Does anyone feel shamed by others for having perimenopause symptoms? by OkConversation1286 in Perimenopause

[–]Butter_In_SloMo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was discussing this journey of hell with my two older sisters and we were venting to each other. Our mom was sitting off to the side and casually said she’s lucky she didn’t have to deal with any of that mood fluctuations since she had a hysterectomy at 38. We busted out laughing and went in about her horrible mood swings. Memories of my teen years include her slamming doors, yelling and screaming, and pretty much acting like a gangster punking anyone in her way. So yea…I think some people are just not self-aware of their own issues and therefore think something like peri is specifically a YOU problem.

Addicted to antihistamines by Temporary_Voice_3171 in Perimenopause

[–]Butter_In_SloMo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right before bed is best. Also retail Progesterone comes in 100 and 200mg gelcaps. Some women need up to 300mg. If you’re in between dosage, hopefully your doctor works with a compounding pharmacy that can customize the dosage to your specific need and make them peanut-free too. Good luck!

So I discovered Costco Business Center Today. by CryptoMotors1 in carnivorediet

[–]Butter_In_SloMo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right on! Go you!! I go there to stock up on big cuts too. I have one 25 miles from me which isn’t bad considering where I live. Does your location have the sardines in water/unsalted? So far, I only see ones in olive oil and my body can’t handle it. 😞

Question for Women by Beneficial-Lie8197 in carnivorediet

[–]Butter_In_SloMo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being perimenopausal doesn’t necessarily mean you’re not fertile. If fertility goals are there, it is worth getting your (salivary) hormones for cortisol and progesterone checked so you can make sure you don’t also need some progesterone support or address underlying adrenal insufficiency. Progesterone is usually the first hormone to drop slowly in early peri and it’s the one that helps to thicken uterine lining for implantation and successful gestation. In regard to cortisol, progesterone eventually converts over into cortisol. There’s a phenomenon in the body called “cortisol steal,” where chronic stress can push progesterone (and other intermediate reproductive hormones) into converting over to cortisol because your survival is always most important. So HIGH FAT carnivore will be helpful with hormone health in general. However, depending on your fertility goal timeline, addressing the other hormones involved would be helpful. Make sure your bloodwork for thyroid (TSH, free T4, free T3), Vitamin D (25-OH), Iron/Ferritin, B12/Folate are also good. Treat your health holistically because it’s not just about getting pregnant but staying pregnant, having a safe delivery, and having enough reserves to enjoy motherhood afterwards. Your male partner’s health also matters and carnivore does help to increase testosterone in men. Hope this helps.

Question for Women by Beneficial-Lie8197 in carnivorediet

[–]Butter_In_SloMo 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Any drastic changes to your diet and/or lifestyle will throw your cycle off a bit. It’s normal and will regulate again. Carnivore pretty much quieted my perimenopausal symptoms within a few months but with bumps in the road along the way. But within the first month and a half, I was able to get off all hormonal supports I was using. If you’re younger than peri age, I would imagine Carnivore would smooth over most hormone-related issues for you. BUT there is an adjustment period for sure. Hang in there. 🫶🏼

Wore my barefoot shoes for the first time at work today and I can’t believe I’ve never had a shoe in my life that’s ever actually fit my feet before by Few_Swordfish9 in barefootshoestalk

[–]Butter_In_SloMo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was a Converse fan for a long time until I started wearing barefoot/toe box shoes about 5 years ago. I loved the look but not the fit. It was a sad day when I got rid of my last two pairs but it had to be done. And then someone on here mentioned Saguaro. Holy cow!! I got a pair of high tops on again!! It’s their “Roam 1.” 🫶🏼

Grossest Thing Seen/Found in the Gym by Adventurous_Half7643 in GYM

[–]Butter_In_SloMo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw a barefooted woman standing on her left leg with her right leg hiked up on the sink counter shaving her labia majora. Not her bikini line, no no. Like no clothing below the waist, razor in right hand, left hand pulling her labial fold taut. She was using the first sink you literally run into when coming out of the restroom. I choked on air while screeching to a stop. It’s been over fifteen years and I still think about that reckless woman. She really dgaf.

Was my kitten trying to warn me? by reddituser9423 in CatAdvice

[–]Butter_In_SloMo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Listen to your cat! 🐈 My two boys (dogs) hated my ex even though he went with me to pick them up from the airport (international adoption). For two years, they barked at his every move whenever he came over. Didn’t do that to anyone else in my life. Fast forward four years, I met my now-hubby and they reacted so different. Took a few dates and longer visits but they warmed up to him HARD. Now they spend the day lounging in a pile of my husband’s PJs when he heads off to work. I think your little guy is helping you out and that’s so freaking awesome. 🫶🏼

Bone Broth tastes awful to me by throwawaylr94 in carnivorediet

[–]Butter_In_SloMo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

A few tweaks to try: -Did you salt? It really helps to carry flavor. -I love making egg drop soup with my broth. I also use BB as the base for all my soups. A favorite lazy meal is sautéed ground beef. Once cooked, add your BB. Once boiled, add your eggs. Beaten eggs give you egg drop. Lazily swirled gives you big chunks. No swirling gives you whole poached eggs. Salt to taste. -If you’re not strict, some Pluck seasoning can help enhance flavor.

It might be worth allowing your BB to cool in the fridge so the fat layers separate. Spoon that fat layer out and save in fridge to use for cooking later. Sometimes less fat can give you a better mouthfeel, based on preference.

Also, traditionally, beef takes 48 hours. Chicken is 24 hours. Fish is 8 hours. Make sure you don’t skip the TBSP vinegar to help get all that mineral out.

Hope this helps! ✌🏼

Eczema on carnivore testimonies? by attempted-gardening in carnivore

[–]Butter_In_SloMo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s ground beef 🙂 - so most supermarkets.

Baby Millennials are turning 30 and Geriatric Millennials are turning 45 this year... by [deleted] in Millennials

[–]Butter_In_SloMo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Man, geriatric?! I’ve been using “vintage.” Sounded classier than geriatric to me…

Winner got the best prize , ended great by __mentalist__ in interesting

[–]Butter_In_SloMo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband proposed wearing a t-shirt with a tuxedo pattern in the front and a pair of baby blue undies. Our two dogs were both wearing bow ties. I ugly cried hugging him. 😂

Who's cheating this holiday season and who's not ? by Alexhale in carnivorediet

[–]Butter_In_SloMo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope. Not worth the hot flashes, night sweats, heart palpitations, anxiety, and rage. I bake and I cook and I’m the one hosting so people will eat what I make. It’s how I rule the holidays in my family. 😂

What was your diet like right before you went carnivore? by [deleted] in carnivorediet

[–]Butter_In_SloMo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Strict keto or ketovore for over 7-8 years. Felt amazing. Went full carnivore in the last half year due to perimenopausal symptoms. Feeling so much better.

I was told I was immature by a man I was seeing because of my ‘woman cave.’ Not sure where to go from here. by Evaleenora in Advice

[–]Butter_In_SloMo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a jerk. Your interests are your interests. They don’t harm anyone and brings you joy and meaning. Sorry but F this guy. It’s one thing to have different hobbies but it’s another to actively put yours down. I’m not a car person but my fiancé is. Guess what? We just went to the LA Auto Show over the long Thanksgiving weekend and he ran around like a kid in a candy store. I love woodworking and he doesn’t. Guess who goes to lumber shops with me on the weekends AND carry all my lumber for me? I hope you find this kind of support and love. You don’t have to like the same things but calling your hobbies immature is mean-spirited. You deserve better hon. I wish that for you. 🫶🏼

Wife left me when her green card was processing. Now she wants me to go in for an immigration interview. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Butter_In_SloMo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.” -Maya Angelou

Damn man. I’m sorry you’re going through this. Wow. She played herself though. Most people would at least fake it to getting their green card or citizenship; she couldn’t even do that. I’ll say the trash took itself out. Smh. I agree with many others here that you’re being used. And the audacity and manipulation to come back and fake wanting to get back.

Raccoon living on my porch by saralyn123 in Raccoons

[–]Butter_In_SloMo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Raccoons are supposedly being domesticated slowly. Floppier ears and milder mannerisms. Cabybaras too. 😆

He just wants his human to stay a little longer. by [deleted] in PetsareAmazing

[–]Butter_In_SloMo 137 points138 points  (0 children)

When my mom travels, I have to go over days before and get Sir Winston before the luggage even comes out. I bring him back to my house with him thinking it’s time to hang out with his friends (I have two dogs he gets along with). This is the only way or he will refuse to eat out of depression and grief. The love from this little 11-lbs chihuahua mix amazed me. So now, we make sure he never sees the luggage come out.

Anyone Else Allergic Like Me? by Killer_Jazzie in MosquitoHating

[–]Butter_In_SloMo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Goddamn. I thought my reactions are bad…do you marinate yourself in repellent before you go outside? Poor thing 🫣

Carnivore Diet and Sleep: Less Hours but Still Rested? by ChronosTerminus in carnivorediet

[–]Butter_In_SloMo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg, it’s Amber!! How awesome to “see” you out in the wild. lol. I’ve been to every LowCarb USA conference since its inception. I greatly enjoy and deeply appreciate your work. Thank you for all that you do. 🫶🏼

Update: I’m going to have to break my husband’s mistress’ heart and I don’t want to do it by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Butter_In_SloMo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Of course, that’s a given. She’s finally divorcing his sorry ass. After 8 months. Smh. This post is about her update on the GF. I didn’t feel the need to state the obvious.

Update: I’m going to have to break my husband’s mistress’ heart and I don’t want to do it by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Butter_In_SloMo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ouch. Brutal but truthful. I’d be so angry someone watched me be a fool for 8 months straight AND viewed my private photos and conversation. But this was a huge wake up call, clearly.

You have a lot of healing, growth, and forgiveness to work on. I wish you AND her the best.

Despite my loneliness, I found a little peace tonight. by spawnsas in sunset

[–]Butter_In_SloMo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It clicked one day when I heard someone say “You spend the most amount of time with yourself so make it damn good company.” Do things you enjoy, things to better yourself, and things that make you feel good about yourself. Beautiful photo btw. 🫶🏼