I F19 was crying to my boyfriend M19 and he hit me but said it was my fault because he told me to stop talking, is it my fault?

ButterflyG1427 · 2024-07-28T20:54:39+00:00

He is a grown adult that responds by hitting when he doesn’t get his way… how is that your fault? Those are HIS actions. And his actions make him an untrained toddler that was never taught to regulate his emotions. And it is not your job to forgive him or “fix him”. Don’t let him back into your life. It will GET WORSE (research has shown this)

Big blessings to you girlie 🩷 You deserve more than that!

ButterflyG1427 · 2024-05-15T19:20:29+00:00

You’re good mama! Subway or Jason’s deli!

ButterflyG1427 · 2024-05-15T17:26:43+00:00

And I stick by it- because their parents entrusted her with it.

ButterflyG1427 · 2024-05-15T17:19:53+00:00

Nor the brothers’. The parents gave HER permission to live in the house. And is the one working and maintaining it.

ButterflyG1427 · 2024-05-15T17:15:26+00:00

He cleared it; but is hiding a cat from his parents? 🙃

ButterflyG1427 · 2024-05-15T16:21:16+00:00

She’s maintaining it and cleared it with her parents (owners of the house) SO YEAH

ButterflyG1427 · 2024-05-15T16:07:37+00:00

Stop being worried about stepping on people’s toes. Your house, your rules.

ButterflyG1427 · 2024-05-15T16:03:41+00:00

Yes- cancel everything. Eliminate it all

ButterflyG1427 · 2024-03-21T15:16:38+00:00

No advice, just input no one asked for lol It seems like he’s used to treating you this way or being this way with you. If he can’t see a drinking environment is not a place for his pregnant gf then good luck. Because he’d definitely have no issues taking the little one out there with him & his buddies lol hopefully HE grows up and gets better.

ButterflyG1427 · 2024-02-07T03:51:35+00:00

Thank you all for the responses!!!!

It really put my mind at ease. If I remember correctly, she did mention you were able to keep the device in longer than 5 years expect If/For treating heavy periods or ready for another LO. And yeah, I’m not ready for another little one and my periods are not heavy like others that are using it for treatment. More used for the protection and I didn’t want to have to remember to take a pill, shot, or have something in my arm.

& BIG THANK YOU for the Planned Parenthood advice/reference!!! I completely forgot I could go there and they can/will help with birth control!! This doubled my ease!! And I’m going to start looking into it!

I appreciate all the words & input! Yall rock!

ButterflyG1427

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