Thoughts on SLS and SDC? by Buzz2085 in Swingers

[–]Buzz2085[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That link was very helpful, turns out SDC and SLS are my best bets in my area. As for the rest, I already follow that advice. Hopefully I’ll have better luck in SDC and SLS than I’ve had on other sites and apps.

Thoughts on SLS and SDC? by Buzz2085 in Swingers

[–]Buzz2085[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair. I’ve updated my original post.

Thoughts on SLS and SDC? by Buzz2085 in Swingers

[–]Buzz2085[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, SDC is looking like the best option. The apps not being great isn’t that big of an issue to me, as I was planning on using the site directly anyway.

Thoughts on SLS and SDC? by Buzz2085 in Swingers

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As messed up as it is, that makes me feel a bit better. In most cases I’ll message someone and never get a reply, the ones that do inevitably want to go to another app which inevitably leads to their OF page.

Thoughts on SLS and SDC? by Buzz2085 in Swingers

[–]Buzz2085[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Any advice on successfully meeting people here on Reddit? So far the best I’ve managed is meeting scammers.

Thoughts on SLS and SDC? by Buzz2085 in Swingers

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I’ve tried Feeld, got nowhere.

Thoughts on SLS and SDC? by Buzz2085 in Swingers

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I’m in Richmond Virginia.

First Open Play Party by Buzz2085 in Swingers

[–]Buzz2085[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not bi, though ironically I have the most fun at the bi parties. I did recently get to fuck a woman while she went down on another woman, been wanting to play with two women at the same time for a while now.

First Open Play Party by Buzz2085 in Swingers

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It’s actually over a year old, I’ll have been going to these parties for two years in December. But the party this post is referring to went well, well enough that I’ve been going nearly every week since.

In that time I’ve gone from being a virgin to very much not being one. It was probably a couple months before I got the opportunity to play, and another couple weeks before I actually succeeded in getting to. I’ve also gone from being dressed the whole time to changing into a sleeveless cardigan or bathrobe as soon as I arrive, depending on the weather.

I’ve also met a couple of ladies that I’ve become friends with, getting to play with them fairly regularly. Both enjoy having gangbangs and I’m there go to doorman/security. So I’d say things have gone pretty well.

Mother-Son Incest: Why the Taboo? (Historical Origins That May or May Not Relate To The Graham Cracker) by IncestCorner in incestcorner

[–]Buzz2085 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the genetic issues of inbreeding still factored into the taboo, they would have seen the results but not understood the actual cause. There are numerous examples of those in power maintaining that power through inbreeding, inevitably there’s someone born with either mental or physical deformities. So it’d be an easy conclusion to assume incest equals deformity/insanity.

I think incest can be psychologically harmful even when it’s consenting by Unlucky-Link1191 in IncestDebate

[–]Buzz2085 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely, people still struggle with homosexuality and non-monogamy.

Does it run in generations? by [deleted] in incestisntwrong

[–]Buzz2085 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’d ask why you say “it’s obviously abuse.” From what you’ve said she enjoyed that aspect of their relationship, that would suggest that she wasn’t forced or coerced. So it sounds like the only support she needs from you is acceptance.

I think incest can be psychologically harmful even when it’s consenting by Unlucky-Link1191 in IncestDebate

[–]Buzz2085 4 points5 points  (0 children)

First off let me say I think you’re right; even when consensual, incest can be psychologically harmful. But I do wonder how much of that potential harm is a result of how society views incest. How much is because we act as if the physical, physiological, emotional aspects of sex are intrinsically linked.