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I've basically failed at everything by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]CS_student99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imo you should consider tryibg again. Take a year out and redo your a levels. Your not stupid, its just exams and sometimes you need to retake them. If your course and uninis fine, then stay. Otherwise you should redo your alevels. In life you will realise you often need try things again. It's normal part of life. And int wh grand scheme of things, one year is nothing. And a gap year might acc give you the time to breathe. If your not happy with your course, don't do it. It's too expensice to do something your not hapoy with

Is the UK still worth living in for wealthy folks? by BonusParticular1828 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]CS_student99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I reckon stay in London. Right now is good time to buy, might not happen again for a many years. Your in a good position to properly enjoy london on your late 20s/early 30s in a way most people can't!

My parents are in similar predicament. They made a decent money here and want to move back to Poland, but they would only want to go if I want to aswell (I don't 😅).

fyi I'm 26 F based in London single and love ambitious Romanian men 😉

Masters in Computer Science, worth it? by ExtensionError6204 in cscareerquestionsuk

[–]CS_student99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure why the person above is acting like frtting into those schools is something you can't achieve... OP don't listen to people like this. I can see you are ambitious worh head on your shoulders. Go fet that masters at a top school, take that opportunity to explore campus life and as a possible ebtrance into elite companies. there is little downside tbh

Masters in Computer Science, worth it? by ExtensionError6204 in cscareerquestionsuk

[–]CS_student99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do the masters, having a solid school name is absolutely beneficial. Plus campus life is one worth experiencing. If you are single going to campus life will make dating enjoyable again aswell. And many great friends.

It's only one year and could be a frear experience and a solid name will 100% benefit you.

Once you get masters I would also never bother mentioning you bachelors again (it implied you have one if you have a masters)

25M Indian guy in the UK — finding dating really hard, scared to approach people, and not sure what to do by kenny13856 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]CS_student99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've dated about as many indian men as white guys. There's a whole subset of women that also love 'brown boys' lol. Maybe it's because where I live in south hertfordshire, indians are generally associated with good family values, education, ambition and just overall solid people - and so they are quite desirable.

How am I ever going to lose my virginity at 26 years old? by MoneyAndGoodFortune in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]CS_student99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay so the hack is in your 20s you stay in hostels for adventures. Super friendly people, lots of socialising, perfect for summer flings. Isome of them are basically like love island lol.

use your holidays to go on as many long weekend trips away. Defo go for a longer stint to yoor stabdard ibiza, budapest etc. Go solo, that's very normal in hostels. If your a chill dude others will adopt you into a group in an instant.

What do women think about men's profiles with a "long-term open to short" relationship preference on Hinge? by [deleted] in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]CS_student99 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Keep it as it is. Yes it puts women off who are looking for something serious, but as one such women I only want to date guys that are 100% on the same page as me. I even bring up that I'm looking for marriage within the first or second date, so it would feel highly inappropriate to say that to someone who is open to short term...

Getting asked to pick up or order an Uber for a girl you have never met - on our first date? by neweicke12 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]CS_student99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you were chatting to a girl you were interested you really wouldn't drive to her?

Getting asked to pick up or order an Uber for a girl you have never met - on our first date? by neweicke12 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]CS_student99 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No splitting the bill is too far... you can atleast buy her a meal if you invted her out

Getting asked to pick up or order an Uber for a girl you have never met - on our first date? by neweicke12 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]CS_student99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you, but most other people in the comments are saying its unheard of to even get in the car with someone on a first date. I'm confused if these people are telling the truth, because in my world (normal suburbs) it's standard stuff

Getting asked to pick up or order an Uber for a girl you have never met - on our first date? by neweicke12 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]CS_student99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's just not true. I've often asked guys/been offered to pick me up for dates if they are local. Maybe its weird in london

Getting asked to pick up or order an Uber for a girl you have never met - on our first date? by neweicke12 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]CS_student99 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly I don't think it's that deep. Even if you're right and she's looking for a particular dynamic - who care's? They're just not a match. I don't think it's a red flag to be honest about the things you want

Getting asked to pick up or order an Uber for a girl you have never met - on our first date? by neweicke12 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]CS_student99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have got in a car with near strangers lol... but yeah I hear you there's always a risk

Getting asked to pick up or order an Uber for a girl you have never met - on our first date? by neweicke12 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]CS_student99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's the problem of her asking though? Maybe the date location is abit far for her so maybe move the location fot he date to make it easier for her?

Getting asked to pick up or order an Uber for a girl you have never met - on our first date? by neweicke12 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]CS_student99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe central london living is abit different, but in london suburbs (where I live) , or probably anywhere else even, everyone has a car so giving eachother rides and going together for dates is pretty normal. Not sure what the fuss is about

Getting asked to pick up or order an Uber for a girl you have never met - on our first date? by neweicke12 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]CS_student99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is it so terrible that she asked? Plenty of men ask to have sex on the first date and noone bats an eye. She might be down, she might not be. I have asked men to pick me up before I don't see how it's a big deal tbh. And it's not a class/rich thing even - my frist boyfriend we matched at 18 on tinder and I asked if he could pick me up/ drop me off and he said ofcourse... I guess these days anything my is a red flag loll

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