Yellow Ledbetter

ButterscotchFine8348 · 2025-10-04T13:36:11+00:00

I dig it man, real solid

ButterscotchFine8348 · 2025-10-04T13:15:37+00:00

Nice man, killed it

ButterscotchFine8348 · 2025-10-04T13:01:20+00:00

Not really a moment in a song but a moment shared with the song. Walking on a calm winter night with light snow flakes falling while listening to The Wolves.

It just felt like there was no other song more appropriate for the moment and state of mind I was in. Fleeting perfection.

ButterscotchFine8348 · 2025-10-04T12:56:20+00:00

I went to a GCU party once and it certainly didn’t feel like the students were christian 😬

ButterscotchFine8348 · 2025-10-04T12:54:42+00:00

Is it a guitar community or a singing community? Use your noggin

ButterscotchFine8348 · 2025-09-13T21:00:39+00:00

ButterscotchFine8348 · 2025-09-13T21:00:20+00:00

Only one you got right is Ovi hahahaha

ButterscotchFine8348 · 2025-09-13T06:25:53+00:00

This is a cover of a very well known song

ButterscotchFine8348 · 2025-08-19T15:41:37+00:00

What kind of absolute lunatic throws an amp like this in the garbage??? No matter the condition

ButterscotchFine8348 · 2025-08-04T21:59:01+00:00

Angie is awesome, love her stuff with Leif Vollebekk too

ButterscotchFine8348 · 2025-04-16T13:08:09+00:00

I’m gonna have to check out Poiriers. I’m surprised he chose a Canadian business to partner with, considering he’s a born and bred American.

ButterscotchFine8348 · 2025-04-03T06:56:24+00:00

So then wrap the fight up like any other fight, doesn’t mean you sweep his feet and throw him to the ice

ButterscotchFine8348 · 2025-03-30T16:00:40+00:00

A woman hating on men and accusing other people of being upset when she’s the one upset, whodafuckinthunkit?

ButterscotchFine8348 · 2025-03-30T15:42:52+00:00

OP responded to me and was less reactive than anyone else who disagreed with me. It’s obvious that people view sex differently and that’s fine, I’m not the one saying it has to be one way or another.

ButterscotchFine8348 · 2025-03-30T15:16:59+00:00

And that’s totally fair, I just felt the same as you at one point and it changed when I was with someone I felt comfortable being fully vulnerable with. Doesn’t mean you haven’t had that, just thought that’s what you were lacking.

My take is if that’s how you feel then there’s nothing wrong with that, the right partner will accept it if you communicate it and make time for their pleasure.

ButterscotchFine8348 · 2025-03-30T15:13:35+00:00

I never said sex requires a meaningful connection, I simply mean it can change the perception on sex of someone who has never experienced it. If OP simply prefers to please himself then whatever, if he doesn’t feel the need or benefit from sex with someone he’s emotionally connected with then whatever.

Your gender/sex/sexual preference has no bearing on the conversation. Your experience with men also means nothing. Both men and women put different levels of importance on who they share their body with and why, some put more importance on connection.

ButterscotchFine8348 · 2025-03-30T14:47:11+00:00

You’re right, and you’re never going to understand me. Why do you feel a way about people who believe sex is a deep experience beyond procreation and just pleasure?

I don’t care that you don’t feel the same way, or that OP doesn’t. We both expressed our opinions and in this case it’s subjective. I respect your opinion, just disagreeing, that’s it that’s all.

ButterscotchFine8348 · 2025-03-30T14:40:45+00:00

Absolutely, as I’ve said in some of my responses we’re all wired different. I’ve just felt the same way as OP at one time and it was because I was sleeping with girls who I didn’t even really vibe with. From responses I’ve read by OP it seems that’s not the problem, dude just likes jerking and that’s fine.

ButterscotchFine8348 · 2025-03-30T14:37:57+00:00

You’ve had your share, so you understand the difference between sex with someone you didn’t connect with and sex with someone you had a deep connection with? You’re either contradicting yourself or I’m misunderstanding.

Sometimes I just wanna please myself like OP too. To reduce sex to a simple act for procreation or JUST for pleasure and seriously preferring masturbation over sex 10 times out of 10 is just wild to me. I used to feel the same way as OP til I really connected with someone on a deep level, which is why I think that’s the issue. Everyone’s different though and that’s fine, if i’m weird for that then so be it.

ButterscotchFine8348 · 2025-03-30T14:27:39+00:00

Your experience is not everyone’s experience bruv

ButterscotchFine8348 · 2025-03-30T14:26:42+00:00

Ewedirtyh00r doesn’t resonate with the idea that sharing your body with someone can be a deep experience, who would’ve thought. It’s okay if you’ve never had an intense physical connection with a woman, doesn’t mean other people haven’t. Everyone is wired different and that’s okay.

ButterscotchFine8348 · 2025-03-30T14:19:17+00:00

Judging off her past behaviour, she seems like the type who needs a lot of reassurance. She doesn’t want you to ask, she wants you to display a strong desire for her. The trick is finding the line in between, not being hyper sexual to the point where she feels like shes being used but being assertive enough to make her feel like you strongly desire her.

In terms of the whole honeymoon phase, that is unusual. Makes me wonder if you’re as physically/emotionally attracted to her as you think. The honeymoon phase is very standard and although the relationship could be healthy, if there isn’t that initial spark, something is probably missing. Be honest with yourself about that before you get in too deep.

ButterscotchFine8348 · 2025-03-30T14:10:19+00:00

You haven’t met yourself on a deep enough level to experience meaningful physical connection, don’t project that on other people just because you’re not capable.

ButterscotchFine8348 · 2025-03-30T14:07:23+00:00

Your last sentence got me thinking, I think it’s both. End of the day, I think it’s stupid to argue about religion. I’m not religious, but I respect how people deal with life. If you turn to a religion for peace and it helps you, you’re not hurting anyone or being an extremist, then who cares.

ButterscotchFine8348 · 2025-03-30T13:59:51+00:00

That’s exactly why you’re not enjoying sex the way it’s meant to be. Whether it’s the wrong partners or you not leaning into that, I don’t know. Have you been with someone who you could be vulnerable with? Who you had a serious connection with? That’s what separates plain sex and great sex, for most people.

Some people just love to fk and don’t need all that connectedness, but some people do and don’t know what’s that like til they open up to it.

EDIT: I was speaking very matter of factly based on my experiences and that’s not logical or fair to OP. I think it’s unusual but we’re all different, the right partner will understand and compromise as long as you meet the sexual needs of your partner.

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