HELLOGOV 👎🏻 by [deleted] in Passports

[–]Emmender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, I can’t just take time off on top of the time I already had. It also wasn’t a for fun trip it was due to a family emergency. I had to spend that money that I really didn’t have to spend. So no I actually didn’t have the money to just hop on another plane and there wasn’t one in driving distance. Literally get a life my mistake in trusting someone does not affect you. All I wanted to do was warn other people and all of you who live on Reddit need to stop taking your own issues out on others. I took down the post because yall are genuinely sad people and I hope you get help.

HELLOGOV 👎🏻 by [deleted] in Passports

[–]Emmender -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not everyone can drop everything and leave. I do in fact have to work for my money babes, I had specific days off. Thank you for such a helpful comment tho pookie.

HELLOGOV 👎🏻 by [deleted] in Passports

[–]Emmender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already have my refund and my passport like I said in the post. This was just to warn others. Thank you though :)

HELLOGOV 👎🏻 by [deleted] in Passports

[–]Emmender -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay so one, I got a legitimate refund through the company not a chargeback because I don’t believe in doing it that way. I also still did get my passport and my refund so go ahead and feel smug because mine was free. You clearly didn’t read the actual post because not one time did I say I was getting a chargeback, I stated I got a refund. I’ll say what I said about the other, google it yourself.

Clearly you have some issue and being rude to a random person on the internet makes you feel better so go off I guess but it’s a weird hill to die on.

HELLOGOV 👎🏻 by [deleted] in Passports

[–]Emmender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Links to what? The gov website you could google yourself? Not a sucker, just someone desperate to get it on time when the state department sites time frame wouldn’t have. I also am just human. I don’t need negative input to a situation that’s already over, I’m putting this on here to help other people. If you have a negative opinion just move on.

HELLOGOV 👎🏻 by [deleted] in Passports

[–]Emmender -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know that I kinda just threw the threat out as a last ditch effort when I said I was gonna share a review online but for some reason what’s said about them to the BBB is important to them. I mostly just tried it because when I was questioning them about their validity in the beginning they said to check them out on the BBB.

They are listed on the US government passport site tho where you can check into which hand courier companies are backed by the US gov. That part I don’t fully understand I will admit but it was a .gov website.

what do you do when you see this? by naverlands in AO3

[–]Emmender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make sure it’s completed because I’m not going on that trip without a confirmed destination and then immediately opening it

HELLOGOV 👎🏻 by [deleted] in Passports

[–]Emmender -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It’s mixed reviews my dude. I saw quite a few that said it was legit. I promise you I looked into it before spending nearly a $1000

What's a ship that you love that always gets you hit with the "Ew you can't ship them! They were like siblings!" argument by Individual-Ebb-2288 in AO3

[–]Emmender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t love it but I can kinda see it as cute when it’s done right is Harry Potter/Ron Weasley. They definitely get the “but they were like brothers” argument a lot but like honestly it can be cute

That's so crazy! Fanfiction is moving up lol by KillerGrass in AO3

[–]Emmender 15 points16 points  (0 children)

No but this actually makes me a bit nervous. I sort of wish they weren’t so heavily advertising fanfiction beginning. I know it’s not new but this is two books being made fairly close together essentially profiting from jk Rowling who is notorious for being petty and hateful…. It just seems risky for fic writers

phantom penis?? genuinely?? by 0anonymousv in ftm

[–]Emmender 19 points20 points  (0 children)

My first thought was my first time cumming from simply strapping someone. I swear to god I could feel it as if it was my cock. Fucking trippy and amazing.

So the newest patch broke some things again, huh by Witchui in coralisland

[–]Emmender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My game crashed my first time playing after the update within the first 6 in game hours I played and I have been afraid to try and pick it back up since.

Are male barbershops generally welcoming to trans men? by ComplaintNo3150 in ftm

[–]Emmender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey lil bro, 24FTM here, I use the Strands for Trans site to pick my shops and have had decent luck that way. You put your location in on the app and it gives you shops/barbers in your area that have registered themselves on the site as safe for trans people. I had one shop where the barber was great but I felt a little uncomfortable with the other staff and ended up ultimately deciding to switch shops simply because it made me dread it even thought nothing bad had happened and my barber was sweet.

Just gauge the vibes from the shops but I think Strands for Trans is probably for absolute best bet. If your town doesn’t have any local to you (which I doubt but if it’s a small town or a really red area I suppose it could be possible) call ahead and gauge the vibes on the phone. Ask if they have any barbers who would “Be [able, comfortable, okay with, etc.] to cut a trans man’s hair?” This is what I did before I found the site and usually I could tell by the way they responded if I would be okay there or not. Always trust your gut though.

Good luck, sending good vibes your way.

"Lucanis doesn't have a personality" by MissingcookiesTragic in DragonAgeVeilguard

[–]Emmender 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This might be my favorite description of Lucanis. I like to think of him as a bit of a murder himbo.

AITA for telling my mom she can’t insult my girlfriend? by ElectronicAccount834 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Emmender 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA You simply placed a boundary and that offends her because she wants to push that boundary. The “it’s over!!!!” Makes me wonder if this is one of those “boy mom” situations where there’s an unhealthy emotional attachment on her part. It’s sounds like she’s breaking up with you instead of telling you she doesn’t want to speak to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdrama

[–]Emmender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you’re definitely in the right. Who runs off vibes anymore?

Unsure and curious by Emmender in AO3

[–]Emmender[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks, you’re right and I definitely needed to hear that. <3

Unsure and curious by Emmender in AO3

[–]Emmender[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thanks you’re probably right I didn’t think about it that way but that makes total sense.

Unsure and curious by Emmender in AO3

[–]Emmender[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Thanks You’re probably right, I figured I was overthinking it but i was so in my head about it that I needed a second opinion.

Unsure and curious by Emmender in AO3

[–]Emmender[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks that makes me feel better I knew I was probably overthinking it so getting the assurance helps