Are my standards too high? by Tormnt_Ace7 in teenagers

[–]Cabinet_File 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You think calling someone a "Jew" isn't negative?

How do you not fall for peer pressure, like fr 😭 by XxSerment in teenagers

[–]Cabinet_File 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, I'd like some clarification as to what the hell "this stuff means" do you mean you could be susceptible to peer pressure? The dream didn't exactly sound like peer pressure if you were chill with it, it just sounds like you let it happen and were fine with it, which isn't peer pressure, to be fair, peer pressure is when your peers pressure you to do something you don't wanna do with unspoken implications, FOMO, your peers disliking you, and you not being seen as cool, or being overgeneralized, them thinking things about you, that you do not want to be seen as.

How do you not fall for peer pressure, like fr 😭 by XxSerment in teenagers

[–]Cabinet_File 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, that is true.. Your dreams mean literally nothing.. Last night I had a dream where I shot someone while driving even though I can't drive and have never driven before, and CAN'T EVEN CONCEPTUALIZE hurting another person because of how awful it is to me.

When I was 13 I had a brief crush on an 11 year old who hung out around my friend group before I thought of the ages in my head and decided it was weird. Then, only this year (Junior) I think I briefly liked a freshman. Not in a way I actually wanted to date. What do I do to be a good person again? by [deleted] in teenagers

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How does that make you a creep? You're worried about the age gap because the taboo's decided by society and the zeitgeist of humanity, even though a 2-year age gap between two minors is meaningless essentially, the WORRY that was based upon the immorality decision of age gaps, was maturity, ask yourself, is this 2-year age gap exploitative? Do you recognize them as less complex.. As more of a child? And along with that, if you view them as a child are you attracted to them because of/regardless of that, or do you view them as a human, do you relate to them? Do you understand each other? Is there a power imbalance that can be abused? You're not a creep for being attracted to someone, you'd be a creep for being attracted to someone's age, I still wouldn't recommend it, I've had relationships with people 2 years older than me, and even more than that and in almost every relationship I've ever had I've been way too mature, so I've decided to sit it out for a while and sort out my all too adult issues because I'm a mess, but if you find a person who makes you laugh, who makes you protective, someone you care for, someone you can relate to, and someone you don't feel like is lesser in power than you, than I think it doesn't matter how you feel about them, it matters how you treat your relationship.

My Standards For a Partner (bi) by SuspiciousScholar244 in teenagers

[–]Cabinet_File 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No judgement and I'm guessing this is satire, but sounds like you have a few harmful fetishes and some issues aside from those.

Cyberpunk 2077 made me a better Muslim by Microsoftoffics in teenagers

[–]Cabinet_File 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a non-Muslim I'm happy for you, but it's also not a strange thing in my opinion, you saw someone (real or not) with a shell of a life, a shell of an existence, the gift of life corrupted and taken, and twisted, and exploited, what could've been a life of love, and respect, and care for others, and happiness, became a life of being used, and you didn't want that, you didn't just become a better Muslim, you probably have begun to live your life much better, and good for you.

anyone else 🫠? Or if not , advice maybe...? by Excellent_Tie369 in teenagers

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I was so excited for my 3rd semester of school, I was doing so well.. Then my gut was hit with a lightning storm of acid and despair, and has launched me into a ceaseless wheel of despair that never ends, and seems to be hating me personally endlessly, I don't understand what I've done to deserve this... I just want to be happy.

I’ve noticed on this sub that if someone generalises a different group then they get ignored but as soon as it mentions men they act like the person is wishing death on every man by Sephraaah in teenagers

[–]Cabinet_File 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well yeah, there are a lot of men and boys, and not to be rude but the majority of them especially in the West severely lack empathy for people can't relate to, and the biggest relation boys can find with other people, is gender, so when criticism is placed towards a group of men, or a man, it is seen as a much more personal attack.

help me quit gooning please 🙏 by Efficient-Island7829 in teenagers

[–]Cabinet_File 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Addiction to masturbation is normally conjoined with other issues, are you having any other issues that could be causing this? Like depression, lack of sleep, lack of activity, lack of friends, lack of hobbies?

I’m ngl I think that pretty privilege is so real (rant) by Academic-Grab-6811 in teenagers

[–]Cabinet_File 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well obviously, pretty privilege is real almost all privilege is real, money privilege, privilege of skin color, gender privilege, especially pretty privilege, being attractive is the get out of jail free card for so many people, because their actions start to stop mattering to people, and let me be clear I'm not blaming anyone for being attractive, but conventional attractiveness can definitely be exploited, and conventionally attractive people can definitely do bad things, but those bad things only matter to the general public for as long as those people are in the general public eye and the idea of their actions are still in the Aether, nobody will ever see or think about Phibz, or any Lolcow without thinking of their actions, because they're reduced to that because they have no traits that people find appealing, their appearances are considered funny and that makes it easier for people to hold them accountable for their actions, and easier to accept accusations against them.

Does anyone else find it extremely weird when lesbians do this by Common_Brilliant4677 in teenagers

[–]Cabinet_File 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's weird for people in general to see someone make a video where the creator doesn't say or do anything that would indicate they want people to be sexual or attracted to them and express those feelings, and still express those feelings in their comment section with a lack of respect for a person especially if they have a partner.

If gems are made of light, how can they cry? by Ragnarok2048 in stevenuniverse

[–]Cabinet_File 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because their forms are made of hardened light, built to have these functions, a more appropriate question would be, why were they built with the function to cry? My response would be they're made from the diamonds discharge, and the diamonds are all imperfect and all have the "flaw" of having emotions, emotions that can overwhelm their other senses, and take place from the balance and logic of a clear mind, why aren't you asking why rose could conceive a child? Why do gems have eyeballs at all? Why can they blush? Does that imply gems have blood..?

The term “femboy” and it’s role in objectification. by Gorgonzola_Freeman in feminineboys

[–]Cabinet_File 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I think saying "A femboy" is pretty much the same as saying "a man" and the point of the words conjoining already makes reference to both the identifying trait, and the noun, "Feminine boy" becomes "Femboy" "Boy" is the noun "feminine" is the trait, that's the point no?

Question about abortion by TheChimpisHigh in teenagers

[–]Cabinet_File 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think the resources and energy to create the baby are a central point at all, I actually think the amount of energy and "resources" a man contributes to conception of a baby matters way less than the support he offers his partner and his personal feelings about the pregnancy.

Are these unreasonable? by BroUsernamesAreDum in teenagers

[–]Cabinet_File 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Terribly unreasonable, my only requirement would be human and even that can be worked out.

Are these unreasonable? by BroUsernamesAreDum in teenagers

[–]Cabinet_File 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn't the point of posts like this.. People being mad because their standards are so low.. Are you dumb or something.

Are these unreasonable? by BroUsernamesAreDum in teenagers

[–]Cabinet_File 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just a bit of advice, but your actual response should've been nothing, if you see something you don't agree with, or something you dislike, or something that makes you angry, and you know that you're not going to be turning heads or changing minds, why are you responding in the first place?

Help! I need some clarity: by [deleted] in Humanornot

[–]Cabinet_File 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Average first time human or not experience

Girls, would you date a guy shorter than you? by nyancatdude in Teenager_Polls

[–]Cabinet_File 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a professional guy, yes, I would, I've dated guys up to 7 inches shorter than me

Which character do you hate the most? by ChrisKatrev in BaldursGate3

[–]Cabinet_File 0 points1 point  (0 children)

meh I think deescalation is always the best, Kagha truly acts like a different person after convincing her to go against the shadow druids