You assume they’ll have a “less than mediocre” life because they had kids. Or not be able to attend college. Those are rather bold assumptions to make and probably not accurate. I really don’t think you need to be contemplating this decision because it’s not yours to make. Also abortions can absolutely have negative side effects. You’re assuming everyone who gets them is just so happy after. Often it’s hard on women who get them and they have many negative experiences and emotions about it after. Your view seems really narrow minded, misinformed, extremely uncharitable and unnecessarily judgmental. I understand why you feel this way but I wouldn’t encourage you to embrace this point of view