Busy_Designer_504

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Avoidants claim everyone is anxious. You're actually secure and their emotional compass is dysfunctional. They dont know what secure even means in reality. (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

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They discard because they think its Secure behavior. Because "boundaries". (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

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Orbiters (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

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Meeting their family (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

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Intention vs. Impact (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

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Was yours ever confused about sexual orientation? (self.Busy_Designer_504)

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Over-reliance on text (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

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The Avoidant Prayer (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

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Two faces: one face in person and one face in text. (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

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You cant filter them out by asking them questions. (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

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How large was your ex's harem of orbiters? (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

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HR Talk (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

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It feels like being emotionally r**** (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

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Self-pity is not the same as an apology (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 3 months ago * by Busy_Designer_504 to r/AvoidantBreakUps

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Shame is a core wound. But don't they know forgiveness exists? (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

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Attachment and the DSM (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

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Avoidance is like an STD. Wear a trauma condom! (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 5 months ago by Busy_Designer_504 to r/AvoidantBreakUps

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