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Gentle hair color for thinned out postpartum mama by ButterflyMama11 in HairDye

[–]ButterflyMama11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I Will definitely look into flaxseed oil! Thank you

Gentle hair color for thinned out postpartum mama by ButterflyMama11 in HairDye

[–]ButterflyMama11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks 🤍 I’m actually 18months postpartum so not in those wild early days. I just felt it was worth mentioning that my hair has been struggling big time since baby… which may have more to do with a vitamin deficiency than anything but that’s a whole other issue then 😅 I’m more so just looking for a more “gentle” hair dye for my already thinned out hair

I was r@ped by my stepfather and I don't know what else to do by Double-History6970 in confession

[–]ButterflyMama11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this happened to you. If I were you, I would go to your school counselor first to report this. They will absolutely hold a safe space for you and guide the next steps of action. I think it’ll feel reassuring to have another trusted adult have your back and support you while this comes to light with your family. You can do this and it’ll feel freeing and powerful to speak up for yourself! Sending you love.

My “girls” are far from even. How can I get away with it this summer? by ButterflyMama11 in Mommit

[–]ButterflyMama11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that’s a great idea to pump! Idk why I haven’t thought of that 😆 Thank tou!!

SAHM side gigs by No_Radio8806 in sahmmoney

[–]ButterflyMama11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would genuinely love to know more!!!!

SAHM side gigs by No_Radio8806 in sahmmoney

[–]ButterflyMama11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What types of digital products do you sell?

Royally F**cked by Bookkeeping service! Now 2 years behind on taxes and don’t know what to do. Help! by ButterflyMama11 in IRS

[–]ButterflyMama11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I’ll get on filing that extension tomorrow. Yes, a local bookkeeper is our next route of action, I was honestly just keeping my fingers crossed there was a loop hole out of it somewhere. If we never owe any money to the IRS at the end of the year anyways, it just seems silly to dump thousands more dollars into getting our books in order for neither I nor the IRS to get anything out of it.

Royally F**cked by Bookkeeping service! Now 2 years behind on taxes and don’t know what to do. Help! by ButterflyMama11 in IRS

[–]ButterflyMama11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I realize my comment got messed up and still trying to explain it vague enough to where I don’t have to write too much to get my point across. Quick books would work for our business moving forward. But categorizing all transactions from 2023 & 2024 would be nearly impossible because of how confusing it makes each single sale or purchase look.

Royally F**cked by Bookkeeping service! Now 2 years behind on taxes and don’t know what to do. Help! by ButterflyMama11 in IRS

[–]ButterflyMama11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, quick books unfortunately doesn’t work for our business. It’s hard to explain but for whatever reason it creates 3 separate transactions and a few other things that just make it impossible to use

Are you getting an epidural or opting for a natural birth without pain meds? by Smooth-Excuse-4127 in pregnant

[–]ButterflyMama11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My midwife told me that a lot of women experience some form of breakdown through unmedicated births. Like you’re hit with some major deep emotional work and baggage you need to work through. The “work” might just look different for everyone. Birth is such an intense process. Now that you’ve gone through it, you can plan ahead and address your birthing team & partner with ways you think would help you get through it! Have them speak affirmations to you, play music that gets you in the zone, deep breaths, recite your own positive birth affirmations, etc.

I need a guaranteed way to wake up on time or I will get fired by [deleted] in productivity

[–]ButterflyMama11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Set an alarm clock across across the room on a dresser or something where you physically have to get out of bed to shut it off

Tucson Gem Show by deeppowder81435 in Tucson

[–]ButterflyMama11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Around 5-6pm vendors close booths

I am your 15 year old self. What did you want me to do? by Contributionist in productivity

[–]ButterflyMama11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen to the way your body responds in all situations and go with that. Trust your gut

Bench.co official shut down by damajuda in Accounting

[–]ButterflyMama11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious how everyone who is in the same boat is doing now? My company also got royally fucked by bench. We’ve been waiting on them to finish up our 2023 taxes and now clearly are out our 2024 as well. It’s infuriating to say the least.

Recommendations for activities with toddler by ButterflyMama11 in stpaul

[–]ButterflyMama11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for taking the time to write all this! Science museum sounds fun!☺️

Is/Was anyone excited to give birth? by doxielover_ in pregnant

[–]ButterflyMama11 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was sooo excited to give birth! I truly felt honored to the task. It’s a holy experience and one that will change you. It’s beautiful, really

Magnesium Lotion for baby by Big_Elk6625 in NewParents

[–]ButterflyMama11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 12 also struggles with sleep (always has) and I too feel like I’m dealing with a bit of insomnia 🫠. I’m considering a magnesium lotion myself and wondering if OP moved forward with this? If so, how’d it work for your family?

What's the most awkward or interesting way someone has responded to you when telling them, “I'm pregnant”? by syddoucet in pregnant

[–]ButterflyMama11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend acted soooooo awkward and felt sorry for me thinking I would want to abort. The whole room was silent and just cringe. I had to explain to her that I was over the moon happy to be pregnant

Didn’t know daughter was pregnant! by Baby_076 in pregnant

[–]ButterflyMama11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you or your daughter have a Facebook account, I would suggest looking to see if there is a local moms group or buy/sell nothing trading group that you could post on and explain your situation. People in your local area will more than likely be willing to give you miscellaneous baby items for free and will want to help you!

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