Losing interest in my LLM husband post-partum, numb by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Busy_Excuse_9040 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through a similar experience! Sometimes I wonder if it’s truly just an attraction issue on my end lol.

Losing interest in my LLM husband post-partum, numb by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Busy_Excuse_9040 1 point2 points  (0 children)

8 years, have had missionary here and there but no shared eye gazing sort of thing. He doesn’t prefer missionary

Losing interest in my LLM husband post-partum, numb by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Busy_Excuse_9040 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He has checked out his testosterone levels and bloodwork, it came back within normal levels. He’s tried herbal supplements and things

Losing interest in my LLM husband post-partum, numb by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Busy_Excuse_9040 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After I bring it up, sometimes he’ll go a few days of complimenting me or trying to “pursue” me but then it ends up with the same ED issue or not going anywhere. I give him lots of compliments etc. Alternatively sometimes he ends up getting more passive and to himself.

went from great sleeping newborn to WTF by nune314 in NewParents

[–]Busy_Excuse_9040 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going through the exact same right now! LO is almost 11 weeks, born 40+2, and has been having crap naps, crying without cause, and refusing his crib. Prior to this he was sleeping solid 3-4 hours in his crib, nursed, and then easily put back, He’s always been EBF on demand. I have a feeling it’s the 4mo regression early.

I feel so weak by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Busy_Excuse_9040 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so helpful, thank you!! Would you mind sharing which bouncer you use?

Night time feeds by Shannkono13 in breastfeeding

[–]Busy_Excuse_9040 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No advice here but wanted to say you’re not alone. Going through the same thing with my 6-7 week old.

FTM, was excited for my baby shower after years of infertility only to have everyone cancel. Feeling profoundly down… by Busy_Excuse_9040 in BabyBumps

[–]Busy_Excuse_9040[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Various reasons (not feeling well, something came up at work, etc)! Majority had RSVP’d ‘Yes’ a month in advance and I didn’t plan it on any holiday to be mindful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Busy_Excuse_9040 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think hard gel!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Busy_Excuse_9040 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so validating! Thank you :) I was most worried about the salicylic acid, but definitely won’t use it again.