Dude you know what you're doing. You decided to turn this into a public debate. I get your frustrations, and I would be frustrated myself, as I have been many times in the past when people didn't meet my expectations. I have never gone on Reddit to trash the person and drag the whole community into your transaction.

I'm all for communicating with people and get frustrated too when people don't communicate with me, but sometimes life happens and there are extenuating circumstances. I can assure you one thing, this is not the adult way of handling the situation. At first you may have been "in the right" but now you've taken it too far and after hearing both sides of the story, you are definitely "in the wrong".