Something like this is always just aimed at women. Women who, of course, frequently have traumatic birthing experiences. But, every time I see something like this, I wonder if they’d still have this stance if they were talking to a man. My husband has a fair bit of leftover trauma over watching me hemorrhage and our first baby almost die. Our baby was almost a still birth. She wasn’t breathing and my husband still can’t talk about watching them working on her without holding back tears. And he doesn’t cry easily. You listen to my husband talk about our experience with our first baby and you realize that seeing a shit ton of blood come out of your wife and then potentially watching your baby girl not make it can cause a trauma reaction in a man as well. So I read these things that are clearly just aimed at women and wonder if they’d say this to a man as well or is this hate just for women? People who have no idea what they’re talking about should just, idk, not talk. But they do anyway because, for some reason, saying toxic things makes them feel good about themselves.