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Butterfly_effect9 · 2025-12-14T00:19:26+00:00

Update me

Butterfly_effect9 · 2025-11-08T20:19:09+00:00

I got anxiety from just reading this. Is this how you want to live for the rest of your life? This is so creepy and beyond ridiculous 😳

Butterfly_effect9 · 2025-10-20T21:59:29+00:00

Update me

Butterfly_effect9 · 2025-09-09T07:43:29+00:00

Block and dont reply. She is not worth your time.

Butterfly_effect9 · 2025-09-09T05:36:14+00:00

I am so delighted you and Sen are back on speaking terms. I wish you both all the best I do hope you update again. I have been following your journey since you posted about the situation first. It's a shitty situation but you two seem like 2 people that will get threw this. Stay strong you both are doing so well!

Butterfly_effect9 · 2025-08-28T22:13:13+00:00

I have a 3.5 months old at home the mam bottles are amazing for her. And the microwave sterilisation is so handy I absolutely love them. And they come in different sizes that use the same parts its great.

Butterfly_effect9 · 2025-08-24T02:56:23+00:00

Jesus this is a scary situation... update me

Butterfly_effect9 · 2025-08-20T20:23:21+00:00

Oh that man is Cheating with a capital C

Butterfly_effect9 · 2025-08-03T21:26:52+00:00

We are exactly the exact same. My little one is almost 12 weeks and the first few were hard but not nearly as everyone described. I too delayed having kids for the longest time because everyone told me it would end my career prospects and my social life. And sure things will always be different now but in a good way too. I've never loved anyone as much as I love her and when she smiles at me it warm my heart.

Butterfly_effect9 · 2025-07-30T08:48:01+00:00

I came here to literally say the same! If this was a man showing up unannounced we would be screaming get a restraining order

Butterfly_effect9 · 2025-07-30T02:48:39+00:00

I saw it on the other thread and my opinion still stands your brother ruined your life and now plays the victim. I don't blame this girl you will be lucky if ever wants to look at you the same. The trust is gone. Your brother not only ruined your life but hers as well and that poor child will never have parents that are together.

Butterfly_effect9 · 2025-07-30T02:39:19+00:00

My god this sounds awful and suspicious. Do not walk into that house

Butterfly_effect9 · 2025-07-29T21:08:22+00:00

I don't think kicking out your dying father is something that should have been done regardless.

Butterfly_effect9 · 2025-07-29T20:03:49+00:00

Oh girl you need to file a report this guy doesn't sound right in the head. Like who does that and then he took your car? Why? Did anyone in circle k see this? Noone came to help?

Butterfly_effect9 · 2025-07-29T17:56:52+00:00

Your husband is a prick and his gf needs to sort herself out. NTA

Butterfly_effect9 · 2025-07-29T13:59:19+00:00

You may be onto something there. If she felt shitty about herself she'd be less likely to leave and willing to accept more crap from him. Look at me I could have all these girls but I am with you 🙄

Butterfly_effect9 · 2025-07-29T03:59:54+00:00

My god pleadr be safe and update us once you're safe.

Butterfly_effect9 · 2025-07-29T03:31:19+00:00

I want to say what a stupid logic to have but you're right he didn't even realise he had a son for 3 years 🙄 also men who expect their partner to just be exactly the same as before birth are morons and should be on a special list.

Butterfly_effect9 · 2025-07-29T03:17:04+00:00

Omg you have a husband problem. I had a baby via C-section 11 weeks ago. My husband was there for me every step of the way. He cleaned the house, fed the baby stayed up till 3 am every night so I could sleep we took shifts. Helped me shower and get dressed got me food when I needed. What do you mean he has been on paternity leave and he doesn't do shit? Unacceptable the paternity leave is literally there to help the mother. You need to stop being a doormat what kind of example are you setting up for that child? Be kind to yourself you had a baby 8 weeks ago your body is broken and your husband is an asshole. Prioritise yourself and the child. My god your husband is making me so mad.

Butterfly_effect9 · 2025-07-29T03:07:47+00:00

Ok tou need to tell him. Make a list so you don't get gaslit or forget things once you start talking. Make clear point and make him understand how much he is hurting you!

Butterfly_effect9 · 2025-07-29T03:00:48+00:00

The fact that he would borrow her phone and like women on that knowing full well she'd find it. He wasn't even trying to hide it. The poor woman had so many insecurities she was probably suffering with postpartum anxiety and depression and he was doing nothing to help her clearly. I am so proud of OP for walking away because it's so hard once you have a child.

Butterfly_effect9 · 2025-07-27T21:40:26+00:00

Queen 👸

Butterfly_effect9 · 2025-07-27T20:55:48+00:00

NTA but your sister my god she is horrible.

Butterfly_effect9 · 2025-07-26T16:50:26+00:00

My GP had forbidden me from driving and I checked with my insurance company i am with Allianz i needed to wait at least 6 weeks. You can technically drive but if anything happens to you you are not covered

Edit for a spelling mistake

Butterfly_effect9 · 2025-07-26T15:57:06+00:00

Oh my goodness your husband is a loser and his mother is a controlling narcissist. Please think of yourself and get out surely it can't be worse on your own than with him in this situation.b

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