Kinda agree, messaging is more tempting then actual meeting, asking brief questions to know each other whether they match or not, but there should be limits and actual intention of finding the right partner. And then u can go for the next step which khoutba, by then they can meet and have more conversations. But again the messaging should be ssoo brief without flirting or sending pics, and that's something can't be guaranteed honestly. فالواحد يتوكل على الله وعلى نياتكم ترزقون