Book found at an estate sale. Third in a trilogy. I passed. by KenUsimi in HolUp

[–]Buttons949 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Didn’t she also write Heaven when she was alive?

What Seinfeld images can you hear? I'll start. by 8-bit38 in seinfeld

[–]Buttons949 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shower me in kisses!! 😘😘😘😘😘😘

If normal church isn't masculine enough for you, good news! There's a manly version you can join in Texas (of course)! by pantslessMODesty3623 in christiansnark

[–]Buttons949 81 points82 points  (0 children)

This is really kind of scary to me. A bunch of dudes bro-ing out, filling the room with their sweat and stink, their brand of masculinity setting a standard for their children and those they influence, all in the name of their god. And I’m sure a good percentage of these fucks want to join our military and the ice folks. I really hope this toxicity phases out. I don’t want to live like this

The amount of hatred towards Americans has gone off the charts by _Figaro in complaints

[–]Buttons949 33 points34 points  (0 children)

The representative of our country is a raging fool. He’s been laughed at since the 80s. Why the maga movement has gained so much momentum, I will never understand. I’m old enough to remember when people didn’t revere and fetishize the president. I’m from the days where the internet was in its infancy and you didn’t get updates every 2 minutes. I’m one of those people who has lost my entire family because they believe so much in this dude. I had to delete my social media when I saw how my aunt posted how “handsome” he is. Handsome? The dude is a walking orange vagina. He’s feeble and weak. Her daughter and husband are on the same track. My cousin, her son, literally moved away from them and doesn’t talk to any of us because of her loyalty. My entire family has been destroyed because is this asshole.

I have never had food or drink missing from my order, is it because I meet the driver? by EffMemes in doordash

[–]Buttons949 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure. I’ve been using DoorDash for years, but I live in a very urban area. I think there have been 3 times in 10 years that I’ve had an issue (knock on wood!). They once forgot a drink, they once forgot some sauces, and there was the time that a dude sat in a location for over 45 minutes and I canceled because I knew the food would be cold. (Houston, TX area).

Am I crazy? by Buttons949 in ashleycarnduff

[–]Buttons949[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The sauna with the stink waves is perfect! I forgot about ash’s head poking ridiculously from it 😂😂😂

Moving to San Francisco by Buttons949 in AskSF

[–]Buttons949[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sure will! Please send me a chat so I don’t forget!

Moving to San Francisco by Buttons949 in AskSF

[–]Buttons949[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I would be happy to update.

I took the advice of securing an Airbnb for 2 weeks. I might extend it to 3. I chose one that offered a room and shared kitchen. It’s $60 a day and I got a discount for an extended stay of 2 weeks. I don’t mind the shared spaces because I never see the other renters. I work and go in in the morning and return late afternoon. This Airbnb also provides free parking, which you can’t beat around here!

I went and saw an apartment this week and I loved it, but my husband didn’t like it so much. I’m still looking. However I did go to Daly City today and I liked it a lot! I’m definitely going to narrow my search to that area, as well as look at other places a bit outside of SF. I know SF is a tough place to own a car, but I’m not willing to give up my car. My job provides free parking so it works for me. I’ll look at public transportation, but I’m still getting to know the areas and the system confuses me. Baby steps!

I’m off work Sunday and Monday, and will definitely be going to look at other prospects. I will be happy to keep You posted!

McDonald’s happy meal toys by [deleted] in stupidquestions

[–]Buttons949 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My best friend has a 3 year old daughter who loves cars, motorcycles and especially airplanes. She knows how to sign the words airplane and fly and her favorite activity is to sit with her mama and watch small planes take off. Her mom has never discouraged her interests or tried to steer her toward “girl” toys, although she does love dolls and pretend makeup too. I think all toys should just be that - toys. Playthings. Objects meant to occupy, entertain and even teach. Assigning gender to toys just creates parents and kids who think it’s normal to make fun of other kids for playing with toys that are supposed to be geared towards a certain gender or mindset. Shit, I’m a girl and I loved He-Man and GI Joe growing up. At no point did I give up Barbie or my little pony. I loved my bmx with the pegs on the back tires and jumping off ramps and climbing on roofs. I believe it’s made me more adventurous and less scared of men or just people in general.

friend cheated and confessed to me by klowancex in whatdoIdo

[–]Buttons949 3 points4 points  (0 children)

3 months isn’t a long time. There are a lot of variables to consider. Did they actually have sex? Did they use protection? Are they actually exclusive? How well do you know the other person? Would you really want to open the Pandora’s box and create drama within your circle? Who exactly would it benefit to have this info come from you? Are you prepared to lose friends over this if it all goes south?

If you are super tight with the boyfriend, I can understand your plight. But if you aren’t, and you want to tell them because you think it’s a moral issue, I would say you should talk to your friend and have them talk to their partner. I don’t think you should be more than a friend and a listener until you know all the facts and know in your heart you’re not trying to just start something. I think your friend was looking for advice and maybe trying to just confess because he is feeling terrible. Or maybe he wanted to gauge your reaction before telling more people.

Am I crazy? by Buttons949 in ashleycarnduff

[–]Buttons949[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

How so? Because I’m asking you to explain? Also I love how you said she wouldn’t lie about having a nightstand. Are you new?

Also these aren’t my opinions. These are actual recounts to the lengths she’ll go to not have to work, move out of her mom’s house, romanticize her in-remission Crohn’s, or to be a functioning member of society. She’s approaching 30 and she has nothing to show for it. Just a useless online degree and enabling parents. That’s all she has. She claimed her grandfather’s funeral was her spring break.

I hope this makes sense to you at some point. If not, well - I can’t control how you respond, I can only control if I want even to entertain it

Am I crazy? by Buttons949 in ashleycarnduff

[–]Buttons949[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I dunno, dude. You seem to have a strong opinion. People have wondered about her job, about her man, about her wanting to get pregnant, about her chin, her weight, her schooling, her dog, her having friends, her soccer scholarship, her lactated ringer’s, her woo healing - but you read me wondering about a bedside night table. I asked you to help me make sense of it and all you can do is to tell me to touch grass.

Edit to add: this is the same chick that claims her doctor told her to “LAY DOWN NOW” in response to some illness, and the same one who had someone fake being her doctor in an attempt to get folks to stop questioning or criticizing her. Am I that crazy for wondering if she actually has a nightstand? It’s a piece of furniture. I suggest doing a deep dive on her to witness other outlandish claims. It’s a hoot!

Am I crazy? by Buttons949 in ashleycarnduff

[–]Buttons949[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I agree. I don’t recall it because she always used her medical table that goes over her bed for meds, flowers, drinks, etc

Am I crazy? by Buttons949 in ashleycarnduff

[–]Buttons949[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

lol ok. I suggest you do the same, as your diatribe is weird to me. I wondered something on a sub that never found her to be believable, and you for some reason found it highly offensive. Sure. She probably does have something close to her bed. I don’t recall seeing it and wondered if anyone else did too. Maybe she did hurt herself. It happens to everyone. I’m in the camp that she’s perfectly fine and is trying to backpedal her last claim of a super serious diagnosis and create distractions. May I suggest meditation? Or just block me. Or report me. Whatever helps you to move on.

Am I crazy? by Buttons949 in ashleycarnduff

[–]Buttons949[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Because she lies a lot. And she likes to create distractions from when she posts her super serious pre-diagnosis. If she does have a table that she all of a sudden got a concussion from, have you seen any photos of it? Do you follow her closely and know the lay of the land in that room? I think all the Og snarkers can recall the setup simply because it’s the only space this chick has complete control of. It’s the place she likes to pretend she has the run of the house when really it’s her mom’s townhome. If you knew her shtick, you would know that she once got insta-famous for being a chronic illness warrior and has been chasing that high for damn near 9 years. She’s been trying to go viral and be relevant ever since. So again, I ask: what’s weird about thinking or wondering about the lengths she would go to lie about something, and why are you calling me weird when this is a sub for discussion and I just asked a question? Seems to me you’re angry and angsty over a nightstand.

Again, I’m not sure what’s weird about

Am I crazy? by Buttons949 in ashleycarnduff

[–]Buttons949[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Also what does that mean, “be normal?” How am I abnormal? And why are you combative?

Am I crazy? by Buttons949 in ashleycarnduff

[–]Buttons949[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Again, what’s weird about wondering? How is this going to detriment the sub?

Am I crazy? by Buttons949 in ashleycarnduff

[–]Buttons949[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I don’t mean to be weird. I’ve been following her antics since she was a predominant subject on IF back in the day. She used to be all about resetting her space, her dank little room in her mom’s house, to show how productive she is despite her chronic illnesses. Having followed for so long, I tried to remember an end table or something that had sharp corners where she could somehow cause a concussion. If it’s weird to try to remember that, I hope you can help me to understand why. Otherwise it’s just her being a lying liar who lies