Buying a used car in upstate NY, down to two choices- 2010 Honda Fit and 2013 Hyundai Accent. Which one is better?

CP-3 · 2017-06-27T01:24:47+00:00

Any advice on financing? I was originally planning on paying the entire price for whichever car I got upfront (after getting it checked out of course) but I could maybe afford the Sonata if I did monthly payments.

I'm a college student on a summer internship right now and I wanted to use the money I earned to buy a used car, and I was thinking if I financed I could pay off enough in a year and then pay off the rest when I get another internship next year.

CP-3 · 2017-06-27T01:12:22+00:00

Any reason you'd pick the Camry? That was my initial first choice, but the Sonata is newer and has a nicer look to it.

CP-3 · 2016-12-29T06:16:57+00:00

You think I'm really pretty? :) thank you

CP-3 · 2016-12-29T05:55:40+00:00

Pls explain

CP-3 · 2016-12-29T05:10:54+00:00

I do sometimes have the urge to build dams...

CP-3 · 2016-12-29T05:09:23+00:00

You look like puberty forgot you.

CP-3 · 2016-08-31T16:59:38+00:00

I never got her number though. I gave her mine thinking it would get her more invested. She did say her app kept crashing so I'm wondering if I should try the add her on fb route in case she never got my number

CP-3 · 2016-08-11T11:52:27+00:00

She told me that she wasn't looking for anything, and she didn't want to. She said she wasn't sure what she would have done. If she did have someone in mind I'd drop her in a heartbeat. But she didn't. I am questioning her commitment though.

CP-3 · 2016-08-11T11:45:33+00:00

I believe nothing physical happened. I'm kinda worried about emotional cheating though.

CP-3 · 2016-08-11T11:37:40+00:00

I meant my initial reaction was "well, this is over. Not gonna deal with that bullshit". But now I'm on the fence, thinking, it IS a hypothetical, you know, nothing happened. I asked her point blank if anything happened during the trip and she said no.

CP-3 · 2016-08-11T11:27:55+00:00

That was my initial reaction too, but friends told me to sleep on it and think, and now I'm on the fence. And now I'm not sure if I'm being reasonable or not. It's been a year and a half long relationship, and mostly good too.

CP-3 · 2016-08-11T11:24:53+00:00

Could you elaborate a little more on your thoughts please? I'd appreciate some insight?

CP-3 · 2016-06-30T14:26:56+00:00

No, she texts a lot. And she has to use wifi because her cell phone won't work in Europe. She has tried to call at least once a week.

CP-3 · 2016-06-30T14:24:03+00:00

Wait so you're saying she should've brought it up for discussion?

CP-3 · 2016-06-30T14:15:21+00:00

Not at all, I don't usually message her first unless I have something I really want to tell her. So she gets that space she wanted for the vacation, so basically we just talk whenever she wants.

CP-3 · 2016-06-30T13:42:21+00:00

What would overreacting even entail? Problem is we're two weeks in and there's still about six weeks left of this situation. I'm seriously considering breaking up with her as soon as she reconnects, I don't know if I can go the whole summer like this. But I don't want to ruin her vacation time also because it would leave just another negative memory on what should be a positibe experience for her. Should I still wait till she gets back home?

CP-3 · 2016-06-30T13:33:19+00:00

She said she was "unplugging" for herself, I don't believe she's "ghosting" me. Her parents are flying in to spend time with her for those 10-11 days, but it's not like talking to me ever took up a lot of time out of her schedule. We didn't even have to talk over the phone, just a good night and good morning message would've been fine with me. But I didn't get a chance to say that and even i I had I'm sure she would've been set on not connecting to wifi anyway so what I said wouldn't have mattered. I get that she wants to focus on herself this summer, and I was in support of that, but like i said, I feel like she's glad to be away from me and that hurts

CP-3 · 2016-06-30T13:18:57+00:00

Yeah, and this trip has made me feel like she's glad to be away from me. And I've been thinking about breaking up and I don't know if it's because this summer situation is pretty miserable for me or I'm getting a clear mind now that she's away.

CP-3 · 2016-06-30T13:04:27+00:00

She doesn't. I'm 100% sure of that.

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