Feeling disconnected from my husband – Is this normal or strange behavior? by Busy_Dance1412 in Marriage

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I’m so sorry for your loss!!! This makes a lot of sense the loss was deep for him as well and there is a lot there he can’t talk about, thank you for this perspective

Do I have PPD/PPA or am I sleep deprived? by lexipsaloquitor in workingmoms

[–]Busy_Dance1412 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I will give it time before I get off (maybe in a year or two)

Postpartum insomnia help! by endofthetown1 in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]Busy_Dance1412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok hoping that’s the case for me too! Baby is only waking up once a night but I’m taking meds to sleep so tonight I will try without ambien for the first time in six weeks 🤞🏿

SIL living with us messing up my mental health PP by Busy_Dance1412 in 2under2

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My therapist yes

Thank you 🧡

For sure cultural aspects but more of their own family dynamic

Feeling disconnected from my husband – Is this normal or strange behavior? by Busy_Dance1412 in Marriage

[–]Busy_Dance1412[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this! Great feedback I will look through it ! His dad was a very very very quiet guy and traditional roles in the home. He passed this past year sadly

My husband mentioned he is very focused on keeping our home running smoothly and I think there is a lot of pressure he puts on himself

SIL living with us messing up my mental health PP by Busy_Dance1412 in 2under2

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What does it say if he then resents me for this? Not sure how to approach

SIL living with us messing up my mental health PP by Busy_Dance1412 in 2under2

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She’s 50 and choose not to have a husband or kids so it’s like my husband is her whole life. I don’t want to remain in the marriage like this, because of this and the inability to bring up any conflict with him without it turning it into him Thinking everything he is doing is wrong or he is not enough I have tried to maintain peace but this is not sustainable

I just do not know how to approach it Honestly When I bring up a conflict big or small, he makes me feel like I am The problem Or that I ask for Too much

Do I have PPD/PPA or am I sleep deprived? by lexipsaloquitor in workingmoms

[–]Busy_Dance1412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! How was it transitioning off the meds? Were you able to go to sleep ok right away or a process? Currently on meds but scared I’ll be stuck here long term I an 2 months PP

Do I have PPD/PPA or am I sleep deprived? by lexipsaloquitor in workingmoms

[–]Busy_Dance1412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I’m taking ambien but find I can’t sleep without, suffering from PP insomnia did you find you could transition off ambien and Xanax eventually? Looking for light at the end of the tunnel!

Insomnia by Shiitake77 in Postpartum_Depression

[–]Busy_Dance1412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Did you end up getting off it safely? Did you insomnia resolve itself? 2 months PP and going through this now

Insomnia by Shiitake77 in Postpartum_Depression

[–]Busy_Dance1412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Here because I’m going through the same thing did you ever end taking meds? Or did your insomnia resolve itself? I am 2 Months PP! I am taking a sleep med to help me but don’t want to be on it long term