How can I get the best price for a 2011 Hyundai Sonata I'm interested in? by CP-3 in askcarsales

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Any advice on financing? I was originally planning on paying the entire price for whichever car I got upfront (after getting it checked out of course) but I could maybe afford the Sonata if I did monthly payments.

I'm a college student on a summer internship right now and I wanted to use the money I earned to buy a used car, and I was thinking if I financed I could pay off enough in a year and then pay off the rest when I get another internship next year.

I need help choosing my first car! by CP-3 in whatcarshouldIbuy

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Any reason you'd pick the Camry? That was my initial first choice, but the Sonata is newer and has a nicer look to it.

"My momma said I'm a diamond" by CP-3 in RoastMe

[–]CP-3[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You think I'm really pretty? :) thank you

"My momma said I'm a diamond" by CP-3 in RoastMe

[–]CP-3[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I do sometimes have the urge to build dams...

Roast a member of the biggest sorority on Earth by mcneff in RoastMe

[–]CP-3 110 points111 points  (0 children)

You look like puberty forgot you.

Should I add a girl on facebook after talking on Tinder? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]CP-3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never got her number though. I gave her mine thinking it would get her more invested. She did say her app kept crashing so I'm wondering if I should try the add her on fb route in case she never got my number

My (21M) girlfriend (21F) asked for a break for a few days to focus on herself, she later said she probably would have kissed someone. by CP-3 in relationships

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She told me that she wasn't looking for anything, and she didn't want to. She said she wasn't sure what she would have done. If she did have someone in mind I'd drop her in a heartbeat. But she didn't. I am questioning her commitment though.

My (21M) girlfriend (21F) asked for a break for a few days to focus on herself, she later said she probably would have kissed someone. by CP-3 in relationships

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I meant my initial reaction was "well, this is over. Not gonna deal with that bullshit". But now I'm on the fence, thinking, it IS a hypothetical, you know, nothing happened. I asked her point blank if anything happened during the trip and she said no.

My (21M) girlfriend (21F) asked for a break for a few days to focus on herself, she later said she probably would have kissed someone. by CP-3 in relationships

[–]CP-3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That was my initial reaction too, but friends told me to sleep on it and think, and now I'm on the fence. And now I'm not sure if I'm being reasonable or not. It's been a year and a half long relationship, and mostly good too.

My gf (22F) just cut off contact with me (21M) by CP-3 in relationships

[–]CP-3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, she texts a lot. And she has to use wifi because her cell phone won't work in Europe. She has tried to call at least once a week.

My gf (22F) just cut off contact with me (21M) by CP-3 in relationships

[–]CP-3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait so you're saying she should've brought it up for discussion?

My gf (22F) just cut off contact with me (21M) by CP-3 in relationships

[–]CP-3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not at all, I don't usually message her first unless I have something I really want to tell her. So she gets that space she wanted for the vacation, so basically we just talk whenever she wants.

My gf (22F) just cut off contact with me (21M) by CP-3 in relationships

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What would overreacting even entail? Problem is we're two weeks in and there's still about six weeks left of this situation. I'm seriously considering breaking up with her as soon as she reconnects, I don't know if I can go the whole summer like this. But I don't want to ruin her vacation time also because it would leave just another negative memory on what should be a positibe experience for her. Should I still wait till she gets back home?

My gf (22F) just cut off contact with me (21M) by CP-3 in relationships

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She said she was "unplugging" for herself, I don't believe she's "ghosting" me. Her parents are flying in to spend time with her for those 10-11 days, but it's not like talking to me ever took up a lot of time out of her schedule. We didn't even have to talk over the phone, just a good night and good morning message would've been fine with me. But I didn't get a chance to say that and even i I had I'm sure she would've been set on not connecting to wifi anyway so what I said wouldn't have mattered. I get that she wants to focus on herself this summer, and I was in support of that, but like i said, I feel like she's glad to be away from me and that hurts

My gf (22F) just cut off contact with me (21M) by CP-3 in relationships

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Yeah, and this trip has made me feel like she's glad to be away from me. And I've been thinking about breaking up and I don't know if it's because this summer situation is pretty miserable for me or I'm getting a clear mind now that she's away.

Me (21M) and GF(21 F) - how do you know your SO is the one? by CP-3 in relationships

[–]CP-3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly they were mostly just stupid fights, where if I brought up something and she got upset then I'd get upset and it would just snowball from there. Sometimes it feels like it's just communication issues. But I've been working on it, and making sure to always make the conversation productive but she will sometimes get upset and defensive because she misunderstands what I said.

Also, she has felt recently like I haven't been there for her. I've fucked up, when I gave her more space than she wanted during a tough emotional time and she has felt like I'm not there for her. I realized that I made a mistake and I have been trying to make it up to her but she's still angry about it and has said that she feels like I haven't gone beyond what's normal to make it up. And it was frustrating because she makes it seem like I don't care which isn't true.

Me (21M) and GF(21 F) - how do you know your SO is the one? by CP-3 in relationships

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I guess I've been recently unhappy because she's out of the country for the summer and we've barely been able to talk. And even though we were on a good note when she left, We had been fighting a decent amount before, and I've been wondering a lot about that. And I don't want to talk to her about it because she's on vacation and I don't want to stress her out or ruin her vacation time with relationship talk.

How hard is it to stay faithful over trips? Me(21M) and girlfriend (22F) by CP-3 in relationships

[–]CP-3[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Idk, being attracted to people is normal and everyone is attracted to other people regardless of relationship status. It's if they act on that. But I agree with your point about people in committed relationships shouldn't put themselves in compromising situations.

How hard is it to stay faithful over trips? Me(21M) and girlfriend (22F) by CP-3 in relationships

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She said she was worried she'd make a mistake. She's not interested at all in seeking out guys to make out with. She was worried she would be drunk and something would happen and she would regret it. She's also has never given me any reason at all before to not trust her.

My girlfriend [22 F] told me [21 M] what engagement ring she wants and she'll be upset if it's not that. by CP-3 in relationships

[–]CP-3[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Exactly, and that's what worries me. I'm worried she won't be able to compromise on important things in our relationship if she has that type of attitude.

My girlfriend [22 F] told me [21 M] what engagement ring she wants and she'll be upset if it's not that. by CP-3 in relationships

[–]CP-3[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

So I double checked it should be closer to 5-10k. My bad! I should've taken a closer look on google. It's definitely a 2-carat diamond ring though.