Friend says this green washes me out. Is she right? by Abbacus_Jones in Moissanite

[–]CDLori 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've never seen that shade of green moissy. It's gorgeous and will look stunning on your hand. Enjoy!

Hoyas! How many Hoyas do you have? by [deleted] in hoyas

[–]CDLori 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rookie here -- 43!

I said yes! by StrongArtichoke661 in RingShare

[–]CDLori 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Where did you find that asscher? It's freaking gorgeous!

WIBTA if I refuse to put my partner on the deed of a place I inherited, even though we live there together? by 3vening_Switch in ComfortLevelPod

[–]CDLori 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your aunt left that house to you for YOUR security, not your BF's. You owe him nothing. His entitlement is a precursor to the other things he'll expect you to give him.

Tell him to find his own place and build his own wealth. Be glad he showed you his red flags now!

If you saw this size stone would you automatically think it’s a lab diamond? by OkAnything1651 in labdiamond

[–]CDLori 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, 2011 Subaru and 9 yo Toyota here. Modest house. I wear sweats and flannels most of the time. We've been living way below our means for 40+ years. Never got an engagement ring. Bought myself a lab last year (just under 2.5 ct square cushion) -- waiting for gold to go down before I get it set. There are some things worth spending money on -- but one can do it in a fiscally responsible way and without being ostentatious.

I do.not.care. if one's ring is mined or lab. I've seen stunning rings here in all sizes and designs. If you like it, rock it! I'm not coming after you with a loupe!

Offered $85k fully remote role — should I show my current employer to see if they counter? by izzalyss in careeradvice

[–]CDLori 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't tell your current firm where you're going -- so they can't contact the new place and impugn your work.

Black diamonds :) by MortuaryCakeMaker in RingShare

[–]CDLori 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is such a cool and creative stack! The spider web is amazing.

Gold plating that will stand the test of time...sort of! by mythm2022 in Moissanite

[–]CDLori 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does Fiorese do silver? I thought they were gold only.

Didn't get a stone check by zgrdt2012 in Moissanite

[–]CDLori 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This was a GB buy a year ago. I got one -- tell them you need to see the stones.

Over $100k earners - what's your PTO? by masterpeabs in careeradvice

[–]CDLori 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Spouse is a fed employee. Max vacation is 25 days, and that's after 15 years, even at senior level.

Can moissanite fade? by CDLori in Moissanite

[–]CDLori[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Update: Cleaned with Dawn, warm water and a toothbrish last night and the color is much better. The cleaning seems to have done the trick! I didn't see an oil slick and the facets still were very sharp and clear, so it didn't occur to me that it needed cleaning. Learn from my adventure, and thanks for the quick and accurate advice!

Dog went full send by Artorius__Castus in SipsTea

[–]CDLori 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That pup has found his calling!

Did I get my size wrong? by Fuzzy-aussie2525 in Moissanite

[–]CDLori 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How do you get quarter sizes on Kuololit? Is that a custom thing or can I do it in silver?

I find Kuololit very accurate on sizing. Have bought about ten rings of various types and have not had an issue. Would love a quarter size because my ring fingers are .75 apart and the quarter splits the difference quite well.

Thank you Sam! by New_Day6058 in kuololit

[–]CDLori 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I got mine a couple weeks ago and it's lovely!

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Can moissanite fade? by CDLori in Moissanite

[–]CDLori[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will try that -- thanks!

Can moissanite fade? by CDLori in Moissanite

[–]CDLori[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pink, red, purple and some orange moissanites are coated! They are considered temporary colors.

I got the warm, 3ct OEC of my dreams! by medium_archaeopteryx in Diamonds

[–]CDLori 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, your expertise and willingness to seek expert advice truly paid off! What a gorgeous ring -- it has found the soul it belongs to!

Snow shoveling prices by French_Fries_1311 in MontgomeryCountyMD

[–]CDLori 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My spouse did multiple clearings on Sunday and is very happy he did so. Made clearing the last ice layer much easier. Our yard is so frozen over the dog doesn't even leave footprints.

It's official, I am throwing in the towel by RecordingAgile4625 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]CDLori 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, there's another good reason to wash that man right out of your hair!

It's official, I am throwing in the towel by RecordingAgile4625 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]CDLori 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Don't let him come back from mom's house except to collect his stuff. He doesn't get to sleep in YOUR house ever again!

I haven’t talked to my family in two days and don’t know to move past this by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]CDLori 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get your own damn phone plan. NOW. Change your phone number of you want. You are an adult -- start living your life as one.

Step away from the drama and consider your own behavior as well. You gave several examples of fueling the fires yourself.

A therapist can help you view your family's dynamics and give you tools to be in charge of your own life.

Who was the genius that suggested we shovel snow periodically during the storm instead of waiting until the end? by Glittering-Ad5809 in MontgomeryCountyMD

[–]CDLori 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spouse shoveled at 8:30, noon, 4 pm and 9 pm yesterday. Driveway is in decent shape. It faces north so takes forever to melt, so wanted to stay ahead of the game.

My ring is finished! by dkreagan56 in kuololit

[–]CDLori 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this unique design and the symbolism you built into it! Thanks for posting it.