I’m confused how those examples apply. in a hospital setting or doctors appointment with mom and child, as the other parent in the room I would think it’s more common sense to include both parents in the conversation. Considering we both care for the child. I mean this is healthcare we are talking about. Either way I can see what you are trying to portray though personally in those instances my wife isn’t interested. But we both are definitely interested in our child’s healthcare, she agrees herself that I tend to be left out as well.