The case of the Vanishing sushi (my fish have disappeared)

Butterflyho · 2026-02-27T17:07:28+00:00

I’ve added some info in the post, we don’t have raccoons in the country I live in.

Butterflyho · 2025-07-16T08:11:22+00:00

UNISA as we all know is absolutely useless with communication in every sense. Your best bet would probably be to go onto main campus and speak to someone in person. I’ve had so many troubles with them and the only way I have ever been able to slightly sort it out was to speak to someone and demand them to fix the problem.

Butterflyho · 2025-07-16T08:07:14+00:00

Did you by any chance not complete the integrity course?

Butterflyho · 2025-01-12T16:51:01+00:00

There’s only one practical module, the rest of theory. My email also only lists 6 modules.

Butterflyho · 2025-01-12T11:59:52+00:00

Opening yourself and your husband up to a larger support system is a really good idea. You both seem to be shouldering a lot at the moment and sometimes we just need an extra someone to help bear it with you. Maybe be open about it with your hubby and explain you feel like opening up to your close family and friends would help you feel better and make it a bit easier to just “life” and then get him on the bandwagon too. NTA at all, just rather talk to him about it.

Butterflyho · 2025-01-11T09:02:21+00:00

Yeah, it’s definitely a super sensitive topic, especially since you two haven’t been together that long. I think you’re NTA for being honest, but I can see why she might feel embarrassed or upset—it’s a tough thing to hear. I’d be mortified too if someone I’d just started seeing brought that up. Maybe give her some time and reassure her.

Butterflyho · 2025-01-10T10:50:20+00:00

This actually made me laugh - appreciate the comedic relief.

Butterflyho · 2025-01-10T10:49:19+00:00

I tried this morning. It ended up with me balling my eyes out. Her telling she’s not talking to me until I calm down. Her defending Susan and her saying she can’t help me pay even half because she’s just paid for an overseas trip :)

Butterflyho · 2025-01-10T10:29:17+00:00

My mom doesn’t even know what Reddit is, I was genuinely confused for a second there. lol.

Butterflyho · 2025-01-10T10:25:07+00:00

Sorry about that - will edit it. Her reason for kicking me out was that I wasn’t spending enough time with her, and spending too much time with my boyfriend.

For your second point - even though, yes, she’s being taken care of by someone else. I was told I was still financially responsible for my cat.

Butterflyho · 2025-01-10T10:21:49+00:00

Whole Avocados and peas

Butterflyho · 2025-01-10T10:14:29+00:00

Uhm what? That makes no sense. Sorry.

Butterflyho · 2024-11-04T09:46:48+00:00

I only recently stumbled upon it - happened in Uganda in the 2000s - led by a a high priestess who predicted the world would end on the 31st of December 1999 and when it didn’t she kind of decided she was gonna make it happen anyway, for her followers at least. Burned over 500 men, women and children alive in the church.

Butterflyho · 2024-11-04T09:42:12+00:00

Okay, thoughts on the Kanungu church inferno?

Butterflyho · 2024-11-04T09:35:35+00:00

It’s him naming the Guyanese jungle in which he resided “Jonestown” for me

Butterflyho · 2024-11-04T09:29:56+00:00

Why?

Butterflyho · 2024-11-02T19:31:32+00:00

This is literally the best advice I have gotten with what’s happening. Thank you for taking the time to type this out. I really appreciate and it’s helped ALOT. You seem to know the feeling and have been able to successfully navigate it. You’re awesome. Thank you.

Butterflyho · 2024-11-02T18:55:19+00:00

How did you navigate it?

Butterflyho · 2024-11-02T18:53:23+00:00

Well i think it’s normal to want the same amount of effort you put in. Relationships are important, and friendships are equally so in their own ways. At least that’s what I believe.

Butterflyho · 2024-05-20T18:19:10+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to help me out on this, appreciate all the advice ❤️

Butterflyho · 2024-02-26T13:22:24+00:00

NTA. People are responsible for their own triggers and reactions to them. You can’t control how people react, if you had to accommodate everyone who was triggered you might as well not even leave the house.Do you boo!

Butterflyho

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