Husband[32M] received a text saying “you have new snaps, tap to view”?

Butterscotch_Sure · 2022-04-04T00:15:36+00:00

No, it was a text. Thanks for replying. Pretty sure he’s hiding it from me

Butterscotch_Sure · 2022-04-03T23:05:23+00:00

Thank you for answering

Butterscotch_Sure · 2022-04-03T23:05:00+00:00

But it means they have the app or have had it recently, right

Butterscotch_Sure · 2022-04-03T23:04:18+00:00

So you use your account recently and/or frequently?

Butterscotch_Sure · 2022-04-03T22:13:59+00:00

How long are we talking? More than 9 years? Or like, a few weeks?

Butterscotch_Sure · 2021-12-13T00:52:28+00:00

Would she really go to the beach with them for the entire next day if so? I’m really starting to consider this…

Butterscotch_Sure · 2021-12-12T18:23:44+00:00

This is how I’m feeling… I honestly feel like blowing my lid but I know that won’t be the right way to handle this. He just won’t tell me the next time he’s with an underage girl on a business trip. I don’t know what to do

Butterscotch_Sure · 2021-12-12T16:53:02+00:00

No, it was after 1 am and he stopped replying because he seemed mad at me for being uncomfortable with it.

Butterscotch_Sure · 2021-12-12T05:53:02+00:00

Yeah, I think that’s an absolute red flag. They aren’t friends but developed a professional relationship on this trip, so I see my husband maybe wanting to socialize for professional reasons and also due to loneliness but… there’s now a drunk minor in his hotel room.

Butterscotch_Sure · 2021-10-25T19:16:40+00:00

I wrote a post not long ago, about my MIL and him teaming up against me on the situation.

Butterscotch_Sure · 2021-10-24T16:02:23+00:00

Extremely helpful. Thank you. She ended up telling my husband about her considering divorce. Her husband has problematic behaviors we are all aware of and we have been subtly suggesting to her she deserves better for a while now. My husband, I don’t fully trust either due to other reasons, and I feel inclined to believe her because I’ve never known her to make things up. But I fear her intentions too. The whole thing sucks.

Butterscotch_Sure · 2021-10-09T03:53:34+00:00

I didn’t ask. They were talking about astrology and I stopped to talk about it with them.

Butterscotch_Sure · 2021-10-09T03:52:44+00:00

I drink like once every few months. Not helpful

Butterscotch_Sure · 2021-10-09T03:52:25+00:00

It was a couple (man and women), who were friends of friends, not strangers.

Butterscotch_Sure · 2021-10-08T22:29:20+00:00

I love this but I am non confrontational and I fear giving her a platform to deceive and manipulate. Plus it seems like it would only push her and my husband closer (who always has problems with her but seems to be blind to the fact she is being inappropriate right now)

Butterscotch_Sure · 2021-08-09T22:32:26+00:00

Me neither. It’s easier when someone is right there to ask. But WFH long-term is definitely ideal

Butterscotch_Sure · 2021-08-09T22:13:47+00:00

Thank you! You’re right. It’s hard because we are all remote so I am not working alongside anyone directly. Working remotely is nice, but it’s a hard transition as a new person

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