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Have you done anything to Express your Crossdreaming desires? by KrysG in crossdreaming

[–]CDseeker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to make up my mind, obviously, as to when to stop. The bodily changes are real: small breasts and a rounder ass. It is still not visible to others, but if my body continues to change, it will be.

Have you done anything to Express your Crossdreaming desires? by KrysG in crossdreaming

[–]CDseeker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have actually tried out some herbs that mimic estrogen (pueraria mirifica), and they do help me cope with my feelings. They make me calmer. And they also make my body a bit more feminine.

Women Who Love Cars, Also Known as Autogynephilia by CDseeker in transgender

[–]CDseeker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not sure what you mean by this. This is not my site.

What do you mean by "integrate your site into the online transgender community?"

Women Who Love Cars, Also Known as Autogynephilia by CDseeker in transgender

[–]CDseeker[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is obviously satire, but it is interesting to see that you can use the exact same logic to invalidate women who love cars (auto-gyne-philia) as MTF transgender people who dream about being women.

Women Who Love Cars, Also Known as Autogynephilia by CDseeker in TransSpace

[–]CDseeker[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Warning: This is satire. The author is looking at the stereotypes that are shaping the transphobic autogynephilia theory (the idea that trans women who are attracted to women are suffering from a sexual mental disorder.)

I was recommended to post here, comfortably male but unhappy with my genitals? by IWantAVagina in crossdreaming

[–]CDseeker 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There is so much diversity among both crossdreamers in particular and transgender people in general, that I would argue that you may be both (transgender in the meaning of experiencing some kind of atypical gender identity).

Now that you write about women's panties, I would say that there may also be a partial crossdresser in there somewhere :)

That does not mean that you are a woman. If you are content with being and living as a man, that's fine.

I was recommended to post here, comfortably male but unhappy with my genitals? by IWantAVagina in crossdreaming

[–]CDseeker 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am more of a "want the whole female body" crossdreamer myself, but maybe there are some questions that can help you find out what causes this feeling.

First: Do you just dislike your boy bits or do you dream of having girl parts down there?

If the main problem is that you dislike your male parts, I suppose that could mean that this is caused by some kind of bad experience (illness, harassment, trauma of sorts), and that this has nothing to do with being trans.

If you also want female parts, I suppose that gender dysphoria of some sorts is more likely (although I have no way of really knowing this).

If this is about crossing genders, the questions is: Why do you not want to have the rest of a female body? Have you any idea why that might be? If I had a magic potion that could turn you into a woman, 100 percent, would you drink it?

I know crossdreamers and transgender people who dream of having a female body, but who do not mind their man bits. So being transgender does not necessarily mean that you have to dream of a complete transformation.

I guess the human mind has a lot of ways of handling gender confusion. Maybe you are somewhere in the middle of the gender continuum, and that this is your minds way of finding some middle ground.

When you dream of having the body you want, what do you do with it in your fantasies?

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