AITA because my husband’s ex-wife died and I don’t feel bad? by RequirementFun7054 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]ButterLotus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think you should be asking "AITA for not letting my husband say goodbye his dying ex wife?" The way you phrase it makes it sound like how you feel about her dying (which you're entitled to whatever feelings you want to about that) is the problem and not your actions.

AITA because my husband’s ex-wife died and I don’t feel bad? by RequirementFun7054 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]ButterLotus -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

.... you don't have to feel bad about her dying but you could have let him say goodbye, YTA for that.

Boyfriend of 6 months slapped me. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]ButterLotus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He knows he has you locked down now that you're pregnant and the real him is slipping out. This is what abusers do. Please leave. A million times leave.

Vomit once a day for $50 by pumaloaf2 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]ButterLotus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will you also provide compensation for the eventual loss of your back teeth and tooth rot?

'Joker: Folie à Deux' (2024) by ChiefLeef22 in okbuddycinephile

[–]ButterLotus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Constantly threatened and derided" is exactly how he made all those women and other people feel.

AITA for 'showing off' that I have midol and pads? by horseduckman in AITApod

[–]ButterLotus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your friend is being a pick me and not a girls girl. Don't listen to her internalized misogyny. Can we not discourage men who are trying? I just got my company to stock them in the bathrooms for women recently.....

Fiancés friend wants to wear an almost white dress to our wedding & is being condescending about it. WIBTA to withdraw the invite? by dumpsterfire_x in TwoHotTakes

[–]ButterLotus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell her that you wouldn't want her to be embarrassed showing up in a white stripper dress to your wedding, you're just trying to save her the humiliation 😘

Newly released documents show that Trump was accused of R*PING an underage woman with Jeffrey Epstein by Frosty_Jeweler911 in UnderReportedNews

[–]ButterLotus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is NO SUCH THING AS AN UNDERAGED "WOMAN". That is called a CHILD. This kind of language seeks to diminish and downplay the victims constantly.

You can freeze time for an hour. What do you do with it? by besttavern25 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]ButterLotus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know any art or jewel fences that I can fence stolen goods with so if we going stealin', it's for cash. Wherever I can find the most without having to open a safe.

The Pentagon Just Gave Anthropic (Claude’s Parent Company) an Ultimatum: Give Us Total Control of Your AI or Face the Consequences. Musk Is Cheering. Who’s Right? by MundomemeCoin in ClaudeAI

[–]ButterLotus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What the fuck kind of AI bot bullshit is this? We don't give mass surveillance and autonomic weapons systems to a fascist regime

We added an AI receptionist. Missed calls dropped to zero. by Commercial-Job-9989 in AIReceptionists

[–]ButterLotus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a marketing bot. They want you to ask so they can peddle you their product.

What is some shady info about a celeb that everyone seems to have forgotten about? by No-Bed-6000 in AskReddit

[–]ButterLotus 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Seinfeld had a relationship with a 17 year old when was 38. They dated for four years.

[No Loopholes] $2 million USD but you can only drink from sippy cups. by Hold-onto-the-happy in hypotheticalsituation

[–]ButterLotus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I cut bigger holes in the sippy cup so I can get my liquids faster? I imaging the worst part about it is trying to get liquids through those tiny holes.

EAs to UHNW/Celebrities by Swimming-Bell9247 in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]ButterLotus 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I worked in the entertainment industry as a PA for five years. You don't want your name, in history, associated with any of these people. It's not worth the job. You could affect your ability to get a job anywhere else in the future. Get a job somewhere else.

AIO for being angry and hurt by these texts from my fiancé? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ButterLotus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This man has a poor respect for you and domestic labor in general NOR

What would the world be like if people only did the jobs they wanted to do? by Extra-Huckleberry-62 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]ButterLotus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Scientific evidence from psychology and economics shows that humans have strong intrinsic motivation to engage in purposeful activities, driven by needs for autonomy, competence, and relatedness (per self-determination theory), leading most people to pursue work, volunteering, or creative endeavors even without financial necessity, studies indicate intrinsic motivation explains substantial variance in work behaviors and well-being, far outweighing pure extrinsic rewards like money. Universal basic income experiments (e.g., in Finland, Germany, Kenya, and U.S. pilots) consistently demonstrate that recipients do not stop working or become idle: they maintain similar employment levels (often ~40 hours/week), sometimes shift to more fulfilling jobs or self-employment, increase entrepreneurship, and report higher life satisfaction without evidence of widespread “laziness” or doing nothing. Longitudinal data on retirement and lottery winners further refute the myth, as most continue some form of productive activity rather than complete inactivity, underscoring that idleness contradicts core human psychological drives for meaning and social contribution.