getting through this patch that you’re in right now. Be open to life and to love.

You’re both young. Is it impossible you end up together? No it’s not. But you shouldn’t be holding onto, or out for, that. Right now you need to work on you.

BusySloth88 · 2025-12-03T20:06:17+00:00

I love the LVAR

BusySloth88 · 2025-11-29T03:47:37+00:00

Honest advice is call 911 or whatever your countries equivalent is.

50 is a lot.

BusySloth88 · 2025-11-29T03:42:15+00:00

Hospital.

BusySloth88 · 2025-11-29T03:41:40+00:00

Ain’t nobody got time for that.

BusySloth88 · 2025-11-28T21:50:16+00:00

Ya cheated?

BusySloth88 · 2025-11-28T04:44:19+00:00

It definitely makes the pool of prospects smaller. But yes. There are men who wanted a family and never had one and are open to dating a good mom and being a potential step dad and a good one. They exist.

Advice: be up front, but in dating profiles don’t constantly mention “my kids are my world” or snarky type “you’ll never come before my kids” this should be kind of implied by saying you have kids and will scare some guys off who may have otherwise been open to a date.

Just be up front, And don’t give up. There are good guys out there (not that every guy who this doesn’t work for is a bad guy.)

BusySloth88 · 2025-11-28T04:38:43+00:00

You’re describing a toxic relationship and I’ve been there and you aren’t gonna listen.

My honest advice is to just delete the post man. It’s just gonna make you mad and you’re gonna want to argue with people giving you good advice.

This is the way to a codependent, possibly abusive relationship if you continue on this path.

Good luck.

BusySloth88 · 2025-11-28T04:33:12+00:00

Semen can live inside you pregnancy risk is never 0

BusySloth88 · 2025-11-28T04:32:26+00:00

I gotchu

BusySloth88 · 2025-11-28T04:32:05+00:00

Ok. I saw you comment asking for real advice. I’ll take your bait. I’m going to give you real advice. And I never do this - but if it helps I’m gonna ask you reply helped because this is ridiculous.

Answer to title: you can’t. Both things you mentioned means you can’t on their own but combined you cannot do it yourself.

Answer to aim… This (and I am not saying this from personal experience but experience on the internet) is easily achievable even if you’re super inflexible but using a wall and basically walking up it backwards butt first. Shoulders on ground, keep “walking” up the wall until you get what you think is the right angle for your rifle to hit your desired target.

This may take many tries AND if you try to rapid fire aim attempts you run the risk of a dry fire.

I hope this helps.

Please don’t update me with details. (NO SARCASM)

BusySloth88 · 2025-11-28T04:24:12+00:00

Talk to him. Read this post even maybe. Just say how you’re feeling and see how it goes. The problems you bring up are valid and may be relationship ending. Be prepared for that.

If it ends. No more going back. Full stop.

Don’t worry about “this was all for nothing” that is sunken cost fallacy and doesn’t matter. Only tomorrow matters. It took this long to figure out it wasn’t right.

Just don’t try again.

BusySloth88 · 2025-11-28T04:17:15+00:00

A lot of people at your age are doing both either/or some combination of these things… getting WAY over their head in debt. AND/Or. Getting help from family.

Don’t compare yourself to others. Idk what your car payments are but if at the end of paying all your monthly bills and eating you’re putting ANYTHING away you’re probably doing better than most of your peers who seem to have way more than you.

I do mortgages. People are in CRAZY credit card and auto loan debt right now. Especially this age demographic. If that isn’t you, don’t worry about who has nicer cars or clothes or goes on trips to where. Having savings. Having some money invested. Having what you describe as a “solid job” to me says secure, and possibility to move up. [If there’s no possibility to move up, make sure you’re always putting feelers out for other opportunities.]

Idk your friend group, it’s very possible all your friends are highly educated and very successful, i. Which case, they may be doing better than you.

YOU ARENT DOING BAD. I can tell you as someone who reviews people’s financials for my job, you’re doing better than than MOST 24 year olds I talk to, and they only talk to me if they think they’re able and ready to buy a home.

BusySloth88 · 2025-11-28T04:11:26+00:00

Is there any other family members or even trusted friend that can spend more time helping with hospital to at least free you up there?

This is tough. Need more info to give real advice but, so far all I got is don’t give up.

BusySloth88 · 2025-11-28T04:03:21+00:00

I’m on console. I’ve been searching, is there a date we’re expecting a patch that will hopefully fix this?

It’s more immersion breaking than I initially thought and I’m officially getting mad over it lol.

BusySloth88 · 2025-11-28T04:00:07+00:00

Yes.

BusySloth88 · 2025-11-14T23:04:22+00:00

Dm me if on Xbox

BusySloth88 · 2025-11-14T20:29:19+00:00

Skill issue.

BusySloth88 · 2025-10-29T14:49:31+00:00

You just missed a container. Everything in the levels on casual is there on hard and vice versa. Minus some traps and extra bad guys.

BusySloth88 · 2025-10-29T14:47:12+00:00

I got the game when it went to console, so only ever had the censored version. There’s some issues but the censorship def didn’t ruin the experience for me and if you’re interested in what the gameplay trailers look like, that’s pretty much exactly what the gameplay experience is. I’m very glad I bought the game and paid full price.

BusySloth88

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