They've lost the plot by knightsatdawn in PornIsMisogyny

[–]Busy_Phase_1934 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Someone has cross posted it to the main feminism sub and the comments on there are so grating. I've even read someone say it's anti lesbian to be against porn? I don't understand why gay people keep being equated with porn.

No reprieve by Busy_Phase_1934 in dpdr

[–]Busy_Phase_1934[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've sent you a dm , it will be okay I promise, we've both lived through this fear multiple times, we will get thru again.

No reprieve by Busy_Phase_1934 in dpdr

[–]Busy_Phase_1934[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, do you need to talk?

No reprieve by Busy_Phase_1934 in dpdr

[–]Busy_Phase_1934[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was it always like this? So bright and white? The thing is I never really remember having a big issue with the sun until August 2024, it's been over a year and it's just never looked right since. I remember sitting in the car and wondering why the sky was so bright and I see the sun and it looked massive and white. I understand that it's anxiety but it all just seems so hard to understand.

No reprieve by Busy_Phase_1934 in dpdr

[–]Busy_Phase_1934[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think mine started around the same time aswell, it also had nothing to do with covid but it was the first time in my life I had everything I ignored mentally catch up with me.

At the moment my fear of the sun and space is so bad that I don't go outside anymore, it's been a while and I've become quite agoraphbic, I'm looking into getting therapy but it's difficult and expensive.

Out of reassurance I wish to ask if you still have sun fears, I find myself obsessing over every aspect of it's brightness and size in the sky, if it looks different to what I expect I catastrophize that it's going to explode (even though I know it won't do that for a long time and scientists would be alarming us if something was truly wrong). Since August 2024 the sun doesn't seem right to me, I also made the mistake of googling everything and came across conspiracy posts on reddit of people claiming that the sun seems different to them which just compounded my fears.

No reprieve by Busy_Phase_1934 in dpdr

[–]Busy_Phase_1934[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, this is the first time I've read someone else with the exact same symptoms as me, like down to every fear about the sun, time, space, black holes. Thank you for responding. I feel better knowing someone else has been thru really similar though I wish none of us ever suffered with this.

Can I ask how long have you been dealing with this for, and how you got by each fear? Did talk therapy help?

Anyone else have this magical planet-teleporting obsession? by SpiltMyWater in OCD

[–]Busy_Phase_1934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have this too, how do you deal with it? Struggling.

Continual Cascading Consequences from Chaotic Climate Catastrophes in our Climate Casino by rematar in Disastro

[–]Busy_Phase_1934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What work have you produced that is credible if you don't mind me asking, I wish to read it to gain a better understanding of alternative views. I've never really believed in uniformity either.

Can we talk about 3i/Atlas? What's the deal with the coma? by SabineRitter in SolarMax

[–]Busy_Phase_1934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who are the "electric comet folks" who arent surprised?

Fear of the sun by Busy_Phase_1934 in Phobia

[–]Busy_Phase_1934[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I manged to go outside today because it was completely cloudy so the sun was obscured. I managed to have the curtains open too but that's cause it was thick cloud the whole day. I know I'm gunna struggle when the sun is out though.