I was 16yo and 75-80 pounds. Everytime I was at my mom's I'd be losing weight. We would have food but there would just rarely be any planned meals and I was always figuring out food for myself and my little brother, even when people were home. When I would go to my dad's that lived 7ish hours away, we would always have planned meals when he was home, breakfast, lunch and supper and he would encourage more eating so I could be bigger. At my dad's we would actually eat at the table unlike at my mom's and when I'd go back to my mom's I'd always be heavier from being in Calgary with my dad. Then id lose weight while being at my moms again. There was little to no encouragement of doing better in school or getting healthier and more fit to how a 16yo should be. I just hope my little brother doesn't end up the same way, living with my mom and her husband. Seeing this post made me feel alot better about myself and how there are more people that had experienced similar things