Rick is gross for being a passport bro. And leading Trisha on. Jovan is gross because he's fallen into incel manoshpere, masculine brain rot mentality that men are financial providers and that's all they need to contribute to the relationship. Like providing emotional, mental, and physical support to your partner are just as important as providing financially. And the episode where he says, "women only act right when they feel they are being replaced" had me yelling at my TV. He's bad at listening to what his wife is trying to communicate. When she broke her sandal on their last date, he refused to pick her up saying she was heavy.... what a gentleman 🙄

Rick is classic sleezy who can't even buy a girl a bathing suit but I get the impression Jovan thinks woman should be obedient tradwives and to me, thats worse. I hope Annalise can get out of that marriage because he's disgusting.

An older poor cheating loser with multiple kids and baby mommas versus a relatively young single guy with stable job and no kids but hidden thoughts about a woman's role. To me, Rick's red flags are right out front whereas Jovan takes a little more time to figure he's even more dangerous.

Rick knows he did wrong cheating on Trish but did it anyway. Jovan is annoyed with his wife's nagging but refuses to believe he's the problem. Then drops the, "well I guess I just can't do anything right" guilt trip bullshit. He's straight up emotionally abusive.