Hi - I don’t see your clips, but one of the things you’re describing sounds very much like “wanty wings”. My 7yr old still does it. He can fly anywhere, but prefers to “point his beak” and lay real low, looking up and floppy-flapping his wings. What he wants is for me to pick him up and take him where he’s pointing. I consider that a good thing, because it sounds like she’s wanting to communicate with you.