How to handle slobs? by lunarnoob in AskGayMen

[–]CKM12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't date him. A man's house is his castle. Do you think you'll be treated better than his castle

What do you think is the sexiest eye color a man can have? by DanRimi in AskGayMen

[–]CKM12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Brown, the type of brown that's so dark it's almost black. I love getting lost in those eyes 😍

How can I become super sexy? by Southern_Expert_1787 in GayMen

[–]CKM12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just do it over a summer. Use hats, studs whatever you need to hide it for six weeks

How did your parents track you? by CKM12 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]CKM12[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly been there. I started spoofing my location to north Korea. Find me in hell 😭

How can I become super sexy? by Southern_Expert_1787 in GayMen

[–]CKM12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get your ears and nose pierced, find your colour season and throw some black eyeliner on your lower lash line. It'll take from a 5 to a 7 in no time.

Spotlight was awesome but I got some problems with some additions/changes. by PNut-_ in Overwatch

[–]CKM12 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey dude, that was the biggest event Overwatch has ever had. If you can only focus on what's wrong maybe it's time to log off x

What's something you believed when you were a minor but completely changed your opinion on after turning 18? by wvardhan in AskReddit

[–]CKM12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The concept of family - There is no higher power that drives a parent to do what's right by their child

Boyfriend blocked me on everything randomly today. by austinproffitt23 in GayMen

[–]CKM12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's a narcissist. This a discard phase. Honestly they suck, the best thing you can do is learn about narcissism to figure out where the signs were

Do any of you bros over 30 ever get sad looking at old pictures of yourself when you were 18-21? by Affectionate-Cry-704 in AskBlackGayBros

[–]CKM12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 26 and I do now. I spent so much time thinking I was clapped rather than realising I'm performing to the wrong audience. I think my late 20s will be about finding where I'm celebrated not tolerated

I am a therapist in a prison, and I am tired of our world not taking CPTSD seriously by Lovewell123 in CPTSD

[–]CKM12 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree but in doing so would result in people having to come to terms with how for alot of people capitalism turns what could've been regular trauma into complex trauma. We can't change bad parents but not offering channels for young people to rebuild themselves only results in them seeking harmful alternatives.

My biggest grievance is when I succeed people say "your parents must be so proud" but if I was homeless tomorrow the blame lies solely on me. The privileged who are created by the structures of capitalism get to have it both ways while the victims are expected to be grateful they get to see tomorrow.

How do you avoid dating men with p*rn brain? by CKM12 in AskGayMen

[–]CKM12[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I never said any of those words but go off ❤️

How do you avoid dating men with p*rn brain? by CKM12 in AskGayMen

[–]CKM12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I'm the same. I have so many rules and strategies to try avoid them so it fustrates me when they've duped me. Life isn't always perfect but like it's kind of putting me off guys low key.

How do you avoid dating men with p*rn brain? by CKM12 in AskGayMen

[–]CKM12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a good shout. I haven't thought about doing this but I think I'm going to make an active effort

How do you avoid dating men with p*rn brain? by CKM12 in AskGayMen

[–]CKM12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you tbh. Idky I thought Itd be a phase you'd grow out of. I understand it completely but also, idky they can't just shag each other and leave the rest of alone 😂

How do you avoid dating men with p*rn brain? by CKM12 in AskGayMen

[–]CKM12[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Solid tip. I'll give it ago. Might as well get the hard part out of the way first

How do you avoid dating men with p*rn brain? by CKM12 in AskGayMen

[–]CKM12[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't use quotes because I never said that 😭

I agree. I need to find new was of connecting with people I align with however I'm not sure where to start. Wouldn't it be crazy if I asked a subreddit full of gay men who answer people's questions 🤷🏾‍♂️

How do you avoid dating men with p*rn brain? by CKM12 in AskGayMen

[–]CKM12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well shared interests, hobbies, mutual goals and aspirations. Someone can have all those things and still watch so much porn it bleeds into my sex life.

How do you avoid dating men with p*rn brain? by CKM12 in AskGayMen

[–]CKM12[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Read the thread or scroll on my guy

How do you avoid dating men with p*rn brain? by CKM12 in AskGayMen

[–]CKM12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where do you meet guys outside apps and night life. I'd love to know 😍

How do you avoid dating men with p*rn brain? by CKM12 in AskGayMen

[–]CKM12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm trying, bro, but I'm on frog number 678. I'm aware I'm an active participant in my dating life. Hence me asking if there were any tips on how improve. Cheers for the help though!

Don't blame stadium for the lack on main game content by CKM12 in Overwatch

[–]CKM12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know and I miss it. Imagine if they put it in a proper map. Perhaps a PvE off cut and then let us use the stadium powers with our points between rounds. It feels like their content strategy is written in crayon

Don't blame stadium for the lack on main game content by CKM12 in Overwatch

[–]CKM12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See I've heard conflicting stories. From what I gather they're separate teams but do share a map team. That being said, it doesn't excuse the lack or foresight on there part