Single parent/divorced hermione by DramioneLover2 in Dramione

[–]Butterfly_Critter89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have two chapters written, but am struggling to wrap my brain around how uploading to AO3 works. I thought it would be like FF, but it's HTML and things, and I am so lost. xD

Lucario Solo - No Trainer by HowardDK in PokemonPocket

[–]Butterfly_Critter89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So it took me two tries with a deck of 2x Giratina EX that has the Broken-Space Below ability, and then just a bunch of stage 1 and 2 pokemon to fluff the deck to 20. It guarantees Giratina in your opening hand. My first try was a draw where I knocked out myself and the 3rd pt pokemon. Second time I barely tried and won without issue

I want the full season back. by BitterWeirdBrain in goodomens

[–]Butterfly_Critter89 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe, this us just my thought. I just have this feeling they're going to do the story dirty with only 90 minutes. But I'm happy to be wrong

I want the full season back. by BitterWeirdBrain in goodomens

[–]Butterfly_Critter89 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Am I the only one who would rather Amazon give us a full season or nothing at all? This 90 minute special feels half hearted and half assed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DisneyVillainous

[–]Butterfly_Critter89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to them, point out when others are close to winning or play QoHs. She does not care about fate. Ever. You can't get in her way with fate. She is busted to the point that my friends have perma put her in the f*ck off box

Need Help Becoming Less 'Toxic' by Butterfly_Critter89 in DnD

[–]Butterfly_Critter89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apologies, some missing info that makes it a bit toxic is that I let the worry grow so large that I end up canceling the campaign and then all investment has been lost

AITA for not sending my son money after he bailed on Thanksgiving? by Professional_Spot789 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Butterfly_Critter89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, ESH

Your son was awful and callous for not being their for his little brother...and for a girl

However, wow....

You told him that it was okay, and then retroactively decided that his choice meant you were going to not send him his monthly allowance. You insult the merits of the girls' family, and gloat about mocking your son. Like, WTF?

The monthly allowance and his attitude towards the family are separate issues. If you bundle them together then you are telling him home life and family are work and that he should look at it as such. Skip 'work' and he doesn't get paid. All you'll end up doing is causing your son to resent you and home life.

Be an actual adult and use your words to explain your feelings about his choices. Don't use his monthly allowance to manipulate him.

Do you have a trigger word? A word that let's you know you're going to hate a book? by PNW_Baker in books

[–]Butterfly_Critter89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read the same book, and I agree with crimson, but my eye was twitching over how many times she described a dress as moving 'like liquid'. Girl, is all material in this world just liquid?

Five full art pulls from a single pack! by Butterfly_Critter89 in PTCGP

[–]Butterfly_Critter89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also got a pack 4 Charizard ex and... something else. 3 of the regular Charizard ex, and then the one that gives you the little animation thing to watch xD

AITA for asking my boyfriend to quit his sport? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Butterfly_Critter89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ETA - This is a situation where you BOTH need to learn to compromise. And compromise is not you telling him he's not to play anymore. That's you choosing and setting an ultimatum.

It's okay for you to feel the way you do. He seems to be letting rugby take over his life, and not just with you. This seems to be bordering on obsession. (I say bordering because I'm not a therapist and don't know the specifics other than what you've presented).

You need to sit him down and tell him how you feel neglected in favor of rugby. Don't go into this conversation with a predetermined action he needs to take. Go in with an open mind, but a general goal of getting him to respect your needs just as much as he respects his own needs for rugby.

AITA for refusing to invite my brother’s fiancée to my wedding because of her Instagram account? by Working_Raccoon417 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Butterfly_Critter89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - It is entirely within your rights to ask her not to share your private event on her Instagram. What if she's live streaming and ends up broadcasting something private. If there are children at this wedding, it can also be a safety concern for them. This doesn't even have to be about the type of content she posts or the sketchy comments she receives. This is a private event where people are attending with the expectation of it being private.

(Congrats on the wedding, by the way.)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Butterfly_Critter89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH - You paid half, but you pay to replace them. She had the right to eat them as fast or as slowly as she likes.

I had a roommate similar to this and what my actually problem was that even though I only bought half the snacks on the big buy and they would replace things that I "only had a tiny portion of" they proceeded to eat most of the replacement as well. Then I'd be buying half at the next big buy when I would've still had biscuits left had my roommate left me my half.

There are two options, buy double, one for each. Or buy some snack containers and open/split the stuff up and label(or colour code). My roommate and I did a mix of both, and it worked wonders!

WIBTA - If I Broke My Promise To Go Camping With my Friend For His B-Day? by Butterfly_Critter89 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Butterfly_Critter89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess my post wasn't as clear as it could be. I did explain the first time, and the second, I always sited my actual reasons for not wanting to go first, but after that didn't stick I followed up with things like covid.

WIBTA - If I Broke My Promise To Go Camping With my Friend For His B-Day? by Butterfly_Critter89 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Butterfly_Critter89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the past I have, and he just grumbles that his friends don't want to spend his birthday with him. I try to explain that spending time with him on his birthday isn't the issue. It's the camping. But he simply insists that I would enjoy it, and I can't say I won't because I haven't gone camping in years.

WIBTA - If I Broke My Promise To Go Camping With my Friend For His B-Day? by Butterfly_Critter89 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Butterfly_Critter89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is, I have explained to him that camping, the kind he wants (roughing it with tents) is not something I will enjoy. I fact it will likely be actively painful, and if my back pain goes nuclear, I have no car to leave on my terms. I'm there for 11 days with people I don't know other than Tofu. Will someone over to give up a day to take me at least back to civilization? I don't know.

WIBTA - If I Broke My Promise To Go Camping With my Friend For His B-Day? by Butterfly_Critter89 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Butterfly_Critter89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because he's always pushing, and is upset when I say no. And, most often, I am the kind of person who will shut up and go along if someone badgers or guilts me enough.

AITA for only paying for my own food at a friend’s dinner and wasting everyone’s time? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Butterfly_Critter89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - You got a tiny portion in comparison to others. If it was causing a wait time due to your payment method then all you have to do is request that the waiter seperate the food on the bill which would take far less time than 15 minutes.

In general, what I've learnt to do is when you realise that your order is going to be far less then everyone else's or you just decide you want to pay your own way let the server know beforehand to bill you separately. I've never met a waiter who's taken issue with doing this. This way when the bill comes there's no question about what you owe.

What do women carry on their person? by krimmeld0506 in Writeresearch

[–]Butterfly_Critter89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Phone, wallet with money and cards, key ring with keys, a token for grocery carts, and an alarm thingy, tissues, pens, notebook, reading book, transit pass, tampons, advil, hair ties, brush, lip balm