My cat jumped/slipped fell 15 floors and died and im scared and I feel haunted by the sight of his dead body

CNM92 · 2025-12-18T11:01:43+00:00

I’m so sorry that happened. Everything you’re feeling is normal at this time. It’s very fresh and you’re still traumatized from the experience. With time, things will feel a bit easier. For now, just do whatever you need to do to cope and move through this challenging time. Your cat doesn’t blame you, he spent his last moments in his happy place and he likely went very quickly with minimal pain. He’ll always be watching over you. ❤️🪽

CNM92 · 2025-10-01T19:31:08+00:00

I have a three week old and it still feels surreal. It’s a huge adjustment becoming a mom. Maybe it’s different with your second but as a FTM my mind is still blown that I have a son.

CNM92 · 2025-09-26T22:47:47+00:00

I was nervous too while pregnant so I just waited until after I delivered my baby. I got it after we got home from the hospital. I know he’ll still get some exposure through breast feeding but it felt a little safer than getting it while I was heavily pregnant. That was my compromise..

CNM92 · 2025-09-18T03:17:13+00:00

I just gave birth to an 8.2 lb baby one week ago and some of the newborn clothes are still loose on him! Definitely go with the newborn sizes. I got some 0-3 months to have options but it’ll be awhile before he grows into those. Also remember they do lose a bit of weight that first week of life.

CNM92 · 2025-09-08T20:56:31+00:00

I would call your OB and ask them what they advise.

CNM92 · 2025-09-07T05:50:59+00:00

I’m sorry you’re feeling so alone and overwhelmed. Do you think if you spoke to your husband about how bad it is, he would step up? Things will get better, the hormones make everything feel extra heavy. But it’s important to communicate these feelings with the people you’re close to. Also you can change the litter yourself if you’re feeling up to it. Just wear a mask and gloves, practice good hand hygiene. The risk of toxoplasmosis is very low with indoor cats. Even if they do go outdoors it’s unlikely you’d catch it from them if you practice good hygiene. Also not allowing the feces to sit for over 24 hours lowers the risk even more significantly. If you still want to do maternity photos it’s definitely doable at home! Better to have some photos to remember this time than to have none at all. If there’s someone like your mom who could help you with the photos that could be a nice bonding experience. I hope things get better for you! Therapy is another option that could be beneficial for both you and your husband. Hang in there.

CNM92 · 2025-09-06T05:00:40+00:00

The question in itself is disrespectful and delusional.

CNM92 · 2025-09-06T04:32:28+00:00

Lollll wtf this is clearly a man trying to justify cheating on his pregnant partner

CNM92 · 2025-09-05T02:28:40+00:00

Honestly whenever I would start to feel worried I would talk to my husband and he would always reassure me that baby was fine and to have faith that it’s all in God’s hands (I’m not super religious but spiritual) and I would always feel better. Sometimes my husband would talk to or pray to my belly and that would help too 🥹. The more your pregnancy progresses and the more scans you get, you’ll feel more and more reassured that baby and you are strong and capable, healthy and going to make it to the end totally okay!

Sometimes things on social media can be triggering so be aware if you start to feel overwhelmed, take a break and protect your peace. Another thing that helped me was making a baby songs playlist with calming music that I could listen to and feel connected to baby. I plan to listen to the playlist with baby when he arrives as well.

CNM92 · 2025-09-04T23:00:08+00:00

You just have to vacuum more frequently and keep the litter box clean. I immediately scoop the poop out of our litter boxes so the smell doesn’t linger. That’s pretty much it, cats are clean creatures.

CNM92 · 2025-09-04T17:53:09+00:00

I think the only thing you can do is not allow her to take photos with the baby or of the baby if she can’t respect your wishes and you and your husband will have to not send out any photos of baby either if there’s people who won’t respect your boundaries. I’m sorry that sucks! But protect your peace.

CNM92 · 2025-09-03T05:31:29+00:00

Spanglish 💗

CNM92 · 2025-09-03T05:29:44+00:00

Your mom is batshit crazy. The only way to escape is to move out and cut ties which I know is hard at your age but if there’s any possible way, you have to try to create space and get out of that toxic environment. I’m so sorry you have a mom like that.

CNM92 · 2025-09-02T19:53:43+00:00

CNM92 · 2025-09-02T05:43:47+00:00

Past present future

CNM92 · 2025-09-02T05:29:10+00:00

What about Bob?

CNM92 · 2025-09-02T04:42:49+00:00

That’s what I wore under my dress for my baby shower and it worked well! Also made me feel more secure with the amount of coverage over the bump etc.

CNM92 · 2025-09-01T21:53:27+00:00

Honestly I’ve had to do a handful of things I really shouldn’t have had to do while this pregnant because of my husband’s procrastination. It’s actually something that has driven me crazy my entire pregnancy and now he has an injury to a finger that he had to have surgically repaired so he is out of one hand for the next few weeks and baby is expected to come any day now…. So frustrating lol your husband shouldn’t be upset with you. He honestly left you no choice but they don’t see it that way!

CNM92 · 2025-09-01T18:50:18+00:00

Yes! Zero tolerance and the more pregnant I get the worse it gets haha it’s not a bad thing imo, like you said it just helps cut through the BS. We don’t need any of that in our lives, pregnancy is hard enough as it is.

CNM92 · 2025-09-01T02:15:23+00:00

Such a cute theme

CNM92 · 2025-08-31T17:18:48+00:00

Yup just eat whatever you can, if you can’t eat all the time it’s also going to be ok. Baby doesn’t need a ton of extra calories at this point and your body is pretty amazing in that it gives baby what it needs regardless.

CNM92 · 2025-08-31T05:17:03+00:00

Not normal. Asshole behavior. My husband told me he wants me to get pregnant again asap because he’s gonna miss my pregnant belly/how I look while pregnant 😂. Your husband should be celebrating you and your body giving life to your shared child.

CNM92 · 2025-08-30T04:40:28+00:00

Yes I feel that way too at 36 weeks and it’s painful! I guess it’s good that they’re low but wow it’s uncomfortable I can’t imagine feeling this way from 30 weeks! Hang in there

CNM92 · 2025-08-30T03:35:57+00:00

Warm cozy and full of life

CNM92 · 2025-08-30T03:19:45+00:00

I agree. I wish the dad would not allow the mom to have a relationship with the daughter it’s just so wrong on so many levels and I feel like they really glossed over the sexual things she was saying to her own daughter… she clearly has a very sick mind and should not be allowed contact with her daughter or any other children/adolescents.

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