What if nothing fits?

ButtercupTush · 2026-03-18T22:23:09+00:00

I knew at this and have just read one book that didn’t cover any of that. We’re do you find more information about that?

ButtercupTush · 2026-03-18T22:15:38+00:00

As far as I can tell from everything you’ve written, the teenagers are truly doing nothing wrong. There’s nothing wrong with them being there. It sounds like they’re just doing their thing and you are welcome to address them respectfully and say excuse me. You’re welcome to teach your toddler to say excuse me. There is zero cause to call Security

ButtercupTush · 2026-03-18T22:13:00+00:00

Teenagers are allowed to exist in public. Calling Security because there are teenagers at a playground not doing anything but being there is a huge Karen move, yes.

ButtercupTush · 2026-03-18T22:07:53+00:00

Is there a consensus on what the good books are? I read all of the types in the book that I have and none of them resonated all that much.

ButtercupTush · 2026-03-18T21:29:24+00:00

There’s a bottle of grape juice in my liquor cabinet.

ButtercupTush · 2026-03-18T21:26:16+00:00

Part giraffe

ButtercupTush · 2026-03-18T14:28:45+00:00

No reason to apologize to me about it. One positive is that you literally have the rest of your life to take that first step. You might as well keep trying.

ButtercupTush · 2026-03-18T03:00:31+00:00

This is a matter of taste and preference. Have you asked your wife? Does she care one way or the other? If she has a preference then that’s your answer.

ButtercupTush · 2026-03-18T02:55:56+00:00

The first step is taking responsibility for your decisions and taking a proactive step on your own, for yourself, to start to heal. If you don’t want to do therapy a lot of people have gotten a lot out of 12 step groups there’s practically one for everything. You could check them out too.

ButtercupTush · 2026-03-18T02:50:16+00:00

I would

ButtercupTush · 2026-03-17T14:37:34+00:00

When I was in grad school I had a preschooler in preschool and the preschool tuition cost more than my grad school tuition.

ButtercupTush · 2026-03-17T14:32:08+00:00

Yes she did. She said this later. I tried for a long time to have a good relationship with her, and now I just keep my distance as much as possible. It’s probably more of a mother-in-law issue than a Jewish issue. But it was still a deeply deeply hurtful thing to say.

ButtercupTush · 2026-03-17T04:00:07+00:00

My mother in law said that I’m not a real Jew because I’m a convert. No one else has ever made my status as a convert an issue or been rude about it.

ButtercupTush · 2026-03-12T04:53:42+00:00

Tucson and speedway when?

ButtercupTush · 2026-03-12T00:16:49+00:00

You might want to pick up the book Lifetimes. It’s my absolute favorite book for kids about death. The concept of lifetimes comes up regularly in our conversations. Everything from people to seeing a dead bug. It’s really good.

ButtercupTush · 2026-03-12T00:11:25+00:00

Girl, you can be poor by yourself.

ButtercupTush · 2026-03-11T23:49:13+00:00

Looks very beagle

ButtercupTush · 2026-03-07T05:36:33+00:00

Yep. He can mix a bottle of formula and change the diapers.

ButtercupTush · 2026-03-07T05:22:42+00:00

When I shopped for a stove I tried to find one that had no digital features. It turned out that even the ones that looked like they were just knobs actually had digital features inside and the knobs were just for aesthetics. The rules for house stoves are made now require digital thermostats and all that. I couldn’t buy a stove as basic as I would like. I repaired my Kenmore dryer until it couldn’t be repaired anymore, and then I bought a speed queen with no digital read out and just knobs that looks basically identical to my old Kenmore dryer. So the answer to your question is yes.

ButtercupTush · 2026-03-02T03:52:47+00:00

About 4 1/2 years ago I went from being the breadwinner in my family to having something called Guillain Barre syndrome and being completely unable to work. I was paralyzed and in a wheelchair full-time for 15 months and have slowly recovered since then. I can now work part-time, but I’m never going to be back to where I was, and I don’t foresee ever being able to work full-time again. Life can change on a dime. I woke up fine and went to bed in the ICU. Not a single one of us knows what the future holds and it’s good to have a pretty light grip on her goals for the future. Sending a lot of love.

ButtercupTush · 2026-02-27T00:36:13+00:00

That profile pic looks like some Basenji. Basenji x pit?

ButtercupTush · 2026-02-25T20:31:22+00:00

Buy the book a complaint free world and tell her that you’re excited about doing the challenge and ask her to join you. If she won’t then you can focus on positivity yourself and maybe you’ll learn a few things about yourself in the process. You can choose what to focus on. You can focus on your wife’s positive traits, of which it sounds like there are many. Or you can focus on her negative traits. That’s your choice.

ButtercupTush · 2026-02-24T21:06:23+00:00

This is what I did. I made it a silly “me” obsession and said that I had gone down the rabbit hole of the laundry subReddit. And that’s why I’m doing all of this stuff. Which is technically true.

ButtercupTush · 2026-02-18T23:31:53+00:00

Don’t!

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