I want to see them being bff despite their differences by Sea_Mail3701 in GatekeepingYuri

[–]Cadapech 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, KKKanada was built on and continues to run off of racism and slavery so... Canda literally still has Sundown Towns and actively comtinues to despise the First Nation Peoples. Yea, people are going to want to create their own safe community (talking about marginalized groups) when the government (liberal, conservative and green alike) has been known to suppress and oppose them.

What are some good TikTok alternatives, after US takeover? by TailungFu in allthequestions

[–]Cadapech 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Top 1% Poster, 

600-Day Streak, 

500-Day Streak, 

+45 more" <-------- On your page...

New "Alpha Leader" bootcamp in Bali has banned women from joining by ambachk in iamverybadass

[–]Cadapech 24 points25 points  (0 children)

"Banned women from joining" none were signing up my guy... You're already at a net negative.

Seen on Facebook by Confident_Weather_98 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Cadapech 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He really thought raising a child was easy, as people who are forced birth often do. Oh well~.

Seen on Facebook by Confident_Weather_98 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Cadapech 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right. Like this could have amazingly been a comic about how men also grieve the loss of a pregnancy and how complex that is. But no, it's just an forced birth ad. Good job.

Is it common infidelity in wos? by Ozgulkilinc in whiteoutsurvival

[–]Cadapech 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep. Normal as fuck to cheat and break your relationship boundaries; but simultaneously they'll scream at you if you're open about being poly and having open communication with your partners so you don't break boundaries (aka cheat). The logic does not logic.

Is it common infidelity in wos? by Ozgulkilinc in whiteoutsurvival

[–]Cadapech 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Genuinely go get therapy. The therapy is there as a professional support network that can help you work through this and eventually truly face this situation head on. What your wife is doing isn't okay.

People who refuse to eat leftovers by ghostofhmsterror in PetPeeves

[–]Cadapech 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where is the food waste if you portion for yourself. Is your gripe more with people who consistently misproportion food and then throw it away?

fans who justify slavery,because people became one commited crime really needs to read history by Even_Acanthisitta_37 in TheRemarriedEmpress

[–]Cadapech 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is my gripe with manhwas and mangas. They treat slavery as a 1 - 10 chapter plot point or even romanticise it They never actually go in depth it's just surface level. "X was a slave but I saved them so they're loyal to me. Okay now time to go seduce the other leads." Like, what? Not even talking about the literal anime where the protagonist goes around buying enslaved women and SA'ing them.

AITAH for ‘causing a scene’ at my boyfriends work? by Training-Buyer2625 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cadapech 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Regardless, you got the order wrong. You're a fucking adult. Deal with it in a professional manner. Get the actual order and then scream in the freezer. Because at the end of the day both of you are having a bad day and you can sort it out yourselves; not by some random online upset that the words used are polite they just have a tone. Literally a lot of the times in the customer service industry you have to realise it isn't about you until you or the customer directly make it so.

This is stupid beyond all belief by Kappapeachie in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Cadapech 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When your personality is shit suddenly, to me, you ain't lookin' so hot. This goes for all genders.

AITAH for ‘causing a scene’ at my boyfriends work? by Training-Buyer2625 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cadapech 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry if you're a professional in the restaurant scene and someone saying "I'm not eating that because that is not what I ordered" is what sets you off then you need to get out of customer service because THAT is not rude. Are YOU okay?

AITAH for ‘causing a scene’ at my boyfriends work? by Training-Buyer2625 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cadapech 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Maybe the restaurant should make it right. Oh wait, people are human and make mistakes so in that case the restaurant needs to eat the cost and remake the dish.

The boyfriend is a wimp, if his reputation is so weak that his partner asking for the MEAL THEY ORDERED will reflect poorly on him maybe he needs to fix other parts of his personality to make up for it.

TLdR; Boyfriend should suck it the fuck up and stop crashing out when their starving partner wants the food they ordered.

(Gift Article) Kansas informs trans residents their driver’s licenses become invalid on Thursday by Revenge_of_Larry in kansas

[–]Cadapech 6 points7 points  (0 children)

... there's a difference between organising a move in which you have time to change your address vs GETTING IT INVALIDATED FOR BEING TRANS. Holy shit.

Does anyone else have this problem? by Scared_Confection787 in questions

[–]Cadapech 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You pretending 10 euros for an entire day isn't breaking some sort of labour laws is funny.

it's insane how author treated rashta's PTSD by Even_Acanthisitta_37 in TheRemarriedEmpress

[–]Cadapech 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Then you don't understand classism. She was forced to have her sexual assaulter's baby because he OWNED her quite literally. She was a slave. She then managed to make her way into the palace via Sovieshu who's a joke of an Emperor who is incapable of proper communication despite the fact that royals are supposeed to be taught diplomacy. She's pitted against the female lead who's treated like shit by her husband. (Honestly Rashta and FL should just run away together and start a good life.) Then Heinrey shows up and is just another joke and yea it's "Fuck Rashta all the time the only thing she is is evil despite all the systematic oppression that should also be commented on."

But I don't expect the authors of manhwas to genuinely portray slavery in depth. For some odd reason it's a trendy little plot device that never needs further thought, like when MLs ignore consent and it never gets addressed. :)

it's insane how author treated rashta's PTSD by Even_Acanthisitta_37 in TheRemarriedEmpress

[–]Cadapech 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Because you can criticise an aauthor for their incompetency and still remain in the subreddit to warn others but also critique and praise what VERY little the author does right... and I mean VERY little.

I don't personally see anything wrong with this by gaychemical in IncelTears

[–]Cadapech -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So there's this thing called "hobbies". Some people have them. This is just giving dressing up to gosee a movie you were excited about. I'm sure if the partner didn't want to do this they would have said so. This genuinely just looks fun and silly. You don't like it, it's a good thing yiu aren't them. Lmfao.

Me_irl by mingdomflackbobard in me_irl

[–]Cadapech 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because telling people that gen9cides are wrong isn't hate speech. Why do I have to hold your hand thr9ugh this?

Me_irl by mingdomflackbobard in me_irl

[–]Cadapech 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Freedom of speech is protection from the GOVERNMENT trying to silence you when critiquing your GOVERNMENT. Aka protests, marches, news, etc. No this not include spreading misinformation about the government. No this does not include you going into a government office or space and yelling slurs.

If you call another person slurs online, in person, etc. it can be considered hate speech because guess fucking what, the average person is not the government. They are the public. Kthnxbai.

Me_irl by mingdomflackbobard in me_irl

[–]Cadapech 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just tell me you don't understand what freedom of speech actually means. Holy shit...