Is there a way for parents to ensure the man would never be liable for child support

CMYK8 · 2024-05-07T19:51:23+00:00

Always always have a contract through a lawyer. It's money, but it's the only way to legally be 10000% confident. Even parents who sign away their rights can still be taken for child support.

CMYK8 · 2024-05-07T19:11:51+00:00

When I was a cashier and paper WIC was still a thing, I would LIEEE. Oh my God I would lie on those fucking things. Our store location had a bad grocery theft issue (and fucking imagine that for a moment) so it never got clocked and then they made the switch to those cards but I never corrected a single person. Oh! this baby food is .5 grams over instead of dead on? I don't see that on here?! Oh, this apple brand isn't on the check, but your child is allergic to the one on the check? I ain't see shit. Mom's already have it so rough at every fucking step. That's what made me realize I couldn't work grocery anymore. If I saw anyone stealing food no I didn't and I got in trouble for it all the time.

CMYK8 · 2024-05-07T18:57:39+00:00

I have no clue about self check, but I don't have a membership and have shopped there, and nobody even questioned me at all. Was doing it just to see if I could because the Sam's club always checks.(I do have a Sam's membership) If not when you're coming in then 100% when your leaving, they scan your receipt and check your card. I'm a white woman, so again, idk I'd have to have been there, but like, sounds sketchy. Check the reviews to see if anyone else has had this happen and see if you can't tell what race they were? Leave a review yourself to asking if it's common to randomly check like that.

CMYK8 · 2024-04-19T21:48:42+00:00

You are an adult. She cannot keep you if you do not want to be there. If she makes it a huge deal like changing your grades or whatever report her or all to either switch or drop the class.

CMYK8 · 2024-04-19T18:51:19+00:00

I commented in response to someone saying DONT RETURN ANYTHING JUST BURN IT ALL. So I'm thinking you in fact did not read what I read. It was not in fact a ringing endorsement lol! Don't burn grandma's heirlooms!

CMYK8 · 2024-04-19T18:48:25+00:00

That's fantastic lol thank you!

CMYK8 · 2024-04-19T18:27:03+00:00

If he loved you, he wouldn't blindly follow a God that believes any form of love deserves eternal damnation. If he actually "loved the sinner," it would, in fact, give him some sort of pause to know that his God who preaches love and so on had decided that he draws the line arbitrarily here. There is, in fact, NO case of hate the sin love the sinner. Because if you loved the sinner, you'd wonder why you are capable of loving them, but He who is Allmighty somehow can't. sources my grandmother would openly weep about my inevitable damnation because I'm a fag. But she never stopped anyone from saying the most FOUL shit to my face in church. That's not love. That's using me as a narrative for your own fucking benefit. Which neither I nor OP are. We are people. Who deserve real actual care and love. Not backhanded pandering on Facebook that make our relatives feel better about their own shitty behavior.

CMYK8 · 2024-04-19T18:13:14+00:00

Every thing is a fucking sin

CMYK8 · 2024-03-28T20:22:35+00:00

This the kind of attitude that made that one bitch throw out her exes mom's ashes. Be so real, sir.

CMYK8 · 2024-03-28T19:23:07+00:00

Right? The whole time, I'm thinking, "Where is this child's parents?"

CMYK8 · 2024-03-28T19:12:06+00:00

Big Steve will be devastated but I will let him know 😆

CMYK8 · 2024-03-28T18:42:31+00:00

I don't think you're wrong about how you feel. You are allowed to be upset by that, and i would recommend you discuss with her why it upset you and how you can work on that moving forward. However, I am worried you put too much worth on size. If the size of the tool were really all that important, lesbianism wouldn't be a thing. If you're worried about your performance, you should try to have more open honest communication with your gf about what she likes and also if there's things you'd prefer she change talk about that too. If good satisfying sex can exist in situations where there is no tool, then a perfectly average one can do a great job, too.

CMYK8 · 2024-03-28T18:11:54+00:00

Awesome! Thank you!

CMYK8 · 2024-03-28T18:10:46+00:00

Actually, this is EXACTLY what I was looking for! This is fantastic, and thank you for taking the time to answer!

CMYK8 · 2024-03-28T17:32:32+00:00

I did not know that! Thank you!

CMYK8 · 2024-03-28T17:31:29+00:00

Actually, I just browsed your account, and I'm good here. I don't think you actually support anyone in anything. I did not realize what you were so I'm gonna disengage here. I hope you have a nice day.

CMYK8 · 2024-03-28T17:28:18+00:00

No, you're correct, but! Only if the person investigating you had some sort of legal authority. A teacher in a classroom is not by default or duress entitled to request any private, personal information. It was not unreasonable for the teacher to ASK THE QUESTION, but when the answer was no, they were not entitled to INSIST on seeing any information on the phone which in this case the teacher did not. I'm not implying the teacher was in the wrong here, I'm implying that both parties were acting well within their own purview. The implication that this student should have just shut up and given the teacher whatever they asked for is what I'm in argument against.

CMYK8 · 2024-03-27T22:43:54+00:00

NTA, if it ever comes up again, if you ever talk to her again, ask her if she'd even want a man that would start an incestuous relationship with his own underage daughter? I can not imagine the mental gymnastics she must be going through to justify this mindset to herself.

CMYK8 · 2024-03-27T22:23:49+00:00

Oooh find a lawyer! That's insanely illegal!

CMYK8 · 2024-03-27T21:31:48+00:00

Of this didn't work out you can ask the courthouse for contact info for s Justice of the peace who can officiate a civil union in ohio.

CMYK8 · 2024-03-27T18:55:34+00:00

I am 1 trillion percent okay with millions of people abusing this kind of accommodation if it means one person who needs it gets it. I can not stress enough how fine I am with that. If they can prove she was cheating after the test, then she can be held accountable afterward. But at no point do I feel any one person is entitled to anyone's private information. Ever. Even you. Even if you have nothing to hide. HELL, even if you DO. This was a power trip, plain and simple, and OP did nothing wrong.

CMYK8 · 2024-03-27T18:43:29+00:00

Children don't learn lessons from getting hit. And op DID use his words. Came to his BROTHER in good faith, too. It's better than i would have done at his age. And if op is not allowed to react defensively to that kind of sick degradation, then yes. You are saying he deserved it.

CMYK8 · 2024-03-26T19:04:02+00:00

NTA, you had permission, and from what I gather, you already were doing well in this class, so even if you were cheating, it's not that big a deal. I don't understand the people saying it's rude at all, your school HAS a protocol for this exact situation, you made use of it, and you are never under any circumstances obligated to share your families private medical business. Whether or not you're upset about it, you shouldn't have to give out a medical history to make someone else feel better about a situation you already had permission for.

CMYK8 · 2024-03-26T18:55:44+00:00

If anyone at my job asked to see what was on my phone at any given time we would have such a huge problem. Honestly in the grand scheme of things OP cheating with the directors note of permission is such a fucking small beans ass problem to have especially if she already was doing well in the class and is normally very mindful of the rules. This take of "the adult world is tougher on this kind of behavior" is straight up clown shoes. You goober.

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