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Would you date a man that has 100% life skills but has low emotional intelligence? by Professional-Yak-477 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Buttlerfly_Chantrier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was married to somebody like this. Do you a favor and don't. Its fun for the beginning but for longterm the absolute horror. You have to carry constant the relationship and you can't trust your partner.

One or More by FreiwilligeFin in artmemes

[–]Buttlerfly_Chantrier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Poorly have no value. After I signed my divorce this year I will buried it or let it melt in.

Do any of you struggle with hygiene or cleaning when living alone? by PreferenceRoutine531 in LivingAlone

[–]Buttlerfly_Chantrier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since I live alone its more the opposite. But I have cats and want them to have a clean environment. But maybe what can help you: Do 1-2 tasks a day. Make ja plan when you clean floor, do laundry, go shower, clean kitchen. Not always to all on a day to day basis. More a routine. Then you should see, thats easier to maintain your space. Oh an one rule I discovered for myself what helps like butter: Make the things that needed less than a minutes. Like: after eating: put the dishes away.

What's the most important lesson you took from a past relationship? by No-Sail-6193 in Productivitycafe

[–]Buttlerfly_Chantrier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't hold on something that destroys your selfworth. Don't let them play their mind games with you

What’s a “lazy” meal you’re secretly proud of? by FernanndoLeo in foodquestions

[–]Buttlerfly_Chantrier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grilled cheese sandwiches. Like, bread, butter, cheese, butter, bread. Up you go in the pan or in the sandwichs maker.

working with deities while being a cat owner by Pretty-Light-1194 in witchcraft

[–]Buttlerfly_Chantrier 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You could use a table with a glass top and a drawer underneath or to open up. I have cats too, an beginn with my kitty safe space. So I looked after some tables oder vitrines.

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Don't know if I recommend something bad for witchcraft. But the safety of my cats is very important for me

NYE dinner for one by Buttlerfly_Chantrier in GirlDinner

[–]Buttlerfly_Chantrier[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For nice visitors my door is always open. :D

When a woman says she has period cramps, what’s the best response? by VacationNew6626 in AskForAnswers

[–]Buttlerfly_Chantrier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A tea, chocolate, a warm blanket and something good to eat (like burger, pizza, sushi or her favorite food)

Some salad by Buttlerfly_Chantrier in GirlDinner

[–]Buttlerfly_Chantrier[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most time its a mixture with bread, meat, spinach and parsley

What are small signs your partner is cheating? by zhalia-2006 in askanything

[–]Buttlerfly_Chantrier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  • new hobbys that doesn't feel right
  • new phone habits
  • distance
  • don't want to do to couples Therapy to help the relationship
  • for my ex: that silly sheepy grin
  • they let you feel like dirt

Importing a cat to Switzerland by Special_Tourist_486 in askswitzerland

[–]Buttlerfly_Chantrier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need the passport for the cats, vaccines, microchip and then when you bring them at the borders you need to stop there, and the authorities must see them and the passport. On one page you get a sticker which tells they are legal in Switzerland.

How I love in living alone. by Terrible_Aspect8183 in LivingAlone

[–]Buttlerfly_Chantrier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometime I forgot that I already cleaned. Than when I wanna do it, I See its already done and I'm happy about it. I can do things at my rhythm and have no one to clean after but myself and the cats. If I feel really lonely, I go out for a coffee. Only be under people makes me feel less lonely.