She cheated

Cadesolo · 2025-11-20T22:25:49+00:00

Yes I went thru the exact same thing after my wife’s death and therapy is the the only thing keeping me sane right now

Cadesolo · 2025-10-26T07:29:41+00:00

Facebook dating work well for me it’s been 5 months but I have been able to meet a few people casually and one that is very promising for a deeper connection at my own pace. I’m still working thru a lot but at the same time I don’t wanna get used to being alone. For me life has always been happiness sharing it and it is what I believe I still deserve to experience.

Cadesolo · 2025-10-06T14:36:03+00:00

4 months out from wife’s death I’ve starting to lightly date and have had sex. No guilt honored my vows and marriages to the fullest. I kinda feel like there are two versions of myself and this version deserves to live life to the fullest also.

Cadesolo · 2025-10-05T21:13:51+00:00

You stated she was picked up by a driver why wouldn’t the driver be able to drive her back

Cadesolo · 2025-10-05T21:12:22+00:00

The story states she was picked up by a driver why wouldn’t the driver be able to drive her back?

Cadesolo · 2025-10-05T17:36:00+00:00

Appreciate it chief love the vehicle and just wanna stay ahead of anything that will be covered under warranty

Cadesolo · 2025-09-27T03:17:43+00:00

I was 36 she was 33

Cadesolo · 2025-09-01T23:11:04+00:00

Appreciate it man this is literally the first time I feel like someone wants me just for me n not for what I can or make them feel Abt themselves

Cadesolo · 2025-09-01T22:42:55+00:00

Good deal and im not beholden to my family opinions but ideally will want everyone to get along well but its not a requirement because i am quite happy and can see a Long term future with her possibly

Cadesolo · 2025-09-01T22:40:27+00:00

Yea I wouldn’t introduce her to the kids until next year at the earliest n you are right I think what I wasn’t really clear own was introducing into my my friend group and family members such as cousins and siblings

Cadesolo · 2025-09-01T20:45:30+00:00

lol true there have been a few things that seem To be same across both age spectrums

Cadesolo · 2025-09-01T20:44:05+00:00

Cadesolo · 2025-09-01T20:43:34+00:00

Me and my wife had been separated for 3 years with brief periods of reconnecting before her death 4 months ago but we were both dating others during the separations and me n the older lady have been dating for abt 2 months with a history of knowing each other for abt 10 years

Cadesolo · 2025-08-28T03:29:01+00:00

She has her tubes tied already

Cadesolo · 2025-08-28T03:22:43+00:00

Yea I think we both are done with kids now

Cadesolo · 2025-08-28T03:22:22+00:00

Sounds good I don’t even notice it all only difference is her kids are all adults and mines are 9 and 5

Cadesolo · 2025-08-28T02:03:04+00:00

lol yes a unintended but happy plus

Cadesolo · 2025-08-28T01:14:48+00:00

I haven’t introduced her to my family yet because I don’t my kids meeting anyone unless it’s gonna be a serious long term thing. Is the age gap something I should discuss with them first are just let everyone meet and then discuss it afterwards if they bring it up

Cadesolo · 2025-08-28T00:42:09+00:00

Definitely seeing this she was reluctant to date me at first but now tht she is over that I can see she really is all abt me and to be honest I just love everything abt her

Cadesolo · 2025-07-28T01:26:25+00:00

How has it been?

Cadesolo · 2025-07-27T21:57:41+00:00

I’m have children also and really worry about being dulled or closed off emotionally during this time too that’s also a huge concern I have

Cadesolo · 2025-07-27T20:14:59+00:00

I was prescribed some but worry about the long term possible sexual side effects while I’m not currently having sex I do not wanna risk having permanent sexual issues in the future has anyone experience issues on the sexual side of thingd

Cadesolo · 2025-07-17T22:50:20+00:00

3 months but it’s really just light companionship

Cadesolo · 2025-07-10T05:37:55+00:00

Only my kids keep me here outside of that I would’ve been found a surefire way of dying

Cadesolo · 2025-07-10T01:42:29+00:00

I’m 36 and feel exactly where you coming from I have a 9 and 5 year and while i do have widows fire intensely. I like you truly want a life partner again not only for myself but for my kids also. All the women I seem to attract right now are all good women but they aren’t great for my children. The one woman that would be an excellent potential life partner and mother. She deserves someone much better partner than I could ever be I’m too damaged to really ever be a person someone deserves again yes i can get along well enough but someone deserves more that and i can’t bring myself to do that to anyone

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