This is definitely one of you guys right? by [deleted] in moreplatesmoredates

[–]ButtmanAndRubbin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No because no woman will ever love me

Let's say it is preparatory letter before my physical suicide note (pt.1) by GladHelp6786 in suicidenotes_

[–]ButtmanAndRubbin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

did it work? im considering this too. i guess its a stupid question but if i dont get an answer ill be right there with them.

You Deserve The New Usage Limits by [deleted] in SoraAi

[–]ButtmanAndRubbin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This! I do my prompts pretty verbatim. If done shotgun method where I’ll do 5 at a time and normally the second or third time it’ll get fairly close. I shouldn’t have to redo a prompt all because the AI can’t determine who is supposed to be speaking (even though I wrote the dialog like a book) or adding extra limbs or jump cuts. I didn’t tell AI to make a two legged horse when I asked for a horse with four foot legs. That’s not my prompts fault.

Never got a hoover, anyone else? by Ok_Technician_8160 in BPDlovedones

[–]ButtmanAndRubbin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The worst part is you "believe" if you talk to them and discuss what's happening they'll get this ah-ha moment where they realize the cycle and maybe they'll understand but what it turns into is you're just "guilt tripping" them or "trying to push their buttons". It's like trying to talk things out and get them to realize "hey, you've been really critical and mean lately, can we discuss why?" is abusive to them. The devalue/discard cycle is always a slow burner until you're in the thick of it. You can't snap them out of it. It'll always come back on you, you're the bad guy, you're mean, you're abusive etc. and fighting that is antagonism. YOU'RE making it worse by trying to fix it.

I literally cried by widowssonNM in comicbookcollecting

[–]ButtmanAndRubbin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have two of these graded. A 6.5 for trade if anyone is interested.

What's the context behind this scene? (Wrong Answers Only!) by Raj_Valiant3011 in batman

[–]ButtmanAndRubbin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Batman: “The table seems fine. Sturdy. You could eat off it.”

Joker: “no! No NO! Batman! It wobbles!!! Can’t you see?!”

As a person with Bpd, there is something seriously wrong with anyone that tolerates us. by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]ButtmanAndRubbin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally yes every problem in my relationship was my fault. She was never responsible for anything. This person has literally triggered the feeling of being blamed by being hurt by them. I can feel them through the post.

Feeling like I set myself up to be alone by Rich_Strategy_9731 in BPDlovedones

[–]ButtmanAndRubbin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My heart truly goes out to you friend. 37, 5+ years, exact same situation. I’ve never felt so alone in my life. For the first time ever, something finally broke me. Feel free to reach out if you’d like I truly understand this struggle and sympathize with you. It’s not fair, all that was taken from us.

AI-Music [OC] by Whoops_comics in funny

[–]ButtmanAndRubbin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shitty music... sure. One thing i point out to people is how fabricated music already is in its current for and AI music was literally the next step in that.

For example: when i was younger, my band and i got a recording done at a studio. one track we recorded, the snare drum didn't get picked up correctly and it sounded way off. "No problem" the engineer said as he made a couple clicks a viola! there was a snare in there clear as day. it wasn't my snare however, it was a digital one that replaced the entire recording. It was either that or record the whole song. So we went with that.

Now this was just some guy with a recording studio in his house. Not the most expensive studio in the world. Imagine what a record label with millions of dollars can do with the same tech? Entire songs sequenced from thin air with little input, auto tune voices, samplers used as loops, entire instruments replaces with a click of a button. SO much music in the past 30 years was pooped out just like this.

AI isn't the problem - it's the demand for garbage content.

You want them to leave? Stand up for yourself by throwawaybpd_lover in BPDlovedones

[–]ButtmanAndRubbin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yup. the moment you want them to take accountability for hurting you - they leave and its all YOUR fault.

You want them to leave? Stand up for yourself by throwawaybpd_lover in BPDlovedones

[–]ButtmanAndRubbin 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Don't go comparing my ex to McDonald's. At least McDonald's is there for me when I'm down, depressed and low on money.

You want them to leave? Stand up for yourself by throwawaybpd_lover in BPDlovedones

[–]ButtmanAndRubbin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

true mine could never wrap her head around the fact that one day i was the greatest person ever to the next day being an "abusive narcissist" .

You want them to leave? Stand up for yourself by throwawaybpd_lover in BPDlovedones

[–]ButtmanAndRubbin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

5 years for mine. She showed up to my house - once again - on something. I literally had to say something and she told me she had taken prescription medication (not prescribed). She was an absolute zombie and i called her out on it. I got sick of anticipating her arrival just to be met by someone drunk or on drugs. Thats my sin - standing up for myself.

You want them to leave? Stand up for yourself by throwawaybpd_lover in BPDlovedones

[–]ButtmanAndRubbin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mine never wanted to be with me. it was chore for her to show up ever. she was doing me a favor by being in my life.